Is there a bigger turn-off than a messy bytch?

Satsui no Hadou

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I recently broke up with my baby mama and in the meantime we are living together until we figure out future plans and fully separate.

Now, this isn’t a new phenomenon, but I realize just how fukking much it aggravated me. I’m a naturally clean and orderly person - maybe a bit on the neurotic side, but I consider it a personality quirk - and it’s so annoying when a person can’t put things back, leaves trash everywhere and refuses to even close a drawer when it served it’s purpose in obtaining the proper clothing.

Things got so bad that I actually prefer cleaning because this bytch was never up to the task. I wash my own clothes, I have my areas organized and give them a good go every week or so. I wash the dishes, clean up after the animals we have on top of all the other man housework like mowing the lawn and fixing shyt.

It just really put into perspective how fukking useless this chick is. She’s a mean cook I’ll give her that, but I’m the type of dude that could survive off chicken and rice for an extended period of time if I had to :mjlol:

Anyway, my point is, is that a dealbreaker for most guys? Am I the a$$hole in those situation for having cleanliness standards and expecting them to be upheld? I’m actually scared to think what her place will look like without me there and to make it worse I feel like it’s rubbing off my daughter because she has an aversion to doing chores.
 

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I recently broke up with my baby mama and in the meantime we are living together until we figure out future plans and fully separate.

Now, this isn’t a new phenomenon, but I realize just how fukking much it aggravated me. I’m a naturally clean and orderly person - maybe a bit on the neurotic side, but I consider it a personality quirk - and it’s so annoying when a person can’t put things back, leaves trash everywhere and refuses to even close a drawer when it served it’s purpose in obtaining the proper clothing.

Things got so bad that I actually prefer cleaning because this bytch was never up to the task. I wash my own clothes, I have my areas organized and give them a good go every week or so. I wash the dishes, clean up after the animals we have on top of all the other man housework like mowing the lawn and fixing shyt.

It just really put into perspective how fukking useless this chick is. She’s a mean cook I’ll give her that, but I’m the type of dude that could survive off chicken and rice for an extended period of time if I had to :mjlol:

Anyway, my point is, is that a dealbreaker for most guys? Am I the a$$hole in those situation for having cleanliness standards and expecting them to be upheld? I’m actually scared to think what her place will look like without me there and to make it worse I feel like it’s rubbing off my daughter because she has an aversion to doing chores.
Sounds like my soon to be ex wife.. bytch barely cleans hates putting dishes in the washer.. forgets to flush etc.. and you wouldn't know it by looking at her she is beautiful... think Nia long with a fat ass. I couldn't take anymore I moved out got my own shyt. Piece of mind is priceless
 

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Sounds like my soon to be ex wife.. bytch barely cleans hates putting dishes in the washer.. forgets to flush etc.. and you wouldn't know it by looking at her she is beautiful... think Nia long with a fat ass. I couldn't take anymore I moved out got my own shyt. Piece of mind is priceless
So that hoe be taking dumps in the toilet and don't flush? 🤢
 

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Sounds like my soon to be ex wife.. bytch barely cleans hates putting dishes in the washer.. forgets to flush etc.. and you wouldn't know it by looking at her she is beautiful... think Nia long with a fat ass. I couldn't take anymore I moved out got my own shyt. Piece of mind is priceless
I kicked a "friend" out after two days over this. Actually he clogged the toilet and left like it was my duty to unclog it
 
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One of the biggest myths perpetuated is that women are cleaner than men.

I'm not the cleanest dude (I'm working on it) but it's very rare that I encounter a woman who's at least as clean as I am. Usually they are nasty and filthy on the low.
My sisters are in their early 20s and they’re nasty af. When they moved from my moms house they paid me to clean out their rooms and I ended up having to toss their beds and a lot of clothes and shoes because they were ruined :pachaha:
 

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Yep bougie looking bytch bad asf.. got to the point I was shook to go to the bathroom never knew what was waiting SMH
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When someone comes to my house, before they cross the threshold, I give them the rules to my house. Should my boyfriend, and I move in together, we already know that we have to have shyt set out on the table as to what our expectations are.
 
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