Is There A Perfect Time To Be Single?

[semtex]

I don't enjoy myself enough to justify being single with the "adventurous" reasoning. I'm 22 and I feel like life should be way more fun than it is. Maybe I was sold a pipe dream though On TV you see 20-somethings having the time of their lives it seems.

 

[concise]

I see a lot of people in relationships, gearing towards marriage and or (just) children. But when you're in a relationship, is it because you're at a stale moment in your life or because you've just found love?

Thinking of it, ideally, if your life is full of adventure, would you give up your adventure for the sake of love, at a young age (I'm 22) or would you ignore it until you felt as if it were time to start another adventure?

I work for an airline, hit up San Diego, hitting up Vancouver Canada in the beginning of May, plus the other vacations I'm planning, in addition to my savings account which is fueling my move to Germany. If I weren't single would my amount of freedom be jeopardized?

Have you put off relationships so that you could continue your adventure, or do you not have an adventure so you're willing to settle once love has appeared?
Is it a lack of adventure and magical thinking that causes many to settle down at a young age or is it human nature?

What are your beliefs?

Where is this happening in 2014?

 

[ReggieFlare]

Where is this happening in 2014?

Now that I think about it...most people I know are smashin and passin right now

So many single females in ATL

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Where is this happening in 2014?

shyt where I'm living people having kids

 

[Malta]

I don't enjoy myself enough to justify being single with the "adventurous" reasoning. I'm 22 and I feel like life should be way more fun than it is. Maybe I was sold a pipe dream though On TV you see 20-somethings having the time of their lives it seems.

Don't you speak portuguese? Take your ass down to Brazil and teach English for a few months, you'll feel alive.

 

[Easy-E]

Then it is the worst mistake YOU could make.

Don't EVER get into a relationship, to just be in a relationship...find yourself first.

Word, word...

That's where I'm at; I KNOW, I have no business with a woman with my insecurity, emotional issues (very flighty) & hang-ups (need a virgin, I don't celebrate any holidays & see the cynical side to EVERYTHING, ie, I'm on thecoli too much). But, I'm a man, dammit, WE WERE MEANT TO BE ALONE.

I just imagine, someone like this;

on my side.

I gotta atleast start dating, again.

 

[Drake is God]

When you know you don't feel like putting up with someone else's antics.
When you're on the come up.
When you know your intentions is really just to fukk.
When you are heartbroken.
When you are on bum status

 

[Drake is God]

Word, word...

That's where I'm at; I KNOW, I have no business with a woman with my insecurity, emotional issues (very flighty) & hang-ups (need a virgin, I don't celebrate any holidays & see the cynical side to EVERYTHING, ie, I'm on thecoli too much). But, I'm a man, dammit, WE WERE MEANT TO BE ALONE.

I just imagine, someone like this;

on my side.

I gotta atleast start dating, again.

she's on that

 

[Easy-E]

she's on that

I've already debunked that.

Yea, any black person who dares date or associate with a white person is forever tainted.

Ya'll kill me with this disconnect, from real life (black ppl cannot avoid white ppl), and these black-washing of st0rmfr0nt talking points (ex. they can't stand white women who associate, in any fashion with a black man).

It ain't even that serious.

Spoiler

I do want her, though. :bd:

Spoiler

OR atleast Abby Mills;

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Since when does one have to give up having a fulfilling life for the sake of a relationship?

People settle down for a plethora of reasons and there is no right or wrong time to do it. At the end of the day all you can do is live your life and when a nice young lady comes into your life, she will be an addition to your lifestyle.

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

Christmas

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

Mothers day

 

[MikelArteta]

its always the perfect time to be free

 

[semtex]

Don't you speak portuguese? Take your ass down to Brazil and teach English for a few months, you'll feel alive.

I'm okay at Portuguese.

 

[King Poetic]

2014!!!!!!

The economy ain't shyt, the work and pay u make unless u run your own successful business isn't guaranteed day in or day out. i say more than half of people today are about there own goals and what the other person can provide for them.