
I heard a quote, "life hardens those who are soft, and softens those who are hard"
For this instance this quote can mean that even if you're "mr nice guy/jacket over puddle", in life you're gonna encounter situation(s) with some women where you HAVE to be an a$$hole or jerk. But at the same time, you can't live in that zone(tho some guys do) and be an a$$hole/jerk to almost every woman.
If life/universe in general is about finding & achieving some sort of balance to things, then what say you brehs?