I slept on the couch pretty much the whole time I lived on my own. During the years my wife and I were dating I’d only sleep in my bed on the nights she stayed over. Pretty much my room was just shelving for EBay items and a closet lol. Now that we are married I’ve made a conscious effort to stay in bed more, but I still end up waking up in the middle of the night and can’t go back to sleep unless I go to the couch. If I know I won’t fall back then I’ll go to the couch so my phone light isn’t shining in bed. She knows the deal at this point. If I’m in bed long enough for her to fall asleep at night she’s happy. She wants to buy a Purple mattress though. I’m like why the hell pay all that money for something I barely use. That one’s on you.