Is @matt504 the coil’s own Derrick Jaxn?

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If you agree with a woman one time you're considered to be pandering.. You gotta disagree with a woman 100% of the time, even if she's right to be in good standing here..

Yeah I been peeped game. This thread only exists because of another made this morning claiming that women can turn men into deadbeat dads. I rejected that claim so here we are.

:francis:
 

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Yeah I been peeped game. This thread only exists because of another made this morning claiming that women can turn men into deadbeat dads. I rejected that claim so here we are.

:francis:

These dudes here are complete idiots.. That woman in Baltimore who watched her son fail all four years in H.S, then was shocked he didn't graduate, should've never gotten pregnant in the 1st place.. What man, who calls himself a leader, is fcking around with dumb women and getting them pregnant?
 

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These dudes here are complete idiots.. That woman in Baltimore who watched her son fail all four years in H.S, then was shocked he didn't graduate, should've never gotten pregnant in the 1st place.. What man, who calls himself a leader, is fcking around with dumb women and getting them pregnant?

Brothers with little or no discipline. Brothers that let the prospect of sex completely cloud their judgement.

There's a thread on here that was made this week about non-Black women casually saying "nikka", some of the brothers in the thread were honest enough to speak to why those women largely go unchecked for this behavior. It's because those men are cool looking the other way as long as they can have sex with those same women.

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Brothers with little or no discipline. Brothers that let the prospect of sex completely cloud their judgement.

There's a thread on here that was made this week about non-Black women casually saying "nikka", some of the brothers in the thread were honest enough to speak to why those women largely go unchecked for this behavior. It's because those men are cool looking the other way as long as they can have sex with those same women.

:francis:


:smh:

As a man, if you keep passing blame elsewhere, you'll continuously make the same mistakes over and over again..

Until a man says "could I have avoided this situation?", they'll never mature into the leader they desire to be..
 

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Some of y’all don’t interact with people regularly and its becoming obvious.

I don’t mean friends, family or whatever

Like all this “Men’s are supposed to be leaders and good decision makers, this and that.” Is internet bs

Every being on earth has character flaws.

Including the “men” we are influenced by.

Leadership is a rare trait and comes in different forms/styles with pros and cons

Think about it. Everyone in all branches of military have more heart than their peers and can be considered leaders amongst them, but in a group they still get broken down to leaders and follows. Among 5-10 one can hold leadership. Anymore than that and it breaks down to which has the best style for the issue at hand. That’s the difference between generals, lieutenants, and sgts.

Relationships are a different ball park

You fellas are either acting oblivious or don’t go outside.

A deadbeat is someone who has always lacked discipline, maintaining relationships is hard. Some of us understand that & don’t play games with peoples lives or time. There are deadbeat coaches, players, pastors, grannies, allat.

Have more sex and realize it’s not just p*ssy that can fukk u up.

There’s girls who are completely bad for my being that I still fukk with. There’s good women are too good for the way I live & act. I choose not to knock anyone up because I can’t even share time with my dog or bros. Family time takes deep thought and energy too. I’m selfish sometimes and I can’t control when. So it would be cruel to have a kid.

A lot of people don’t analyze their everyday life like that some people are on autopilot hitting checkpoints.

We all know men and women that shouldn’t have kids and still did it, not because they sex fiends but because the chance, opportunity, and lack of care got mixed together like chemical X,

It’s childish to believe in what people should be when everything is what it is. Sad, happy, right or wrong. Worry bout yo shyt.

KS and @Matt504 cant save the world or change the way it is.

And following some else only delays the step taken in the direction of your own life.

A hoe gon be a hoe & tricks still tricking. Kids still starving and getting beat.

What that got to do with rent?

Too many folks are looking at life thru a theoretical lense. Being a good person won’t save you from death. Being a deadbeat is only bad if you care about judgement and majority of animals dont
 
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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
You are the Coli own fakkit tho.
Straight like that
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OP you got this butthurt over a basic statement that the dude didn't even elaborate on?



see, I disagree, but it's a nuanced discussion, and I have the capacity to say 'hey, what did you mean by that, and why do you think that way?':ohhh:
 

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That California Lifestyle ...
Some of y’all don’t interact with people regularly and its becoming obvious.

I don’t mean friends, family or whatever

Like all this “Men’s are supposed to be leaders and good decision makers, this and that.” Is internet bs

Every being on earth has character flaws.

Including the “men” we are influenced by.

Leadership is a rare trait and comes in different forms/styles with pros and cons

Think about it. Everyone in all branches of military have more heart than their peers and can be considered leaders amongst them, but in a group they still get broken down to leaders and follows. Among 5-10 one can hold leadership. Anymore than that and it breaks down to which has the best style for the issue at hand. That’s the difference between generals, lieutenants, and sgts.

Relationships are a different ball park

You fellas are either acting oblivious or don’t go outside.

A deadbeat is someone who has always lacked discipline, maintaining relationships is hard. Some of us understand that & don’t play games with peoples lives or time. There are deadbeat coaches, players, pastors, grannies, allat.

Have more sex and realize it’s not just p*ssy that can fukk u up.

There’s girls who are completely bad for my being that I still fukk with. There’s good women are too good for the way I live & act. I choose not to knock anyone up because I can’t even share time with my dog or bros. Family time takes deep thought and energy too. I’m selfish sometimes and I can’t control when. So it would be cruel to have a kid.

A lot of people don’t analyze their everyday life like that some people are on autopilot hitting checkpoints.

We all know men and women that shouldn’t have kids and still did it, not because they sex fiends but because the chance, opportunity, and lack of care got mixed together like chemical X,

It’s childish to believe in what people should be when everything is what it is. Sad, happy, right or wrong. Worry bout yo shyt.

KS and @Matt504 cant save the world or change the way it is.

And following some else only delays the step taken in the direction of your own life.

A hoe gon be a hoe & tricks still tricking. Kids still starving and getting beat.

What that got to do with rent?

Too many folks are looking at life thru a theoretical lense. Being a good person won’t save you from death. Being a deadbeat is only bad if you care about judgement and majority of animals dont


 

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Just because someone has a more nuanced and balanced view on women rather than just fall into the "Females are awful! I hate these fukking bytches!" incel hivemind doesn't make them Derrick Jaxn lol
 
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