is life bigger than beef?

[africngiant]

one of my friends crossed me a couple years ago and his brother has just passed. i still held/hold on to a lot of resentment from it. we used to be close, at least i thought so in my opinion. we shared a lot of laughs but then life grew us apart i guess and energy changed. idk how to react to the situation. i have a brother myself so seeing him grieve still hurts to see.

RIP to his brother.

 

[Heafcliffe]

Extend condolences and leave it be...

If he responds then play it from there...

 

[Sad Bunny]

RIP some nikkas still alive they just dead to me

 

[ItsPeople]

Some beef is everlasting.

 

[hex]

Need more context.

How did he cross you?

Fred.

 

[Mordith]

Feelings aren't supposed to linger

 

[africngiant]

Need more context.

How did he cross you?

Fred.

i went into college and hit the darkest point in my life. i thought i could go to my day 1’s and chop shyt up when i got back home for break. they started to mock and throw thin veiled comments when we were high. i stopped smoking from that point on cause it just made my mental health worse.

all of it conglomerated to put a deep battery in my back and a lot of surrounding events during that time completely changed my outer personality and trust

 

[FrontoBama]

i went into college and hit the darkest point in my life. i thought i could go to my day 1’s and chop shyt up when i got back home for break. they started to mock and throw thin veiled comments when we were high. i stopped smoking from that point on cause it just made my mental health worse.

all of it conglomerated to put a deep battery in my back and a lot of surrounding events during that time completely changed my outer personality and trust

Gotta let that shyt go, bruvah.

If ain’t nobody get shot, stabbed or thrown out a window, you just holding a grudge over some jokes like the nikka in Belly.

 

[F*ckthemkids]

i went into college and hit the darkest point in my life. i thought i could go to my day 1’s and chop shyt up when i got back home for break. they started to mock and throw thin veiled comments when we were high. i stopped smoking from that point on cause it just made my mental health worse.

all of it conglomerated to put a deep battery in my back and a lot of surrounding events during that time completely changed my outer personality and trust

You outgrowing people and being unable to be friends doesn't mean you can't extend condolences, esp if you and his brother were straight too. Hell if anything contact his parents directly if you don't really want to talk to him.

 

[africngiant]

Gotta let that shyt go, bruvah.

If ain’t nobody get shot, stabbed or thrown out a window, you just holding a grudge over some jokes like the nikka in Belly.

i would’ve taken it much better if it wasn’t being hidden like there’s something wrong with me that im unaware of. coming out of the blue, it makes you question the entire dynamic of the friendships from the beginning

 

[levitate]

Some beef is everlasting.

Complete with thick scars and brothers knifing each other…

 

[WaveMolecules]

My best friend since junior high stopped talking to me after I got married. I guess he got the impression that I changed and was pushing him out which might’ve true to an extent but he was on his 2nd childhood. Expecting me to do the same shyt we’re doing when we were young. Erased me from social media and stopped answering my calls. I texted him on his bday and that was it. I think about it from time to time but what can you do. I don’t hold grudges but not gonna dwell on shyt.

 

[MJ Truth]

i went into college and hit the darkest point in my life. i thought i could go to my day 1’s and chop shyt up when i got back home for break. they started to mock and throw thin veiled comments when we were high. i stopped smoking from that point on cause it just made my mental health worse.

all of it conglomerated to put a deep battery in my back and a lot of surrounding events during that time completely changed my outer personality and trust

I gotta keep it real with you breh, unless there's something more significant to this story that you're leaving out, this doesn't sound like that big of a deal.

 

[africngiant]

I gotta keep it real with you breh, unless there's something more significant to this story that you're leaving out, this doesn't sound like that big of a deal.

you can tell the difference between when it’s just jokes vs. groups of people deliberately trying to shyt on you

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

I’ve had people I used to be close with, down to sharing food when we were broke, turn into strangers in my adult life and some I reach out to when a family member passes and others I just go about my day.

I feel what you’re saying OP about situations opening your eyes to how they really see you. It’s a deep pain when someone reveals that they thought of you negatively and you thought that person had your back. In those situations idgaf what happens, I’m not reaching out.



I even have a half brother that just had a baby and we don’t speak and I really don’t have shyt to say to the nikka because he never made an effort to meet or be around my children. It is what it is bro.

“A thug changes, love changes and best friends become strangers.” —Nas