is it wrong to dump a girl for being fat?

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No.
HOWEVER, I'd at least voice my concerns that I thought her weight was becoming an issue. I work out regularly so I'd even offer to hit the gym with her.
The ball is in her court at that point and if she refuses, you're well within your right to seek greener pastures elsewhere.
No one should stay with anyone they're not physically attracted to.
 

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mane dump that bytch with the quickness

all she gone do is get fatter

acting like she confident
big ass be hype as hell eating a snack cake
doing a lil shimmy after each bite

expanding ass underwear

carry a bottle of Ranch in her purse

be wanting to hold hands and kiss u in public

fine hoes see u with her big ass and wonder what's wrong with u that u gotta slum to be with that bytch


titties just look depressed


fukk that bytch
 

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Tried it :francis: she can't workout that hard. Does her 20 mins of half ass cardio and wants to leav
She could have some real insecurities or issues. Sometimes it takes time to talk about those issues but you should make yourself very open to speak to in the mean time.

How much are you two "on it"? If ya'll not that on it then you won't look that bad leaving.
 

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So I'm supposed to stay BC she isn't attractive to me anymore? Legit question

If you legit love your girl, then why you trying to leave her?

If you only went for looks and nothing else, you need to take the L

Real talk, has something happened to her since she put on the weight? Has she just been lazy or she been depressed? I don't know the whole context, so Im just throwing out every legit scenario. But if you don't really love her and can't handle what it is dip.

If you really do love and care for her like you say, ask whats going on? Ask if there is anything you can do with her or to help her? maybe she feels self-conscious at the gym, and you can try other things, if you truly are in love, you dont give up at the first road block, you go and find another way back on the path. You want to know something, women love to be built up cause there more self-conscious then you will ever understand. Be there for her through thick and thin, and there is other ways.

Communication is key and if you are able to sit down with her and get her to open up, guaranteed you can get her back to what made you go :noah:
 

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She could have some real insecurities or issues. Sometimes it takes time to talk about those issues but you should make yourself very open to speak to in the mean time.

How much are you two "on it"? If ya'll not that on it then you won't look that bad leaving.

Its going to take 6 months to a year for her to get back with great effort, I've done the calculations. Sometimes I think that's not worth my time especially if she doesn't even get back to what she was. :mjcry:
 

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Its going to take 6 months to a year for her to get back with great effort, I've done the calculations. Sometimes I think that's not worth my time especially if she doesn't even get back to what she was. :mjcry:

I'm sorry breh, maybe i'm going to be the only one who is going to think this or say this, but if shes putting in the effort and you wanted her too, but its longer then you want. Then she needs to leave you cause she deserves a hella lot better
 

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If you legit love your girl, then why you trying to leave her?

If you only went for looks and nothing else, you need to take the L

Real talk, has something happened to her since she put on the weight? Has she just been lazy or she been depressed? I don't know the whole context, so Im just throwing out every legit scenario. But if you don't really love her and can't handle what it is dip.

If you really do love and care for her like you say, ask whats going on? Ask if there is anything you can do with her or to help her? maybe she feels self-conscious at the gym, and you can try other things, if you truly are in love, you dont give up at the first road block, you go and find another way back on the path. You want to know something, women love to be built up cause there more self-conscious then you will ever understand. Be there for her through thick and thin, and there is other ways.

Communication is key and if you are able to sit down with her and get her to open up, guaranteed you can get her back to what made you go :noah:

I'll try man.

But if she doesn't get back together, then what? I'm stuck with someone that took a long term time commitment that I'm not attracted to and wasted a year of my life.
 

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mane dump that bytch with the quickness

all she gone do is get fatter

acting like she confident
big ass be hype as hell eating a snack cake
doing a lil shimmy after each b
ite

expanding ass underwear

carry a bottle of Ranch in her purse

be wanting to hold hands and kiss u in public

fine hoes see u with her big ass and wonder what's wrong with u that u gotta slum to be with that bytch


titties just look depressed


fukk that bytch

Bruh :deadmanny:
 

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How fat we talking?

Bout like this stomach bigger
tumblr_m8fvr7UtBd1r2t3xdo1_500.jpg
 

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I'll try man.

But if she doesn't get back together, then what? I'm stuck with someone that took a long term time commitment that I'm not attracted to and wasted a year of my life.

Then you keep it real with her and keep it moving and do you, im not saying commit that LTR with her, im saying if you really do love someone, it should be unconditional, but like others said if your not happy then cut your loses.

There is no easy answer, your going to take a L either way
 
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