Is marriage a fukking joke now???

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These are celebrities, who knows what types of fukker goes on in their lives. Also when choosing marriage people must really know the person in and out, have the same goals and aspirations. Work needs to be put in to make a marriage strong and maintain it's strength.

It's not just celebrities fam, I know a few people around my age who have been married & divorced already within the past 5 years.
 

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it's stupid and pointless
especially weddings
i never understood why ppl go into debt to throw these stupid ass events and make a$$holes out of themselves to feed a bunch of other a$$holes, half of whom they dont really like

u know the kind of damage i could do with the 50+ grand ppl spend on weddings
i rather just take a trip around the world than have a wedding.















attending weddings is :wow: tho
open bar and free food :noah:
 

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it's stupid and pointless
especially weddings
i never understood why ppl go into debt to throw these stupid ass events and make a$$holes out of themselves to feed a bunch of other a$$holes, half of whom they dont really like

u know the kind of damage i could do with the 50+ grand ppl spend on weddings
i rather just take a trip around the world than have a wedding.















attending weddings is :wow: tho
open bar and free food :noah:

Exactly. The wedding ceremony is more for the female.
 

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Most ppl dont admit it but a lot of the time, marriages that tend to last longer usually either :

A- The woman has no problem with the man cheating as long as he's a good provider and doesn't create any side babies and of course doesnt bring her any STDs....a lot of women leave because of cheating though....if a woman has a problem with cheating then she probably just shouldn't get married, a lot will argue against that but its true, if you cant deal with any cheating then u might as well not even bother because it will happen

B- The woman is bisexual and willing to have threesomes or whatever else the man wants/ok with an open marriage

C- The couple had an understanding/arrangement from the beginning, married solely for business/financial purposes. A lot of military ppl do this. They "like" the person but the marriage wasn't mainly for love but for benefits and combine their assets. Most of the ppl i know who married for that are still married, only time it usually goes rocky is when one forgets the real reason they married.
these 3 points are the honest to god truth - and that's why people ignore them
 

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I think most people marry for the wrong reasons. Marrying somebody based on looks and/or anything physical is dangerous. But if you marry somebody that you gel with, you have a chance at having a lasting marriage. Besides, after 6months to a year, looks won't mean nowhere near as much. You could be married to Halle Berry and you will still look at/want to fukk other women. Physical attractiveness isn't a good anchor. But chemistry and having a good bond is. Plus you have a lot of people that aren't marriage material that are getting married, so the numbers are inflated. Amber Rose was married. SuperHead was married. All of those Love & Hip Hop broads..those relationships should not be counted.

"i keep my hoe broke, barefoot and in the kitchen COTDAYMIT..let a hoe get sum money and she get confused, a bytch and confusion don't mix dats why If a ho don't have no instruction, she's gonna be headed for self-destruction, nam sayin?

1st pimpology verse 1:23 "Check a hoe before she get outta pocket. Amen"

:blessed: Where is this quote from?
 

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It's not just celebrities fam, I know a few people around my age who have been married & divorced already within the past 5 years.
You have to evaluate what drove them to marriage? Pregnancy? Youth? Did they rush into it? If you're marrying someone and divorcing them quickly, the problem is your view on marriage and relationships not the institution of marriage.

I had a friend like that. She married and divorced three times before the age of 30. She was spontaneous , deeply emotional, easy to bond with, positive, fun and pretty. However she was also impulsive, flirty, had adhd, hopped around a lot in future plans, etc. the clues were all right there that she was the type to rush into marriages and fall in love quickly with people she should not have been with. Everyone who knew her knew she was making a mistake. If you don't have the self control to stop and reassess your actions, to view another person OBJECTIVELY you will wind up with someone you don't really want.
 

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Most ppl dont admit it but a lot of the time, marriages that tend to last longer usually either :

A- The woman has no problem with the man cheating as long as he's a good provider and doesn't create any side babies and of course doesnt bring her any STDs....a lot of women leave because of cheating though....if a woman has a problem with cheating then she probably just shouldn't get married, a lot will argue against that but its true, if you cant deal with any cheating then u might as well not even bother because it will happen

B- The woman is bisexual and willing to have threesomes or whatever else the man wants/ok with an open marriage
So basically marriage won't work because the man can't stay faithful?
 

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You have to evaluate what drove them to marriage? Pregnancy? Youth? Did they rush into it? If you're marrying someone and divorcing them quickly, the problem is your view on marriage and relationships not the institution of marriage.

I had a friend like that. She married and divorced three times before the age of 30. She was spontaneous , deeply emotional, easy to bond with, positive, fun and pretty. However she was also impulsive, flirty, had adhd, hopped around a lot in future plans, etc. the clues were all right there that she was the type to rush into marriages and fall in love quickly with people she should not have been with. Everyone who knew her knew she was making a mistake. If you don't have the self control to stop and reassess your actions, to view another person OBJECTIVELY you will wind up with someone you don't really want.

I honestly don't know. And it isn't my place to ask them.

I've stated it on this site before, I don't see the point of marriage, especially for someone in my position in life. I'm not against it, I don't understand how it would be beneficial to me.
 
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