Is the Coli Having A Negative Affect On Your Soul/Mental?

[PhonZhi]

I keep seeing cats making these "I'm leaving the coli" announcements and citing a negative impact mentally/ spiritually as a reason.

This place is too toxic for my spirit and soul. I have to take some time away to unplug from it all

Is the coli really having that big of an affect on some of you?


Y'all really taking this place and the posters serious like that and letting it get to you ?

 

[Basil of Baker Street]

I've left for a good while and came back. It's even more depressing now. People love pushing the degenerate lifestyle narrative here. Constant bombardment of negativity.

 

[smokeurobinson]

Its funny u ask that OP....u still think Denzel is sexy?

 

[LeflaurLeflahEshkoshka]

This is a form of social media. Exposure to anything overtly negative or positive will affect your mental state in some way. It’s normal.

If you’re on here all day absorbing negativity and comparing yourself to others, then it will find it’s way into your everyday life. See Instagram and how ppl’s lives revolve around it

 

[hostsamurai]

Didn't you run away for a month because you didn't want to own up to those zesty denzel posts?

Some say TLR is a cesspool some say it's just fukkery I can't tell a person what they should take away from this place.

 

[Throwbacksample]

It's not just thecoli. Its the internet (specifically blogs/message boards). The internet is full of negative people, introvets, shy, negative people who post there negatives views and want people to wallow on their misery with them. Most people who are constantly on the internet are usually negative people who dont go out to social events and have alot of friends.

 

[Kwabena]

I'm just here for the laughs

 

[Burned Verses]

Just came back from that evolution is a myth thread.

It depresses me how dumb some of y'all are.

 

[VelourSocks]

nikka makes a good point for some decent discussion and nikkas are sidestepping the issue with some trolling posts dude made about Denzel Washington.

The coli where nikkas fail to have good discussion

 

[1970s HeRon Flow]

Aren't u a fakkit?

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Not letting this or any social media site affect my mentality or emotional health. People, situations and other things only control what you allow them to. Real life (career, goals, family, relationships, finances) is separate and apart from an online presence and interactions are much more important. I do like the discussion and engagements, from people that have valid viewpoints and perspectives. Rest of the times, it’s pure entertainment, sense of humor in here is funny af. One issue though about sm in general is the negative groupthink mentality or gossipy nature that some people have online; instead of making decisions based on what they feel as an individual bc they feel pressure to conform or fit in, afraid of reactions; that’s toxic.

There are times when everyone should do a disconnect if they feel social media is having a negative impact in order to reanalyze their priorities, if that’s the case. But to make a whole announcement about their intentions is another form of that attention crave bc something is lacking irl.

 

[Dominic Decoco]

Funzhi ran away for a month y'all cause posters outed him.

 

[FLATOP]

Probably. Im going to try never posting in this forum ever again

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

nikka makes a good point for some decent discussion

Agree... But I think if you present yourself a certain way you have to expect a reaction to it. That’s anywhere- here and real life. I don’t know what went on with OP situation and I’m not on this thread to throw shade or judge but it’s the old line- people ignore the message bc of the messenger. You can’t fault people for that bc they feel how they do. The topic of thread is good tho.

 

[Diondon]

lol no. I'm a grown ass man.