Is it WISE to avoid women that have a history of being dogged out and abused?

[SheWantTheD]

Are you an abusive man? If not then it most likely won't work out. What the woman needs to do is take time off of relationships, heal and work on herself.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Personally when I hear sob story from women about how their ex cheated, disrespected her and/or beat her, i get turned off and ask her

why did it take you so long to leave him?

Honestly i wouldnt want a woman that would allow me to shyt on her like that. I like a woman that is accustomed to being respected and admired.


On top of that ive heard of simps strapping on their capes, rescuing these battered women and the woman cheating with her abusive ex.

GMB

Yes. I don't deal with damaged dudes so I wouldn't recommend a dude do it with women. A lot of times people who are broken can't appreciate being loved. Their heads get warped and they mistake drama and abuse for love. They need the drama to make themselves feel validated and all that nonsense. This doesn't mean they are hopeless. But you can't really do anything to help them. They have to work through those issues themselves. We all do.
But that doesn't mean u have to have front row seats to their roller coaster ride until they recognize what's wrong with themselves.

You'll just be wasting ur time otherwise.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Are you an abusive man? If not then it most likely won't work out. What the woman needs to do is take time off of relationships, heal and work on herself.

Yep. But the problem here is these types rarely do. It's one thing to enjoy being in a relationship but I know some who jump from person to person. They literally cannot enjoy being to themselves for a bit. That's usually a sign.

 

[Neuromancer]

Personally when I hear sob story from women about how their ex cheated, disrespected her and/or beat her, i get turned off and ask her

why did it take you so long to leave him?

Honestly i wouldnt want a woman that would allow me to shyt on her like that. I like a woman that is accustomed to being respected and admired.


On top of that ive heard of simps strapping on their capes, rescuing these battered women and the woman cheating with her abusive ex.

GMB

Somebody explain this

 

[shutterguy]

They're all suspect. Big warning sign IMO. They're conditioned to that kind of relationship. And, they usually take it out on the first guy who comes along who deosn't treat them the same way.

This............. dealt with it, learned the hard way trying to , proceed with caution.....

 

[全能の神]

I feel like every situation is different. As for me I have a savior complex so its hard for me to avoid them.

 

[jackson35]

your suppose to be a man and treat her the way you want to be treated as a man