Is it ok to get a lil starter girlfriend or wife, then upgrade once you career takes off?

[wickedsm]

so are any of yall "upgraders" gonna have kids ?
gonna upgrade wives leave adapt to part time fatherhood?
or gonna wait till like level up 3 wife to have children?

im just curious.

 

[Shabazz]

Personally, if they don't support u at ur worst, they don't deserve u at ur best.
And that goes for friends, family, relationships etc.

If ur dumb enuff to disregard realness while surrounding urself with a bunch of snakes in the grass, u can't complain about anybody.

The irony is that the biggest a$$holes are also the biggest whiners. Most didn't want a good relationship, they were just mad at being rejected and not getting an opportunity to shyt on somebody else. Lmao! And as always that goes for male or females. Appreciate those who appreciate u. But I know people not gonna take that advice b/c like I said before a lot of people aren't dating for love. Rather some of ya'll got something to prove. Ur self-esteem is low so you fantasize about the day when u can "show" that dude in high school or that chick on the band that he/she should've chose u.
U really trying to date ur way out of the hate and insecurity u feel about urself.
Don't settle but don't think quality can be bought either.

damn

 

[Diyhai]

1st baby mama always the ugly one

 

[International Playa]

Kevin Hart done the same, 1st babymama was

When money started rolling in, he upgraded. Look at that ass



Old babymama still getting paid of that childsupport tho

You can tell how much money a man makes by how beautiful his wife is.

 

[Diyhai]

dem breasts tho, harvey was livin dat life

he paid for them he better enjoy them

 

[Henri Christophe]

so are any of yall "upgraders" gonna have kids ?
gonna upgrade wives leave adapt to part time fatherhood?
or gonna wait till like level up 3 wife to have children?

im just curious.

Get married more than once, rich brehs


If the first marriage flopped, you might as well retire from the marriage game entirely if you're a man with money.


Men with money shouldn't get married at all, unless it's the day one.. and even then, its still a gamble if she ain't matching your hustle and gettin money just like you cause she could just bleed you dry if things flop.

If you haven't been blessed to have a day one, just be a bachelor like drake

Marriage was designed for regular folks to combine and grow their resources and provide stability for children

Men with money have no use for marriage if they don't want kids or don't have a day one rider by their side.... all these women are leeches if they met you after you came up

That's just how I feel

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

The concept of actually marrying somebody that you plan to ditch after "blowing up" is ridiculous.

But in terms of relationships, it's fairly common for both men and women to do. Women tend to do it less, but they are also in a better position to just have f**k buddies until they get where they want to be. Even then, I've known plenty of women that have been in relationships with Mr. Right Now. Dudes got thrown to the bushes once she lost weight, moved to a bigger city, or the dude she really wanted started to show interest.

For some men that's still better than what else they had going on at the time. It would just be better if the woman had told them the deal straight up than leading him on to thinking there was a possibility for more. But men will sign up for casual sex pretty much anytime, so there's no reason for a woman to sell that dream. More than likely she was just to afraid to tell him her intentions and he assumed that she wanted a relationship.

I was in a situation like this. I was very wet behind the ears at the time, I was really head over heels. She just needed some senior year dikk. When it all ended I was distraught and hurt, but now with some time and experience, looking back I don't blame her. We had a little fun, shyt was headed nowhere fast.... I now just enjoy it for what it was. If I knew then what I know now though I wouldn't have passed at the opportunity to fukk her roommates

It's hard to keep shyt funky in situations like this though. U know how it is. Nobody wants to feel disposable

 

[#1 pick]

Personally, if they don't support u at ur worst, they don't deserve u at ur best.
And that goes for friends, family, relationships etc.

If ur dumb enuff to disregard realness while surrounding urself with a bunch of snakes in the grass, u can't complain about anybody.

The irony is that the biggest a$$holes are also the biggest whiners. Most didn't want a good relationship, they were just mad at being rejected and not getting an opportunity to shyt on somebody else. Lmao! And as always that goes for male or females. Appreciate those who appreciate u. But I know people not gonna take that advice b/c like I said before a lot of people aren't dating for love. Rather some of ya'll got something to prove. Ur self-esteem is low so you fantasize about the day when u can "show" that dude in high school or that chick on the band that he/she should've chose u.
U really trying to date ur way out of the hate and insecurity u feel about urself.
Don't settle but don't think quality can be bought either.

While this first sentence is terrible due to M. Monroe and her fans, it's the truth in this case. Dudes on this site act like females. A bunch of suckers who should change from boxers to a thong. You marry your ace, you only sex those who you have no interest in if you have sex with them at all as it can be deadly.

Facts. I've never complained about beautiful women going after successful men. It's part of societal progress. Now if she's willing to accept to be a wealthy man's jumpoff with nothing in return, that's a different story. But if she legitimately has a wealthy man actually "courting" her then I'm behind her 100%. Get that baller. To the victors go the spoils.

Problem with today's society is we have women throwing themselves at rich men, and not requiring him to put in any effort (knowing or assuming he won't). It's one thing to hope and put yourself in position to be chose by a baller. It's another thing to offer the P no-strings-attached and then be salty when he pumps and dumps you.

Aka, you want women to move from men who choose up or have no interest in them which makes them bitter when they could choose someone who wants them.

To me, both men and women tend to have the same problem, the difference is, how you guys perceptive the other sex is usually dead wrong and stupid.

This is why we got bitter Jane's and GMBs because y'all think what y'all want the opposite sex to be instead of what they are

 

[Londilon]

Only if its ok that women get starter boyfriends/husbands and then dump once they find someone they really want.

 

[Diyhai]

If you get with a man when he's not where he wants to be in life, he's not gonna want to be with you when he gets there.

this nonsense all about a person character
He can be where he at when u meet him and he will only think u wit him cuz of where he is at and treat u the same
Just deal with people who have good character

 

[Henri Christophe]

Only if its ok that women get starter boyfriends/husbands and then dump once they find someone they really want.

Boss bytches do it every day.

Broke women... not so much.... unless she dime status.

 

[The Emperor]

They say you can outgrow a person and/or relationship.

Dwayne Wade did.

"From fishsticks to the Oceanaire"





Let's say youre young and broke and you meet a decent chick that works at TJ Maxx. Ya'll date for 3 or 4 years. Now you're make 6 figures, have a 6 pack, 6 certs and been eyeing that new 6 series grand coupe'. Your girl is a 6, but now you got 7s and 8s on your jock.

Is it time to upgrade your whole life?





Can you really be driving this

And your girl driving this?

How you gon look jumpstarting her car in the TJMaxx parking lot

Dwayne wife was cheating on him.

 

[Henri Christophe]

You a sucka if you leave your queen for a beautiful broke joint.

You only supposed to replace your queen with a millionaire. Nothing less.

And even then. It's still some sucka shyt... but I'd understand... still sucka shyt tho.

My girl done so much for me, imma make sure she stunting on everybody for life.

 

[Elvira Sol]

This is why I'm all for women doing whatever the hell they please when it comes to men and relationships.

 

[Ashley Banks]

this nonsense all about a person character
He can be where he at when u meet him and he will only think u wit him cuz of where he is at and treat u the same
Just deal with people who have good character

It's only worked in my favor but I have my own money and I don't ask for anything either and I spoil the guys I date, so maybe that helps.