Is marriage even worth it in today's world?

[Bledswole]

Who is this?

Eddie Murphy ex wife

 

[Ashley Banks]

Communities that don't value marriage fall apart.

 

[Poitier]

A lot of you nikkas need to focus on losing your virginity first

 

[MF budz]

Communities that don't value marriage fall apart.

how so? Ppl can still have the normal mom/dad/kids in the house if they want. What specifically would make a whole community fail?

 

[theGoldmangod]

nikkas always complaining about marriage acting like you even have a bytch that wants to fukk you, let alone one that wants to marry you.

 

[BlackBall]

Be bound to a religions ideology that hates you brehs

 

[Ashley Banks]

how so? Ppl can still have the normal mom/dad/kids in the house if they want. What specifically would make a whole community fail?

just look at the communities that don't value marriage and look at the ones that.

Also, I've always thought it was stupid to start a family with someone that doesn't want to marry you. They're obviously planing to leave the family one day.

 

[Bless't]

nikkas always complaining about marriage acting like you even have a bytch that wants to fukk you, let alone one that wants to marry you.

You're right breh... you're right.

 

[MF budz]

just look at the communities that don't value marriage and look at the ones that.

Also, I've always thought it was stupid to start a family with someone that doesn't want to marry you. They're obviously planing to leave the family one day.

they can still leave if they're married. Hence the 50/50 divorce rate. Also all it really does is make you pay a bunch of legal shyt if you do infact want out.

 

[George's Dilemma]

I've always said I would never get married. Maybe I have commitment issues and I'm not religious but I also generally see no need for it. If you love someone, you love someone. Plain and simple. Anyway isn't the statistics at 50/50 for divorce rates so why bother. Or maybe I'm just off those dabs. What are the pros and cons of marriage, coli?

That 50% divorce rate isn't true. It's a little bit more complicated than that.

http://www.nytimes.com/2014/12/02/upshot/the-divorce-surge-is-over-but-the-myth-lives-on.html?_r=0

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

It's still the best way for those outside of the uber rich to raise a family, so yea, I'd say it's worth it.

 

[The Maverick]

If you're not religious, don't understand the financial benefits of being married, and don't plan on starting a family, then marriage is not for you.

 

[MF budz]

It's still the best way for those outside of the uber rich to raise a family, so yea, I'd say it's worth it.

some ppl aren't meant to be together though and shouldn't force for it just for the kids. I feel like that can be worse. Idk I have a kid with my girlfriend, I'm not rich and I feel like either way we would be amazing parents still. But that's just me. As long as both are still in the child's upbringing and both teach life lessons.

 

[Amphibious]

Oh really? Or are we just focusing on the trife gold diggers that smart men can see a mile away?

Simp

 

[JLova]

Simp

I'll be that, then. Yall cry like a bunch of children. My goodness...get some fukking perspective. Nikka, if you don't want to get married, then good on you...but to clown a dude who wants to get married and raise a family? . How would you propose a man who wants to raise a family go about it? I mean, lets take marriage out the equation. So, have some children out of wedlock with some random broad and raise a family that way?

Can't live life in fear. Just keep your eyes open and make informed decisions. There's a whole lot of men picking the right women and not getting fukked over.