So I went on my date last night. It was this dude who I have been going on dates with for like 4 years. We've never touched, kissed or held hands.I guess he would be considered a simp.
I like hanging out with him so it's all good. Anyway, there wasn't too much that I did different. I always let him choose the restaurant, am always nice and attentive anyway so there wasn't too much difference there. But I did take a page out of the "Dean's" book and when our appetizer came out I made sure to grab a plate and serve him first. When I was thinking about doing it I was mentally struggling.
But I did it and it was honestly painless. He was like "
Who? What? Where? Why? How?..................
Thank you!!" He had invited me on groups trips before but after that it turn into. "I want to take you on a trip; just me and you" and "I will pay for your ticket." He then devised this scheme where he would pay for a ticket for me to travel home and change his flight plans so he would have a layover and spend one day with me.
I declined. I can't say if serving him first really made him do all that but it's the first time he hasn't "played it cool." So it might have.
So far I am loving the results. I need a real date with someone I've never been out with before. I'll work on it this week. The saga continues...
Is she wrong for this or does the simp deserve this?
- Thread starter Malcolmxxx_23
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The BasedFather
Task Force
He's a simp. I would've gave her the 
after the second date if there wasn't any action.
after the second date if there wasn't any action.
Ghostface Trillah
God-level poster
TL:DR
Girl reluctantly does something nice for a man not because it's a nice thing to do but because of something else and man takes it as a sign of interest and wants to move forward but now girl wants to attempt move on a man she really wants.
Where's that thread about the modern woman being sociopaths at?
Girl reluctantly does something nice for a man not because it's a nice thing to do but because of something else and man takes it as a sign of interest and wants to move forward but now girl wants to attempt move on a man she really wants.
Where's that thread about the modern woman being sociopaths at?
the fukk is wrong with this dude? 4 years? FFS!
You're a shyt head @malcolmxxx_45
@BlackPearl
She is wrong for taking advantage and he is stupid for letting himself be used
But all guys reading this thread should take this as a warning, if you don't attempt physical contact by the second date (hugs don't count), you will probably be friend zoned. If you attempt and she declines ur advances, throw her in the bushes
She is wrong for taking advantage and he is stupid for letting himself be used
But all guys reading this thread should take this as a warning, if you don't attempt physical contact by the second date (hugs don't count), you will probably be friend zoned. If you attempt and she declines ur advances, throw her in the bushes
not possible
I refuse to believe this is possible
I have posts from years back talking about this dude. It's real. He was the dude in the story where my friend ran up the bill and was rubbing herself on his car seats.
AquaCityBoy
Veteran
FIX THE fukkING QUOTE CODE, YOU fukkING a$$hole! LYING CANADIAN PIECE OF shyt!
Dude is older than and sees other people.@BlackPearl
She is wrong for taking advantage and he is stupid for letting himself be used
But all guys reading this thread should take this as a warning, if you don't attempt physical contact by the second date (hugs don't count), you will probably be friend zoned. If you attempt and she declines ur advances, throw her in the bushes
He has never once brought up sex the whole time I've known him and said he doesn't want anything serious so...that's on him....
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AquaCityBoy
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Dude sounds
I have posts from years back talking about this dude. It's real. He was the dude in the story where my friend ran up the bill and was rubbing herself on his car seats.
