Kinda depends on your mindset. I had an "open relationship" with a stripper but it wasn't really about competition or anything. We vibed, we liked to smoke, and the sex was bomb but I lived in Austin (She lived in Houston), I'm an introvert, and I was more focused on school than any kind of serious relationship. I'm also kinda lazy when it comes to driving more than 15-20 minutes for p*ssy alone
She probably fukked way more dudes than I did females but I didn't really care because I was never really hurting for p*ssy. She had lots of disposable income, she was generous as fukk, she always had jars of kush, and we respected each other's time.
I guess if you looked at who had more sex, she won out, but she spent way more money on me and she also was good at making me feel like a priority when I was in town.
We still cool now too even though she's married and shyt.