Is it wrong to cheat if your wife stops giving you some?

[feelosofer]

Yes, you didn't just marry her for the sex (though it's an important element). If that's the case I'd suggest therapy with a marriage counselor or a sex therapist.

 

[Falcozer]

Well his wife will find out about the affair, and never have sex with him again.

She is already not having sex with him so... .

 

[Rawtid]

That's why I'm not getting married

People can sit up and say well my marriage is nothing like that bullshyt talk all they want

If u have a urge for sex and u in a marriage with kids u can kiss getting p*ssy goodbye....

Good luck to married folks tho, just not my cup of tea

LOL How do you know it's not your cup of tea, you've never done it. Be thankful for people that share their shytty ass experiences, just helps you strive for the complete opposite. I refuse to believe all marriages are like that.

 

[Sauce Dab]

What's he supposed to do? She's not taking care of him sexually which is important in a relationship so he has to do what he has to do

 

[Guile]

get married, brehs.

 

[Diondon]

1. His wife is fukking someone else
2. If you talk about it with her and still no sex. Then by all means do your thing. There's a thing called marital duties that need to be fulfilled.

 

[mbewane]

This goes to the fundamental difference of getting maried or in a long-term relationship really. I think some women see sex as "something they have to go through" in order to secure a marriage and a stable situation. For those women, marriage is the end of one life and the beginning of another (the mother life). While for most men, sex is very important physically and mentally, which women understand as : Men are dogs.

It's interesting how all the "needs" of women are praised and understood, while the need for men to have sex is not. And if a woman expresses her need to have sex, she's "liberated", "independent", "in control", etc. Man says the same thing, he's a dog.

Pretty sure that if HE was the one refusing to have sex with HER, situation would be totally different. Pretty sure she'd go crazy just if she caught him watching porn.

 

[Tunez]

Why are you cheating on your man Steve?

 

[Amy Traphouse]

Its unacceptable to cheat but its also unacceptable to withhold sex without an explanation.

They need counseling or therapy, and not a damn preacher man either, professional help. I

 

[Sucka T.]

Get married so you can have sex with someone who isn't the person you married.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

just some fukked up situations we find ourselves in nowadays

 

[Swirv]

Why are those the only options

Sex is a man's essence?!

You don't understand. You're a woman and there are things a man will not understand about you.

I don't like how in marriage the person can think they have you by the balls. Once you get married you have no freedom it seems like. Your spouse refuses to make love, cook, provide affection, time to you your options for recourse are limited.

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

Dumbasses still not realizing monogamy isn't natural.

There are multiple reasons why your wife can lose her sex drive and men are still willing to take that long term risk.

Get married brehs.

 

[Turbulent]

My homeboy, God bless his heart, hasn't had sex with his wife in YEARS. Their children are 15 and 13 and she stopped when the oldest was like 3 or 4. No head on his birthday, fathers day ass or NOTHING. I told him to leave her ass a long time ago, especially while he was unemployed but he's in it for his kids. shyt is completely unacceptable but every marriage is different so it's easy to say what to do from the outside looking in.

as fukked up as it is, your homeboy isnt getting ass because she knows he's not going anywhere. Knowing dude could be gone if she doesn't act right would actually turn her on. Your homeboy is a sucker and his kids probably don't respect him if they see his interactions and dynamic with the mother

 

[Black Nate Grey]

Obligatory GMB

The wife is definitely cheating, stopped having sex with him while he cooks, cleans, takes care of kids and she goes out with her friends every weekend?

Honestly he saved his honor, integrity and manhood by cheating otherwise he would have been a cuckold if he let this scandalous behaviour continue without decisive action.

You can't save the marriage though, get divorced ASAP because once she finds out he was cheating he's fukked.

"Frustrated" should've been GMB, but he did the right thing under the circumstances.