Is it ok to get a lil starter girlfriend or wife, then upgrade once you career takes off?

[DrX]

naw ill keep my 6.....material things are meaningless

 

[Ashley Banks]

you do know that only works if you already have clout

Worked out perfectly for me.

 

[Mensch Fontana]

You lost already if youre wifing up bytches #gmb

 

[the cac mamba]

You ever heard of Palimony? In some states they will award her half of your dough simply because you lived with each other or were involved for x amount of years....especially if she can provode proof of you cheating....ne best to just do your solo thing until you settle down.....you don't play with fire breh....wake up with your dikk laying next to you one morning

jesus fukkin christ

 

[DrDoom]

Absolutely women do it off necessity. We should be able to out of right

 

[chowism]

Girls do it. Fat chicks lose weight then suddenly "fall out of love" with their loser boyfriends.

Copy of women brehs

 

[chowism]

If y'all cool with ditching a chick who is down for you because of an "upgrade", you can no longer complain about black women who ditch black men because they feel white men or men of other races are upgrades. None of you nikkas can complain about wenches.

 

[KOOL-AID]

Yea date black, marry white

 

[Larry Lambo]

It's foul.

That's why I don't settle to begin with.

If you can't be with her as a billionaire, then don't be with her as a broke dude.

I only date chicks with nice bodies and at least above average faces. Even if I do "blow up" my chick already fine, so it's no need for me to "upgrade".

Now this is for my 25 and up crowd. For the youngins, a starter chick that you are meh about, can still be a good thing. But once you get your notches in, it's only brauds that you think are bad in one way or another.

 

[wickedsm]

It makes sense. If you're a female who was with a dude when he had nothing, he's gonna look at you as a low value chick when he finally gets put on. Like, "you still wanted me when I wasn't shyt, so you must not be shyt yourself. "



If you're a regular dude with a chick from day one, you should already know she's going to upgrade when she gets a chance.

These hoes ain't loyal
AND
These loyal hoes ain't shyt

 

[Rekkapryde]

On topic yes, especially if the upgrade can improve you're life/hand you new opportunities beyond looks.

If the Day One cooks, cleans, takes care of you, is a good person, etc. And the upgrade doesn't, don't do it.
Upgrade all aspects, not just looks.

So many cats take the L on the bolded

 

[J.E.T.S]

Yes. It's fine. We just eat a lil appetizer until we can afford the filet mignon.

I'd give my day 1 some money and a option to stay with me while I fukk all the bad bytches I've always wanted.

 

[StarGirl]

It makes sense. If you're a female who was with a dude when he had nothing, he's gonna look at you as a low value chick when he finally gets put on. Like, "you still wanted me when I wasn't shyt, so you must not be shyt yourself. "

If you're a regular dude with a chick from day one, you should already know she's going to upgrade when she gets a chance.

Also, the irony

Girls do it. Fat chicks lose weight then suddenly "fall out of love" with their loser boyfriends.

 

[Originalman]

These hoes ain't loyal
AND
These loyal hoes ain't shyt

 

[Originalman]

When you in the hood

When you in the 6 figure club

When you secured the bag