Is marriage a fukking joke now???

[ExoWarlock]

Marriage is truly about sacrifice, and in this generation we've grown up that we shouldn't have to let anyone stop us from having whatever we want. Couple that with the plethora of options it seems we all have, marriage seems like a horrible idea.

But stability isn't all that bad, it's just about being able to communicate when you need space.

At the very least, remember:

 

[BrandonBanks]

So basically marriage won't work because the man can't stay faithful?

I never said it can't work. What works for one woman might not work for the next. Cheating is not a deal breaker for some, while it is for others.

Some women stay.

Some leave.

But overall, a lot of women get into a marriage truly thinking that infidelity won't happen. It's extremely unrealistic, especially if she wants to be married as long as her grandparents or parents were. How many men are gonna be married for 30 years and have never ever did anything with another woman? In a way I feel bad that a lot of women are naive enough to actually believe this...

A 100% faithful man is rare, not saying they don't exist but it's not COMMON. If a woman doesn't want to put up with any cheating, she might as well not even get married in 2016, it's way easier to cheat now, it's likely going to happen eventually, so unless a woman feels that she can deal with it she might as well save herself the trouble of believing that her husband is never going to smash or get dome from another woman again for the rest of his life. Unrealistic, ma.

The women i referred to who overlook the cheating usually do it because he provides her (and the kids if they have any) a pretty good lifestyle, so in exchange for providing more financial security than she would have as a single woman, they ignore what he does on the side. They know they've got the wife title, the marital benefits are hers, and those other chicks are just side hoes.

I know a lot of military women because I used to be in the Army. A lot of them marry to build more wealth for their future kids, sometimes it's a dude they're friends with and they talk about it upfront, so everything's understood and agree upon beforehand, that it's for financial/beneficial reasons. Most, not all but def most, of the ones I know who did this are still married. Some have kids and they're going to great schools. The childless ones taking trips all over the globe together, wildin out


Female friend of mine, got married about 5 yrs ago and they're doing good so far, and I do expect them to be married a long time because I know she's freaky (not a thot though) and also doesn't care if her husband messes around as long as he fulfills his duties. Theyve gone to strip clubs together. She just isn't the jealous type in general. If he's checking out a chick shed probably look too. It works for them, so far. She also likes the same sports the nikka does so that helps too

 

[Originalgangsta317]

I never said it can't work. What works for one woman might not work for the next. Cheating is not a deal breaker for some, while it is for others.

Some women stay.

Some leave.

But overall, a lot of women get into a marriage truly thinking that infidelity won't happen. It's extremely unrealistic, especially if she wants to be married as long as her grandparents or parents were. How many men are gonna be married for 30 years and have never ever did anything with another woman? In a way I feel bad that a lot of women are naive enough to actually believe this...

A 100% faithful man is rare, not saying they don't exist but it's not COMMON. If a woman doesn't want to put up with any cheating, she might as well not even get married in 2016, it's way easier to cheat now, it's likely going to happen eventually, so unless a woman feels that she can deal with it she might as well save herself the trouble of believing that her husband is never going to smash or get dome from another woman again for the rest of his life. Unrealistic, ma.

The women i referred to who overlook the cheating usually do it because he provides her (and the kids if they have any) a pretty good lifestyle, so in exchange for providing more financial security than she would have as a single woman, they ignore what he does on the side. They know they've got the wife title, the marital benefits are hers, and those other chicks are just side hoes.

I know a lot of military women because I used to be in the Army. A lot of them marry to build more wealth for their future kids, sometimes it's a dude they're friends with and they talk about it upfront, so everything's understood and agree upon beforehand, that it's for financial/beneficial reasons. Most, not all but def most, of the ones I know who did this are still married. Some have kids and they're going to great schools. The childless ones taking trips all over the globe together, wildin out


Female friend of mine, got married about 5 yrs ago and they're doing good so far, and I do expect them to be married a long time because I know she's freaky (not a thot though) and also doesn't care if her husband messes around as long as he fulfills his duties. Theyve gone to strip clubs together. She just isn't the jealous type in general. If he's checking out a chick shed probably look too. It works for them, so far. She also likes the same sports the nikka does so that helps too

I agree 100%

 

[Pazzy]

Well check this out. If you still can claim your relatives and etc after all these years and be friends with people for years, what's so difficult about marriage? I think the reason why a lot of relationships fail is that people fall in love with the idea of a fantasy in their head and pick someone who fits along with that in their mind. When it doesn't fit, they get mad and are ready to quit. You get with someone who you accept for who they are. Immaturity will make you chase a fantasy and real love isn't in that. That's why it's never good to make a checklist of an ideal partner. Allow yourself to love without creating a dreammate to compare a potential mate to.

 

[Bless't]

I think people don't take it very serious these days. I swear that EVERY married dude I know is STILL out chasing ass One partner got married on a Friday, went away for a 4 day honeymoon and called me on Wednesday trying to get me to hook him up with some chicks I knew