Is there any legit reason to get married in your 20s?

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false maybe in your area, but there are more single women of every age demographic than ever before

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unless you're balling outta control and have a huge social network, it doesn't get easier. Seriously:francis:

I'm only 25 and most 'good' women around my age are snatched up. I literally only see baby mamas, fat chicks and thots with emotional and mental issues.

Luckily for us men, we can be 30+ and still date girls in their early 20's:blessed:, but you still need tangibles though :usure:
 
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Lifestyle choice. I got married at 25
- knew she was who I wanted to be with
- wanted (more) kids and didn't want to be raising young kids in my 40s
- didn't want to play the field anymore and had no desire to be in the game
- also quite honestly I've always wanted to be married and know a ton of older single folks who want someone and can't find someone and talk about the one that got away or whatever. Didn't want that to be me so I didn't want to wait
- Marriage is a great thing.

Been married 7 years and no lie its better now than it ever was
 

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Your supposed to find your mate during college:manny:

The older you get the pickings become slim with chicks with babies and baggage from being fukked over by nikkas.

Will save you a lot of trouble cuffing a chick while your young

On top of that I don't want to be one of those nikkas who lose a good thing because he want to be a hoe in his 20's. Wake up one morning 31 years old and all the good women gone then I'm stuck with single mothers or chicks with issues.
 
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I'm 32 no kids no wife. I aim to accomplish more than I did in my 20s. I wasted a lot of time in my 20s(clubin, partying etc)I wanna accomplish more than be in a relationship. At my age women are damaged and or they have somebody elses kid or kids and I'm not Intrested in them...nd I'm just not built for that The young women of this generation are very attention driven have a I know everything type attitude etc. I think finding a women is difficult period.

If I don't get married its okay if I do its okay. Now I just want other achieve things and help others. This notion that women are used good in there 30 is BS I went to a HBCU. A lot of those women got ran threw in my 20s if they maintained there looks in their late 20s then somebody is still going to feel like they came up. But did they relly come up thoe ? There is No perfect women and no MAN controls a women body.

I think the dynamic that is interesting is women do what they want in there 20 nd believe a good man is just going to be waiting on them in their late 20s. When most had decent dudes approach them they just turned lot of them down. They feel like they can have a good man WHEN they get ready to and life do sent work like that. It just what I see going on in this generation MD mines as well.

nikka need to figure out what the word hypergamy is learn it.
 
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false maybe in your area, but there are more single women of every age demographic than ever before

There are MORE single women in every demographic because there are LESS women who are marriage-minded.

Most marriages end in divorce anyway:camby:

This stopped being true a long time ago. The marriage and divorce rates are both way down from, the 1980s after the baby boomers (influenced heavily by feminism) all flamed out.
 
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I don't know about marriage that young, but if you are in a stable, established relationship in your early 20s are you really praying on it to fail? What's the point of even being in it then? :manny:

I'm 23, my GF is 22, and we are both going to graduate within a year. We've been together for a little over a year now, and yeah I don't really see myself being with anyone else. She feels the same and it's sort of an unspoken thing between us. Though she's been dropping some hints that this is the path she wants to go down. If you found someone that you see room for growth with, is trustworthy and not crazy, satisfies you sexually, and most of all someone you have fun with, I don't see a reason to ever throw that out because social norms dictate that you should hold off on finding the one.

Now I don't know about tying the knot, but I don't see anything wrong with being in a serious, monogamous relationship in your early 20s that has a high chance of leading to marriage.
 
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