Some of y’all don’t interact with people regularly and its becoming obvious.
I don’t mean friends, family or whatever
Like all this “Men’s are supposed to be leaders and good decision makers, this and that.” Is internet bs
Every being on earth has character flaws.
Including the “men” we are influenced by.
Leadership is a rare trait and comes in different forms/styles with pros and cons
Think about it. Everyone in all branches of military have more heart than their peers and can be considered leaders amongst them, but in a group they still get broken down to leaders and follows. Among 5-10 one can hold leadership. Anymore than that and it breaks down to which has the best style for the issue at hand. That’s the difference between generals, lieutenants, and sgts.
Relationships are a different ball park
You fellas are either acting oblivious or don’t go outside.
A deadbeat is someone who has always lacked discipline, maintaining relationships is hard. Some of us understand that & don’t play games with peoples lives or time. There are deadbeat coaches, players, pastors, grannies, allat.
Have more sex and realize it’s not just p*ssy that can fukk u up.
There’s girls who are completely bad for my being that I still fukk with. There’s good women are too good for the way I live & act. I choose not to knock anyone up because I can’t even share time with my dog or bros. Family time takes deep thought and energy too. I’m selfish sometimes and I can’t control when. So it would be cruel to have a kid.
A lot of people don’t analyze their everyday life like that some people are on autopilot hitting checkpoints.
We all know men and women that shouldn’t have kids and still did it, not because they sex fiends but because the chance, opportunity, and lack of care got mixed together like chemical X,
It’s childish to believe in what people should be when everything is what it is. Sad, happy, right or wrong. Worry bout yo shyt.
KS and
@Matt504 cant save the world or change the way it is.
And following some else only delays the step taken in the direction of your own life.
A hoe gon be a hoe & tricks still tricking. Kids still starving and getting beat.
What that got to do with rent?
Too many folks are looking at life thru a theoretical lense. Being a good person won’t save you from death. Being a deadbeat is only bad if you care about judgement and majority of animals dont