Is promiscuity/fukking everyone a possible sign of low self esteem and insecurity?

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

For both men and women

This is probably going to be the last serious thread I post in here. I hope some of yall don't prove my decision to be right

Depends on how many is "everyone."

Some people think a heaux has 10+ bodies while others think you need 50+ bodies to be a heaux.

Do you enjoy different sets of titties and puzzy "just because?" If so, you're a Vaginal Connoisseur. If a breh is just smashing heauxs because he's bored, maybe he's a sex addict or needs puzzy to feel validated.

Case by case situation.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Depends on how many is "everyone."

Some people think a heaux has 10+ bodies while others think you need 50+ bodies to be a heaux.

Do you enjoy different sets of titties and puzzy "just because?" If so, you're a Vaginal Connoisseur. If a breh is just smashing heauxs because he's bored, maybe he's a sex addict or needs puzzy to feel validated.

Case by case situation.

Yup. Nuance my brotha

 

[Bop Gun]

For the guys who gotta do any of the following: manipulate their mouthpiece, trick, dress fly, in order to get sexual attention from Women, you just ain't that dude. Get with that homely girl who is feeling you and call it a day.

For the Ladies who gotta open up their Legs in order to get attention from the guys they are interested in, just stop and get with that dude who likes you the way you are. The one your friends keep reminding you about, before it's too late and he moves on.

Sleeping around, promiscuity, whatever you want to call it, is unhealthy for many people. It's borderline Mental Illness for the many trying to live by it. Ruins Families, Friends, Jobs, Children, Communities.

 

[Astroslik]

At a point in my life I made a choice not to deny myself of anything.

In the end I lost everything.

It’s fun while it lasts but you have to be ready to pay the cost.

What happened

 

[NoirDynosaur]

For the guys who gotta do any of the following: manipulate their mouthpiece, trick, dress fly, in order to get sexual attention from Women, you just ain't that dude. Get with that homely girl who is feeling you and call it a day.

For the Ladies who gotta open up their Legs in order to get attention from the guys they are interested in, just stop and get with that dude who likes you the way you are. The one your friends keep reminding you about, before it's too late and he moves on.

Sleeping around, promiscuity, whatever you want to call it, is unhealthy for many people. It's borderline Mental Illness for the many trying to live by it. Ruins Families, Friends, Jobs, Children, Communities.

That’s the journey of self improvement for men. When men glow up women meet us at the finish line. They want all our time, energy and attention

Men don’t need to do all these to attract women men just need to focus on improving themselves physically most attraction is primal.

Men who end up leading with their wallet end up getting played by gold diggers and emotional scammers.

 

[old pig]

could be depending on the person…for me it’s completely about poor impulse control which extends to other areas as well…if I like something I will overindulge in it…example—a “normal” person might come home from work a bit stressed and have a couple of beers…I might come home from work a bit stressed and start off with a couple of beers but end up having 2 six packs lol smh…but yeah for me it stems from an issue with having/creating normal balance

 

[old pig]

That’s only talking points for women that want men to settle down.

fukk am I insecure for fukking bytches that want me?

the OP might be true in some cases but some of these posts (some not all) are just low energy nikkas tryna make it seem like there is something wrong with sleeping with multiple women…the main thing is you’re protecting yourself, not having unwanted children you can’t provide for, and being honest with yourself and the women you’re involved with…that being said as with everything else there should be some measure of self-control which varies per person

 

[invalid]

And those same people who stand by "getting it out the way" are the ones who have failed marriages and aren't able to be faithful.

Sexually unsatisfied. Not satisfied with their partner because they forced themselves to "settle down". So much is wrong with that mindset. Everything in life needs balance. But the opposite is whats preached everywhere

The popular music, social media, everywhere

These people don't love themselves. If they did, it wouldn't be so hard for them to have successful marriages. They wouldn't fukk everyone they see

After you gave away yourself to everybody, what else is there to give when its time to settle down?

Studies show that the people that rated having the highest marital satisfaction are those that were virgins at the time of their marriage.

Sex gets better when two people are learning each other and growing together.

And the rate decreases based on the number of partners each spouse respectably had before marriage.

But society puts pressure on people not to be virgins.

And we have certain factions within the black community calling an end to nuclear families altogether.

 

[Bop Gun]

That’s the journey of self improvement for men. When men glow up women meet us at the finish line. They want all our time, energy and attention

Men don’t need to do all these to attract women men just need to focus on improving themselves physically most attraction is primal.

Men who end up leading with their wallet end up getting played by gold diggers and emotional scammers.

Sometimes, that "Finish Line" thing is because guys are too busy into their craft and chose to ignore Women along the way. It will obviously be difficult for an older breh with lack of experience with Women to attract a mate.

Also, an Older Man BETTER have more going for himself over young guys, he better be more interesting than young brehs.

A Cheat Code for Brehs is when you have a lot of life experience but look much younger than your age. That's why it is important to leave the drugs and alcohol alone and honestly live as best of a healthy lifestyle as possible.

All that Time, Energy and Attention are things you will willingly give to a Woman who meets your Values, Respects you and puts her Best Self forth everyday, for you and her.

 

[JNew]

All the women i know who are promiscuous have low self esteem.

All the men I know who chase women have low self esteem.


Witch makes sense because all attention is an exchange of energy. So your basically exchanging the same self consciousness and doubts as the other person.

Its why when you fuk with a girl that has issues you start to have issues.

Dudes will joke, clown, project and think they are better but their filling a void in their life. You see this on a mirco level if you go to a small town when everyone has kids right after HS because their is nothing else to do.

Naturally it takes close to a couple of years to fully get to know someone. If a your have 10+ bodies by the time your 25 you have issues.

 

[Don Snow]

My issue is the bragging and glorification of this behavior.

i used to be made fun of because "I didn't get any bytches" and I took time to get to know women. You know, actually dating women

"You gotta smut these hoes out nikka you a bytch"

The mentality is toxic. And even growing older past their 30s doesn't make some of them change

OP’s Username


The irony

And Yo OP you can’t possibly be Handsome gang talking like this

 

[AAKing23]

Not always but most likely yes

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

OP’s Username


The irony

And Yo OP you can’t possibly be Handsome gang talking like this

There was this white girl at work that said I smelt nice

Walked by her later and she whispered as I walked "ugghhhh I need to fukkk himm"

I never knew I was handsomegang until I got all this attention. shyt is crazy. Women who I would've never thought would give me a chance years ago throw themselves at me everyday

Women with boyfriends right next to them eye fukk me bro. I just know better than to be a deviant

You can be handsome with logic. I'm husband material. I'm tryna change the world and make money doing it. I'm focused. Don't need insecure immature women keeping me off track. There's no peace in that

This thread was made for multiple reasons. But really its something I made for inspiration for my future book

I think steps ahead and I'm intentional in everything I do these days. I wish black men as a whole were the exact same way, if not better

 

[Manolo]

It’s also a sign of lack of direction in life and wasted potential. When you look at energy/time as a limited resource we have less and less of everyday until it eventually dwindles down to 0, chasing sex seems like the biggest waste of time imaginable

 

[Don Snow]

There was this white girl at work that said I smelt nice

Walked by her later and she whispered as I walked "ugghhhh I need to fukkk himm"

I never knew I was handsomegang until I got all this attention. shyt is crazy. Women who I would've never thought would give me a chance years ago throw themselves at me everyday

Women with boyfriends right next to them eye fukk me bro. I just know better than to be a deviant

You can be handsome with logic. I'm husband material. I'm tryna change the world and make money doing it. I'm focused. Don't need insecure immature women keeping me off track. There's no peace in that

This thread was made for multiple reasons. But really its something I made for inspiration for my future book

I think steps ahead and I'm intentional in everything I do these days. I wish black men as a whole were the exact same way, if not better

I’m convinced you’re a female behind this account

What kind of man thinks like this


“Breh” called hisself Husband Material