Man it's amazing how dudes have been so parched of any semblance of femininity and generosity from the modern female that if a broad simply takes off his coat one day, hangs it up for him and says welcome home baby, the dude will be willing to give up his life savings.
In this case, she is definitely wrong, but he's not free of any blame either. This broad is using something that is supposed to be a show of generosity to a guy she actually cares about to get benefits from some naive dude... and this dude is completely oblivious to the fact that if you haven't made any progress in 4 years, you need to give it up and keep it pushing. Stop rewarding broads that ain't feeling you.
She's one of those broads that is the reason why generosity from dudes is drying up. That's why you see a lot more articles about women complaining about how men ain't taking them out to dinners or paying for anything anymore. Dudes are tired of getting used, and I applaud them for turning off the faucet of generosity on some user broad. Now if your woman goes hard for you, by all means, show her a nice time, but if you just meet some broad or she ain't showing no real interest, ain't no reason to be pulling out the wallet. The less simps we have, the better, because it's these simps that reward the notion that what these user leeches are doing is acceptable and they're the ones who block the foul women from getting any criticism, so they're dealing with their own creation.