Is it ok to get a lil starter girlfriend or wife, then upgrade once you career takes off?

[AquaCityBoy]

Only an idiot and morally bankrupt individual would do such a thing.

Women aren't cars. They have feelings... and more importantly than that they can cost you money once you part ways. If you can't imagine someone being good enough for you when you move up in life, don't raise their expectations and create a financial obligation.

Shut up simp

 

[How Sway?]

I wont be married until I become washed up and feel like being monogamous

you dont have to be married breh, all it takes is one mistake and she gets pregnant and leaves you, if she's savvy enough.

That's an 18 year L brehski

 

[How Sway?]

a starter wife is fukkin pointless unless shes just not compatible and you both grow apart. that's the only legit reason.

A starter gf though? hey it happens people grow

 

[Diyhai]

you dont have to be married breh, all it takes is one mistake and she gets pregnant and leaves you, if she's savvy enough.

That's an 18 year L brehski

not even 18, lifetime bruh person a part of ur life till one of yall die lol

 

[Londilon]

Boss bytches do it every day.

Broke women... not so much.... unless she dime status.

 

[5n0man]

Since forever? Plenty of women date down and take care of dudes if they feel they have other qualities they enjoy?

Yet money issues is the number 1 cause of devorce with women being the majority to file

 

[blackzeus]

You ever heard of Palimony? In some states they will award her half of your dough simply because you lived with each other or were involved for x amount of years....especially if she can provode proof of you cheating....ne best to just do your solo thing until you settle down.....you don't play with fire breh....wake up with your dikk laying next to you one morning

24 states officially reject palimony, plus there has to be an oral/written agreement. But yeah you f*ck a girl good for 7+ years and just wanna up and leave one day you might leave your d*ck behind with you

 

[blackzeus]

Ur supposed to upgrade those around u once u get on, at least those closest to u.

#holdyaownnuts

 

[blackzeus]

Find a HQ chick from the jump.

Don't settle down with a broad early on with bad physical genetics and low ambition.

Don't trade up for a bytch that didn't struggle witcha nor build nothing with you neither. She can't be trusted.

I'd trust a Gabby Union over Dwayne Wade's ex what is you smokin? Rich self made dyme > average day one. The real mistake is that day one in the first place. She probably makes your road to success harder than it should have been. The moral of the story should be to get to where you want to be before you commit to a chick.

 

[blackzeus]

A man without principles or honor. Shout out to real nikkas like LeBron James and Denzel Washington. Some of you nikkas are like females with how you operate.

Both these nikkaz get theirs on the side though Shout out to day ones who know what it takes to keep a baller

 

[Woman of god]

#holdyaownnuts

No one truly makes it on their own. What's wrong with extending a hand to bring the next man up?

 

[blackzeus]

No one truly makes it on their own. What's wrong with extending a hand to bring the next man up?

They might pull you back down

I get the vibe you are a decent person so what I am saying doesn't really apply to you. Some women create such a sense of home that it doesn't matter what the catch of the day looks like, they can't replicate that same warmth in the soul that a good woman can give. But unfortunately that's very rare, most women are in a relationship because that's who they know and that's who they f*ck, not because of any deeper connection. So yes, those women unfortunately have to hold their own nuts when a breh gets on

 

[Hard Times Nakamura]

I'd trust a Gabby Union over Dwayne Wade's ex what is you smokin? Rich self made dyme > average day one. The real mistake is that day one in the first place. She probably makes your road to success harder than it should have been. The moral of the story should be to get to where you want to be before you commit to a chick.

Unfortunately just because a Woman has her own doesn't mean she won't spend yours. This is the biggest fallacy and a Woman's greed knows no bounds.

However, when she helped build it and put blood, sweat and tears into what tall got from the jump, she's gonna be a LOT more careful...

 

[blackzeus]

Unfortunately just because a Woman has her own doesn't mean she won't spend yours. This is the biggest fallacy and a Woman's greed knows no bounds.

However, when she helped build it and put blood, sweat and tears into what tall got from the jump, she's gonna be a LOT more careful...

What alimony did the nickolodeon cat pay to Mariah? Rich b*tches only breh. They take care of themselves better, got they own bread. Especially a self made actress, that's one of the hardest industries to break into, let alone for a black woman. Gabby Union is 1 out of a 1000, maybe 1 out of a million, your average day one is 1 out of 10 breh, she AVERAGE.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

This is why I'm all for women doing whatever the hell they please when it comes to men and relationships.

You say that now but vice versa you start crying foul play