Is it weird that my wife and I sleep in different beds?

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That's actually common in Japan due to sleep being cherished over there. To keep it a stack, I'd probably be on that type of time if I ever do get married.

Lack of quality sleep can lead to all sorts of problems.
 

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No it is not weird. If you keep a clean room, but your wife doesn't then that can be problematic. If your wife tosses and turns in her sleep, but you don't then you will never feel rested. If your wife likes a really warm room in order to sleep, but you need a cool room in order to sleep then that is a problem.
 

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It's weird without context.

The reasons you give are fair enough IMO :yeshrug:
 

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My wife and I cannot sleep in the same bed peacefully. We have separate rooms and beds. Im a light sleeper. She snores and has audiobooks playing in background. She sleep with heating pads while i like the bed cool and I always have a fan on. She likes her little dog sleeping next to her and dont trust her since she peed on my pillow :pachaha::martin:.She has to get 8 hours a night to function while i good with like 5. We’re both miserable when when try to sleep together. Despite sleeping apart we don’t lack intimacy. Expecting our first child end of summer. But some of my fam thinks it weird :yeshrug:





Its probably not half as uncommon as folks believe or would be willing to admit.

Weird is subjective. In my mind its kinda weird for outsiders who are not paying ones bills or contributing somehow to speak on their marriage, house hold, and lifestyle right down to their sleeping arrangements. Yet it must seem perfectly normal to a lot of people, those fam u mention just being one example.

End of day, guess people are just weird:manny:
 
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