Is there really a shortage of black men for black women to date/married? OR

[Blah1991]

i guess we are pretending that black men on average don't make more than black women

Men in general make more than women. However, with education gap within our community growing exponentially, black women will likely make more than black men within the next 10 or 15 years. Rather than try to drag down black women because of your insecurity, why don't black men better themselves and their community?

 

[Spatial Paradox]

what world do you live in where most black women can afford that lifestyle? i mean, do you really believe the hype? do you think 80% of yall are roaming around with 100k a yr careers?

average black woman would be sucking dikk for weave if they cut off all welfare programs. get real

You can't seriously believe this...

 

[Blah1991]

Those other men had a fukking head start while Black men's shoelaces were tied.

That is true. But why are theses explanations allowed for black men's shortcomings, but when discussing the shortcomings of black women, it's open season. Black women are lazy, etc. the hypocrisy is stunning.

 

[el_oh_el]

Men can survive comfortably on their own
Women can survive comfortably on their own... that shouldn't be a debate.....

You are suggesting that women are dikk sucking fiends who have to fukk to survive...

Some of these chicks that have all them damn kids and live off welfare might if said welfare was cut off, just being honest. Them chicks aint shyt...

And what chicks denying a nikka making 50k? Where im from that aint chump change...you can live real comfortably off that..

You can't seriously believe this...

He might be out of line for saying "average" but at the rate these hoodrats buy weave and spend welfare money do you think hes way off base??

 

[Colicat]

No one said that. But, many are putting to rest the idea that the majority of Black women are out here ballin' out of control.

Most are just above the poverty line, yet want a nikka to be ballin. They need to stop dreaming, find a nikka to build with, and then work toward ballin together.

I think the problem is everyone is trying to argue down extremes.... The problem with suggesting that a woman "find a nikka to build with" is that you are making the assumption that she isn't looking for someone to build with...

 

[marcuz]

You can't seriously believe this...

i do, if BW had no leg up through social welfare, particularly ebt, section 8, wic, and general relief checks; many black women would be forced to either prostitute or change their spending habits

 

[philmonroe]

First... calm down... you are scaring me...
Second, my post was in response to another poster dealing with social forces...nobody said anything about how prevalent this occurrence is or was
Third, to ignore this occurrence is the foundation of any lie you want to tell about Black relationships

First shut up how can somebody scare you on a messageboard . I'm calm just cause you don't like how I posted something don't mean I'm not calm. Second my point was people of both genders are full of shyt but I guess you didn't read the whole post after I spoke on your bullshyt. Thats how it goes though folks get mad and don't see anything else anymore.

 

[Blah1991]

No one said that. But, many are putting to rest the idea that the majority of Black women are out here ballin' out of control.

Most are just above the poverty line, yet want a nikka to be ballin. They need to stop dreaming, find a nikka to build with, and then work toward ballin together.

Who said most black women are ballin?????? Where are u getting this from??? Fakkits like you want a reason to shyt on black women. Just admit it.

 

[mamba]

Men in general make more than women. However, with education gap within our community growing exponentially, black women will likely make more than black men within the next 10 or 15 years. Rather than try to drag down black women because of your insecurity, why don't black men better themselves and their community?

That's assuming cacs continue to have a place for Black women in the workplace. They could easily be replaced by our bilingual Mexican brehettes. Not to mention the Asian brehettes. Projecting 10-15 years out, given the demographic changes about to take place, is not a wise bet.

 

[Canon]

Men in general make more than women. However, with education gap within our community growing exponentially, black women will likely make more than black men within the next 10 or 15 years. Rather than try to drag down black women because of your insecurity, why don't black men better themselves and their community?

 

[el_oh_el]

i do, if BW had no leg up through social welfare, particularly ebt, section 8, wic, and general relief checks; many black women would be forced to either prostitute or change their spending habits

No more weave??

 

[marcuz]

Who said most black women are ballin?????? Where are u getting this from??? Fakkits like you want a reason to shyt on black women. Just admit it.

@Colicat suggested black women were doing pretty fukking well til her own statistics bit her in the ass.

 

[Colicat]

Some of these chicks that have all them damn kids and live off welfare might if said welfare was cut off, just being honest. Them chicks aint shyt...

And what chicks denying a nikka making 50k? Where im from that aint chump change...you can live real comfortably off that..



He might be out of line for saying "average" (ya think) but at the rate these hoodrats buy weave and spend welfare money do you think hes way off base??

I really want to know who these women are... It's not chump change to me either...

 

[philmonroe]

Why are y'all arguing at each when y'all know y'all should be arguing at the powers that be?

Why? What does the powers that be have to do with who people choose to date unless you are under mind control. You have that choice depending on who wants you. The only thing I will say though is people should just work on being the best them and the rest will usually fall into place instead of worrying about folks male/female that don't want you for whatever reason.

 

[mamba]

Who said most black women are ballin?????? Where are u getting this from??? Fakkits like you want a reason to shyt on black women. Just admit it.

A brehette tried to use shady statistics to say 47% of Black women are ballin. It was later found that that stat was for combined household income.