Is it WRONG for a MAN ..to want.. to feel attractive?
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*Angel*
Frozen Flames Goddess
Nope, nothing wrong with it.
Reginald Noble
Banned
I stayed trying to look "fly" as a teen keeping my cornrows crisp getting a line up every other week etc.
It's not about being
now (I make sure I stay healthy and in good shape overall) but a lot of that Xtra vanity bullshyt should fall to the waist side once you get out in the real world. 
Some Men have to try harder to look dapper than others. Having good genetics doesn't hurt of course.
It's not about being
now (I make sure I stay healthy and in good shape overall) but a lot of that Xtra vanity bullshyt should fall to the waist side once you get out in the real world. Some Men have to try harder to look dapper than others. Having good genetics doesn't hurt of course.
MysticMonroe
All Star
Pretty much. I'm not walking around in public with a dude that looks dirty. I won't have sex,marry or reproduce with a dude that walks out the house looking like a bum. There's no excuse. Everyone should have a few outfits that are quick to iron, jeans or sweats, tee shirt and a hat. Some of those workout clothes are made of a material that you don't have to iron.
Sam Davison
Pro
Yeah, I follow, either quick to iron or wrinkle free. And you're right a few outfits won't hurt. Dress, casual and athletic clothes and shoes.
Behind-the-wheel
Living dead
Do something tah make meh feeyal guuud
Hottest scene in the history of movies.
I swear I almost busted hearing her say that...
Behind-the-wheel
Living dead
I've stopped trying.
I do what makes me happy...fukk females.
I got one and she's the only one that likes me anyway.
The rest...fukk em.
I do what makes me happy...fukk females.
I got one and she's the only one that likes me anyway.
The rest...fukk em.
Ur perfect! Lmao
When these nikkas out here stop being bytches and wanting groupies for the sake of having groupies to feel good about themselves...or feel "attractive", maybe I'll find a lasting relationship. Until then I'm takin names and numbers. Smh.
Doing shyt to make you feel good about yourself is real...anything requiring outside validation is desperate and corny.
O.iatlhawksfan
Devoted Joel Embiid hater
It's crazy when I look at some of these local "goons" Instagram they always making sure their hair on point, they facial hair on point, got the freshest gear but wanna sell everyone they don't care about how they look 
Hood dudes are more concious of how they look more than anybody
Hood dudes are more concious of how they look more than anybody
I like being the male equivalent of a bad bytch.Rather than t*ts and ass I got the arms, chest, and dikkprint game on point. Can't stop till Arabian princesses are flying me out to Dubai to unload bodily functions on me.
The Oracle
Expat
It's not wrong, but if your end goal is to attract the opposite sex, working on your outside shell should not be your main priority.
A man's confidence comes from being competent at life, not looking pretty.
Having skills like using tools and being able to fix things, being able to physically protect your loved ones and being a confident provider is a bigger turn on to women than having your hair a certain way.
That's where alot of men go wrong. They project their own attraction triggers onto women. They think cuz all they care about in women is looks, that's how women see men.
Problem is, that isn't how women see men. They are looking for signs of masculinity and competence within you, not some dude who spends more time looking in the mirror than they do.
That isn't to say you can let yourself go entirely, but it will help you understand why being "pretty" doesn't work the same way for men.
Men who spend too much time on their looks, end up appearing feminine and turning women off. Comes off narcissistic and insecure.
A man's confidence comes from being competent at life, not looking pretty.
Having skills like using tools and being able to fix things, being able to physically protect your loved ones and being a confident provider is a bigger turn on to women than having your hair a certain way.
That's where alot of men go wrong. They project their own attraction triggers onto women. They think cuz all they care about in women is looks, that's how women see men.
Problem is, that isn't how women see men. They are looking for signs of masculinity and competence within you, not some dude who spends more time looking in the mirror than they do.
That isn't to say you can let yourself go entirely, but it will help you understand why being "pretty" doesn't work the same way for men.
Men who spend too much time on their looks, end up appearing feminine and turning women off. Comes off narcissistic and insecure.
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ShenJingPoQi
All Star
I always try to leave the house looking fresh as possible. But there is a line when a man becomes overly obsessive with his looks it becomes feminine and a turn off.
