Is It WEIRD To Be A 21 Y/O VIRGIN? (WHY?): I KNOW A LOT Of Virgins My Age

[TXTrill1]

My dude said..."Well I get to have a purity ring."

 

[1 other person]

This guy I was dating at the time. Didn't last 15 minutes. LOL!

Did you have a long term relationship with him? Do you still have feelings for him?

 

[Paradise]

Did you have a long term relationship with him? Do you still have feelings for him?

Nope... it was short lived. But I only had sex with him one time. No I haven't thought about him since 2004. LOL.

 

[SirReginald]

 

[LurkMoar]

Aint no shame in it if its by choice, shows self control.






If its not

 

[Turk]

yo got any leads on that, if i can convert sexual energy in straight focus/concentration i can literally go 0-100 in all the shyt i do

Sivananda: Questions about Sexual Energy

bserve strict continence in thought, word and deed. Give up thinking useless and vain thoughts. Keep balance of mind in all conditions and circumstances, contemplating the Divine. Practice [the preliminary yogic postures of] Sirshasan, Sarvangasan and Oordhva Padmasan, besides Viparitakarani Mudra. Preserve the energy by constantly repeating the Name of the Lord, doing intense Japa [mantra repetition] and Meditation, and study of the [scriptures] Gita, the Bhagavata, the Ramayana and the like. Develop Viveka [discrimination], Vairagya [dispassion] and Vichara [reflection]. As dispassion increases, so is the vital energy not allowed to leak out. The greater the Vairagya (non-attachment to worldly objects) the more secure will be the semen. The more the preservation of semen, the greater will be the transmutation into Ojas [spiritual energy] which means abundant physical, mental, moral and spiritual strength and quick evolution. Pranayam [breathing exercises] helps a lot in gaining control over the physical machinery and the mind. To have control over the mind means to have control over the Prana Sakti [energy] and prevent Veerya [semen] from being let out. To have control over this masculine power means to have abundant Ojas which enables the aspirant to glow spiritually. Intense Sadhana [practice], with the desires reduced to the barest minimum, will sublimate the sexual energy into spiritual energy.

 

[SirReginald]

I should have gone after that puss that was thrown at me in HS doe

 

[Insun Park]

Dawg...how are there so many dudes coming up that are virgins in their 20s?
Are you all awkward? Introverted? cking social skills? Afraid of women? Afraid of sex? Afraid of intimacy? Too much internet?

Cause I was probably the biggest fukking dork on this board back in the day and pretty much a social outcast in high school(and still am in varying degrees) and I st[ill managed to lose my virginity at 19...and I think that's late to lose it.

I'd say, if you haven't lost your virginity between the ages of 16-19, your 20s will be an uphill struggle with women. Sorry to break it to you.

I live with my parents and haven't been trying as a result. Am saving up for moving out thogh

 

[Trill McClay]

Lost my virginity when I was 22. Best 2 minute experience of my life.

 

[mortuus est]

I was still a virgin at 21 because I was waiting for marriage.

 

[HoldThisL]

I'm about to hit 22

I would say why but people wouldn't believe me.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Like straight up I feel like alot of dudes waste their time being so sex obsessed too...and how sex obsessed and oversexed this society has become has really disgusted me honestly. I visited a tube site out of curiosity and was just disgusted...how do you look at that stuff? With all of those penis pill ads with guy's junks out (I don't want to see that), and all of thesse gif ads with people having hardcore sex in them for brazzers or whatever company that's the hot shyt right now. And I know with it just a click away it's obtainable so it made it less valuable to me. When porn was hard to find it seemed more valuable, now it's not. I'm aware that world exists with all sorts of crazy sometimes hot and arousing stuff to look at, but is that something you really want to have on your mind all the time imposing your relationships in real life and warping your views of reality and women? And reducing them to solely sex objects? And you wonder why the majority fo this site pulls no women. They aren't into sex obsessed porn hounds...like the creepy kinds. And porn makes men "creepy" as fukk...cause you're watching these of these created situations that mirror reality on film that are made sexual so men try to find the sexual situation in every aspect possible...that's why so many porn genres come up. When you try to sexualize every part of a woman and every situation possible.

Yall in JBO stay fapping to watching other men have sex with the women you want to have sex with...you can't even watch porn with your friends or when you have company over. Why are you watching other people have sex? I don't want to see that. The only person I want to see having sex is me and the girl I'm with.

It's like...that shyt is loserish. You spend more time jerking off to a fantasy than you do actually trying to make that fantasy into reality. Spending so many hours trying to find scenes to fap to, then actually going out and having quality relationships with women and learning how to be a better man.

And I hate this society of how men try to shame other men for not going out and dominating women sexually....and that builds resentment towards women and men who are actually having sex with women...that's how you end up with the Elliot Rodgers of the world.

If you are gonna simp leave it in the salon.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

If you are gonna simp leave it in the salon.

If you're gonna be a masturbating loser, leave it in JBO.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

If you're gonna be a masturbating loser, leave it in JBO.

Can't friend your way into the p*ssy

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

i didn't lose my virginity until about your age as well. that's why when i see people talking about how they lost theirs at 14,15, or even younger and then see how they lust for or get the idea that they NEED to chase or are suppose to chase women, i understand why they developed that tendency. but i've never chased for it, just waited and it came to me. and from that point on til today, that's still the card i play.