Is it wrong to cheat if your wife stops giving you some?
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A lot of men are subpar or just down right bad in bed and honestly think a lot of women endure it b/c first, sex is not really that important to a lot of woman and, second, they care for the man. But I think there comes a time (usually after marriage it seems) when these women married to these dudes just get sick of it. I had a ex who I HATED having sex with. I tried talking to him 100x but he was too proud to change it up and I just stop having sex with him and we broke up. Funny enough he will try to come up with every excuse in the book as to why we didn't "sexually connect." He will never admit that he was just terrible and lazy.
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She been cheating on his ass during them "Weekend trips"
He got him a side chick that makes him happy 
I don't normally do this but GMB
He got him a side chick that makes him happy I don't normally do this but GMB
It's wrong to cheat
But I believe it's worse to refuse sexual intimacy. It's abusive to arbitrarily change the relationship norms and then refuse to discuss or repair it.
Sadly I think this is only a temporary fix and won't help at all in the long run.
Sure he's getting a nut here and there but that doesn't fix the fact that he loves this woman and has committed to a life with her and clearly she doesn't value him, his feelings, his wants and needs and his commitment to her.
Ideally if he's done all the trying that he can and she refuses to meet him halfway, he needs to divorce.
It will be better for him emotionally which will make him a better father long term.
But I believe it's worse to refuse sexual intimacy. It's abusive to arbitrarily change the relationship norms and then refuse to discuss or repair it.
Sadly I think this is only a temporary fix and won't help at all in the long run.
Sure he's getting a nut here and there but that doesn't fix the fact that he loves this woman and has committed to a life with her and clearly she doesn't value him, his feelings, his wants and needs and his commitment to her.
Ideally if he's done all the trying that he can and she refuses to meet him halfway, he needs to divorce.
It will be better for him emotionally which will make him a better father long term.
Strongly agree with this, for a lot of women sex is not super high up on there list of things that makes them happy, especially once yall get a bit older I'd say around that 28-29 marker. Combine that with men who only trying to hit it from the back for 5 mins then lay back down and watch tv
I always wondered how dudes are bad at sex,
I'm no track star, gymnast, or no 12 inch dik bandit...but unless I've been lied to
I've always been told I'm
I can't even imagine not being sexual or just intimate with a wife...
Indiglow Meta (R$G)
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the wife was more than likely ALREADY fukkING somebody.Only thing that popped in my head:
"Who's making love to yo ole lady? While you are out making love?"
"Good morning, Shirley and Steve, I have a serious problem. I have been married for 4 years now, and we have a 3-year old son. Everything has been going well: we both make good money, take trips often, she lets me hang out with the boys with no problems, and vice versa.
I spoil my wife all of the time. She gets whatever she wants. I take care of our son, cook, clean, while she goes out with her friends, sometimes every weekend. Here’s the problem: she’s stopped having sex with me. I don’t know why. We have tried talking about it, we have even gone to therapy. Nothing works. I’m a Christian man, so I’ve prayed about this, but nothing has changed.
Then, I met A Breath Of Fresh Air: she is single, beautiful, friendly, and likes to have sex. We started out as friends, but the more I opened up to her, the more she’s received me: literally. She is WONDERFUL IN BED, and I never have to want for anything with her, sexually. She doesn’t want me to leave my family; she is just helping me out through a rough spot. I don’t even know what to do about my marriage. Having sex with my wife is extremely important.
Steve, I KNOW you understand what it’s like to have sex with your wife. That’s all I want. I don’t want to step out, or be with ANYONE else, but I don’t know what to do. I shouldn’t ask if it is wrong to cheat on your wife if she stops giving you some. The question should be, am I justified in cheating?
Thanks.
Signed, FRUSTRATED"
Brehs... Tell me grown ass married men don't think like this nor do this
He messed up by getting married in the first place but spoiling her
and letting her do what she wants with no boundaries leads to resentment.
GMB
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Yeah... That could have been the case....
But two wrongs don't make a right...
I know the way a sista livin was whack
But you don't get a sista back like that
He messed up by getting married in the first place but spoiling her
and letting her do what she wants with no boundaries leads to resentment.
GMB
I did... Further on in the thread.... But I also asked a question that nobody is touching...
What if the wife was having performance anxiety?
Tbh...Strongly agree with this, for a lot of women sex is not super high up on there list of things that makes them happy, especially once yall get a bit older I'd say around that 28-29 marker. Combine that with men who only trying to hit it from the back for 5 mins then lay back down and watch tv
I always wondered how dudes are bad at sex,
I can't even imagine not being sexual or just intimate with a wife...
I'm shocked by the amount of women who say their husbands or partners just get a nut and don't even try to satisfy them. They event start to view it as normal. I've rarely had sex where I didn't ensure the woman didn't get off too. Not bragging as its more out of selfishness because if the woman is enjoying herself, I'm doing the same. Can't imagine doing it with someone who isn't enjoying it.
Not going to get too graphic, but if I finish first then I do my job to make sure she gets hers too before we're done.
... Did she say why she wasn't giving it up?
Your bestie sounds like a wicked individual, I bet she's been getting some on the side, too.
Indiglow Meta (R$G)
Ultra.
I'm more popular with women in real life than that guy...It would be worse for her, and quite possibly in her face.