Is there really a shortage of black men for black women to date/married? OR

[Taadow]

Could be but you can't use a message board as a standard.

I gotta call BS in the sense that now we magically have this group of black men not able to find women beyond normal circumstances.

I'm with you...but if you let the media (and people who parrot what the media says) tell it, there's no such group.

I think that's what other dude was getting at, but he can correct me if i'm wrong.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

More Skeezers playing the victim...fukk them

if these "available women" would make themselves available maybe good men would come your way. When you throw the vibe that you are 'too good" or "please, I dont need another man trying to talk to me" , good men dont want to deal with the tude....available blk broads, lighten up...dont think you are too good to approach these good men and maybe your luck will change

What does a good man look like?

Give me an example so I can tell these lonely women how to spot one.

 

[mozichrome]

so the dead horse beat down topic wheel landed on this today?

 

[ORDER_66]

I've heard this shyt for years... it's starting to sound stupid as hell!

 

[How Sway?]

Come to Africa ladies, we'll welcome you with open arms.

On the real, I feel like I might end up doing that. Either there or in the Carribean...

EDIT: Im a dude BTW. but I might end up finding a lovely lady in Africa or the Islands...

 

[Crakface]

4.7 percent of americans earn over 100k per year

10 percent of Americans earn more then 50k

90 percent of black People earn less then 50k per year.

So ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.

 

[Seto]

If the coli mind-set is any indication then yes there is a shortage of BM who want relationships that eventually lead to marriage. There's a shortage of BM who want to settle down at a decent age instead of waiting until they're old before thinking of having a real family.

That's just based on my coli men observation.

Now if coli men want to come in here saying otherwise, I can point them to threads where many of them stated such things.

You do realize that the ratio of BW to BM in the United States is 4/1. So yes there is a shortage of BM.

Why hasn't anyone addressed these comments yet?

And why are you negros paying attention to what CNN has to tell you about black people?

When will you learn?

 

[Doobie Doo]

What does a good man look like?

Give me an example so I can tell these lonely women how to spot one.

There isn't a look, and that's the problem. When you check for the superficial it's easier for nikkas to deceive you.

Does a mother fukker work and bring home a steady paycheck? Does the nikka treat you good? Do you treat that nikka good? Does he make you happy? Does he look happy when you around?

9 out of 10 times the nikkas who are the most loyal to you are the one's with the least amount of options. Give sum p*ssy to hard working fat nikka or ugly ass nikka those are good men.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

There isn't a look, and that's the problem. When you check for the superficial it's easier for nikkas to deceive you.

Does a mother fukker work and bring home a steady paycheck? Does the nikka treat you good? Do you treat that nikka good? Does he make you happy? Does he look happy when you around?

9 out of 10 times the nikkas who are the most loyal to you are the one's with the least amount of options. Give sum p*ssy to hard working fat nikka or ugly ass nikka those are good men.

Those are good questions and I would probably ask similar ones but that's not what that poster said hence my question.

You can't spot a good person, you can only hope the man/woman you chose is good and considering that most people choose their mate based on if they are attracted to them or not, women will more than likely go through some frogs before they find that prince, just like men will go through their share of "THOTs" before they find their queens. Unfortunately not every man or woman will be lucky enough to find that goodman/woman which is why we have threads and articles like this popping up a lot. Whether they deserve that good man or woman is another question.

It's a game of chance and it always will be.

And choosing a fat or ugly dude isn't a guarantee of anything.

 

[Doobie Doo]

Those are good questions and I would probably ask similar ones but that's not what that poster said hence my question.

You can't spot a good person, you can only hope the man/woman you chose is good and considering that most people choose their mate based on if they are attracted to them or not, women will more than likely go through some frogs before they find that prince, just like men will go through their share of "THOTs" before they find their queens. Unfortunately not every man or woman will be lucky enough to find that goodman/woman which is why we have threads and articles like this popping up a lot. Whether they deserve that good man or woman is another question.

It's a game of chance and it always will be.

And choosing a fat or ugly dude isn't a guarantee of anything.

There are no guarantees but the idea of a good man to a lot of black women is extremes. They want a handsome man who looks like an Idris Elba or Denzel, making 6 figures plus, who pays for everything, great body, nice cars etc. But if a woman lands a guy like that all her insecurities are coming out because she's gotta fight off every bytch cuz they will be throwing p*ssy at the nikka too. 90% of women want to fukk 10% of guys. You have a better chance of being in a happy relationship with an average looking guy making 50K, who drives a mid priced sedan who treats you right. It's a shame because women look too much towards the media to dictate what a relationship is supposed to be. Good relationships are boring .

 

[Invisible Man]

Black people got more important things to worry about than romance.

 

[Ice Water]

Why do black women keep dating no good dudes? If there was a shortage of Bm wouldn't they have moved on by now?

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

There are no guarantees but the idea of a good man to a lot of black women is extremes. They want a handsome man who looks like an Idris Elba or Denzel, making 6 figures plus, who pays for everything, great body, nice cars etc. But if a woman lands a guy like that all her insecurities are coming out because she's gotta fight off every bytch cuz they will be throwing p*ssy at the nikka too. 90% of women want to fukk 10% of guys. You have a better chance of being in a happy relationship with an average looking guy making 50K, who drives a mid priced sedan who treats you right. It's a shame because women look too much towards the media to dictate what a relationship is supposed to be. Good relationships are boring .

Ugh I thought we were getting somewhere but then you start generalizing black women based on what??? Majority of BW are dating average black guys.

I'm almost certain the majority of black men on this forum have dated black women that did not require any of that so why jump to such a conclusion when discussing this topic?

Every woman has a fantasy and most women know that fantasy is just that. Just like every man has a fantasy of the type of woman they want and most men realize that that fantasy will most likely never come true so they don't have that expectation.

It gets annoying hearing you men tell us what we want and what we expect. You don't know and that's why these topics are full of you men talking bullshyt and completely overlooking or dismissing an actual woman telling you the truth. Smh

 

[KenyaDoll]

Those are good questions and I would probably ask similar ones but that's not what that poster said hence my question.

You can't spot a good person, you can only hope the man/woman you chose is good and considering that most people choose their mate based on if they are attracted to them or not, women will more than likely go through some frogs before they find that prince, just like men will go through their share of "THOTs" before they find their queens. Unfortunately not every man or woman will be lucky enough to find that goodman/woman which is why we have threads and articles like this popping up a lot. Whether they deserve that good man or woman is another question.

It's a game of chance and it always will be.

And choosing a fat or ugly dude isn't a guarantee of anything.

RIGHT!!! I've come across a lot of ugly and overweight a-holes. I mean...just look at the coli men picture thread.

 

[Mac Brown]

the truth is that relationships are a gamble for all humans. the media spotlights so called "black relationship" problems just to further down us and make us seem inferior to the mass public.

the real deal on relationships is that -------------- not everyone is compatible. and monogomy is a myth that is not common amongts human beings. It never has been, never will be, no matter your religious or idealistic beliefs.

we are nothing more than smart mammals.

get over it.\


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