No people were literally saying the parents should let the kids live with them UNTIL the kids could afford a home and had a nice savings
That literally applies to this same situation
I mean if your child is pursuing an education, has a career and is ACTUALLY stacking bread, how is that the same as being an unemployed 40YO sitting in your room all day?
The former example is stacking enough money to be able to purchase a home and have a flush savings account, and probably never return home.
Guys in my family did that and so did guys I went to school with. Popped up out of the blue with master's degrees and condos in the city

. Good longterm planning.
If your child is on their shyt it’s a win.