Is It WEIRD To Be A 21 Y/O VIRGIN? (WHY?): I KNOW A LOT Of Virgins My Age

wickedsm

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lol why wouldn't you believe him? There are A LOT more male virgins out there over the age of 21.







And none of them are ugly or have any type of deformity. Kent is at a disadvantage among them though given he's like 5'2-5'4.

I think they don't get laid cause they chasing the chicks that don't want them while being completely oblivious to the ones that do.

They claim that women don't check them out at all but I don't believe that, especially on a college campus :shaq2: Only like one of them,

(the half black half white dude) has the swag, personality, etc to pull sistas tho. I see a lot of uglier, nerdier looking dudes on my college campus

and I doubt they even talk to women. Being a male virgin isn't hard if you are an average dude.


its not really the virgin part that i dont believe
its more that he jokes alot on here.
-if that makes any sense
 

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OP what are you waiting for breh? I was the same as you until I saw the fine sistas in college. I was wrapped up in a mess in high school plus a lack of confidence and a fear of rejection stopped me from getting laid.

Bro, you are in college son. You don't gotta smash random chicks, just get you one solid chick that you can chill and sex with. If you are waiting for the "special one" you ain't gon find it cause it don't exist bruh. And you need experience when it comes to relationships.

Even if you ain't smashing, at least talk and date girls then :snoop:
 

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Why would you decide to not have sex? It's just another one of life's pleasures that you're missing out...
I lost mine at 15, don't regret it. I advise that you think about the future rather than the present. You never know how many opportunities you'll miss that you might not get again in your older age:manny:
Breh, it'll happen I had chicks throwing it at me in highschool. I just didn't act on it because I wasn't interested then.
 

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Bro, how did you go through 3-4 years of college and was still waiting for "the one"?

You didn't date or meet any cool chicks in all your years of college that you would be more then willing to have sex with?
 

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I can respect that 100%:ehh::ld::obama::myman:

If you're more interested in getting that paper and focusing on your studies then yes, sex will become a major distraction and women and all of that.

That's personally not for me though at this point in time, but I have to atleast say that I respect those that don't let the temptations of the flesh run their lives. I feel too many dudes sell themselves short and waste too much time and money trying to chase ass and failing miserably and that could of been heavily invested in other things. It's like with any feeling. Sure, the feeling of getting laid or getting high might be great, but then you are constantly chasing that high and allowing your hormones and emotions and urges overrun you.

This is why I don't watch porn anymore. The shyt is stupid. I don't care to watch other people have sex. And another thing, in this oversexualized climate of society, alot of people do not respect the fact that alot of people aren't interested in sex or don't care to disclose their sex lives to everyone and anyone. I don't get it. It's like they don't understand that people aren't like them. And sex is a very uncomfortable topic for alot of people, and understandably so. Too many emotions and other things involved that can truly distort one's perceptions of life and humanity and the opposite sex. It's important to focus on you first and foremost and your own goals and desires, then everything else will come easy (no pun intended).
I'm sure the OP watches porn and beats his shyt though. If he didn't then that's another story. He needs to go at least a month without watching porn and busting nuts and then see if he wants to have sex or not (if he can last that long).
 

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honestly who cares. thinking about it is just gonna prevent you from getting some p*ssy. go out there and get it breh.
 
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