Is There A Such Thing As A Male Hoe?

[Sekhmet Anubis]

Are you female?
Why are you talking about dishes?

Yeah. It's a weird analogy I know. But if you think about having so many dikks in you is disgusting. I was watching something and made me to notice how disgusting sex can be. It's just better to have it with someone you love instead of Tom, dikk, and Harry.

 

[Yup]

I don't think it's about them being in a bad light it's all about society sayings it's fine for men to bed tons of women. If this was something that wasn't acceptable then they could be called hoes.

But who have largely had a say. Society is not separate entity...it consists of people: you and I. And for the long time women have been and continue to be subordinate to men.

 

[onelastdeath]

Your nonchalance is due to the fact that you benefit. But I am sure you have your axe to grind with things that are not advantageous to you.

I'm nonchalant toward this, the same women are nonchalant in what society expects out of men. Any man with no money is a "broke ass nikka" to women, and any woman with a high body count is a "hoe" to men. I didn't create the labels, but everyone follows them.

 

[Yup]

Just accept the fact SOME women look down on male hoes, while others dont seem to care, my friend in the apartment across the hall turned down sex with Drake cuz she said he was a ho.
Calling a man who sleeps with alot of women desirable is a matter of opinion. I dont find them desirable but to each her own.

It repulsed me too.

 

[Yup]

I'm nonchalant toward this, the same women are nonchalant in what society expects out of men. Any man with no money is a "broke ass nikka" to women, and any woman with a high body count is a "hoe" to men. I didn't create the labels, but everyone follows them.

Don't get me wrong I am not expecting or asking for sympathy...I am calling like it is.

 

[Yup]

I'm nonchalant toward this, the same women are nonchalant in what society expects out of men. Any man with no money is a "broke ass nikka" to women, and any woman with a high body count is a "hoe" to men. I didn't create the labels, but everyone follows them.

Everyone is a cop-out response.

 

[onelastdeath]

Just accept the fact SOME women look down on male hoes, while others dont seem to care, my friend in the apartment across the hall turned down sex with Drake cuz she said he was a ho.
Calling a man who sleeps with alot of women desirable is a matter of opinion. I dont find them desirable but to each her own.

Drake isn't a hoe. Drake is just living the life of a desired bachelor. That's not a hoe though. You can call it what you want. You can even call a man who sleeps with a lot of women a hoe. You'd just be wrong.

 

[Turbulent]

I never sais or implied I hate it. In the same way you want to fight against racism...women want to fight against sexism.

it's funny how y'all claim a woman should be grown enough to make her own choices, claim women shouldn't be shamed for doing what they want to do and what men have been doing for centuries, claim women should be able to enjoy life and explore their sexuality and in the same breath want to fight for the right to shame guys for sleeping with multiple women all in the name of equality (or hypocrisy? )

 

[Arishok]

Men aren't hoes to society but they're hoes to me. I'm not getting with a guy if I know he'll sleep with any chick and has no self respect for his body and ding a ling.

 

[KinksandCoils]

But who have largely had a say. Society is not separate entity...it consists of people: you and I. And for the long time women have been and continue to be subordinate to men.

Yea. All over the world men are allowed to be hoes in the sense that it is acceptable. And all over the world women just deal with it. A lot of women don't have a say so. We do and I choose to not be with one who has had too many partners.

 

[InDePickWest]

Yeah. It's a weird analogy I know. But if you think about having so many dikks in you is disgusting. I was watching something and made me to notice how disgusting sex can be. It's just better to have it with someone you love instead of Tom, dikk, and Harry.

But you dont hold men to the same standard? Women like you are common so Im not judging. The way I was raised was to anaylze things and base my opinion with my thoughts. I dont go by what society says. That same society that makes it cool for dudes to hoe makes it cool for a woman to sit on her ass all day while the man slaves at work and then spend his money..you know for the family

Which I also have a problem with

 

[Yup]

it's funny how y'all claim a woman should be grown enough to make her own choices, claim women shouldn't be shamed for doing what they want to do and what men have been doing for centuries, claim women should be able to enjoy life and explore their sexuality and in the same breath want to fight for the right to shame guys for sleeping with multiple women all in the name of equality (or hypocrisy? )

I have explicitly stated that sleeping around is not healthy for both sexes. I do not promote sexual irresponsibility for neither.

 

[onelastdeath]

Men aren't hoes to society but they're hoes to me. I'm not getting with a guy if I know he'll sleep with any chick and has no self respect for his body and ding a ling.

That's the thing though. A male "hoe" won't sleep with any woman, if he is even ABLE to be a "hoe" it means he has choices.

While a female "hoe" can be look like anything and be anything. Because at the end of the day, theres a good percentage of men who have the "p*ssy is p*ssy" mindset.

 

[Arishok]

No. Like you said its a double standard. One which I have no problem with. I would rather dip my spoon in a bunch of pots rather than have different spoons dipping in my pot.

I'd rather dip have a spoon that wasn't in every soup dipped in my pot though.

 

[Yup]

Yea. All over the world men are allowed to be hoes in the sense that it is acceptable. And all over the world women just deal with it. A lot of women don't have a say so. We do and I choose to not be with one who has had too many partners.

Same.