Is True Romance A Lost Art For Men?

[The Devil's Advocate]

Im trying to see the correlation here of watching her twitter instead of wining and dining her.

ease of access.. i've been saying this since myspace...

past: you see a woman out. you approach her, ask all about her, have a nice convo. you ask for the number so you can learn more.. you call her, talk to her, cause that's your only access to her.. you take her out on dates and spend time with her, because that's what she demands.. you put on a show for her, to win her over, cause you like her really.. but also because that's what you have to do, cause that's what she demands


today: you hit the search area and mile radius on an internet site.. you read her profile, learning everything from where she was born, to what type of nikkas she dates, to who she associates with, to what she likes to do and what she wears while doing it.... you like some pics and say some slick comments... you inbox her or text her for a week or two... learning everything you didn't get off the page... by now, she feels she knows you and she's comfortable with you.... you invite her over (sometimes she offers to "stop by" on her own)... you chill and fukk that first night.. but to her.. that doesn't count cause we was "talking" for like a month before we met






i'm not saying it's on you... but it is lol... women hold the power in sex... and love... if she says you won't be getting a damn thing till you take me out on 5 dates... trust me... you ain't getting shyt... if she accepts texting and comments are "i know him so lets fukk" then that's on her.

a man is not gonna be like "oh you want to stop by and watch netflix tonight?? nah baby stay home until you let me date you 3 times"

ease of access

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

To some extent, it worked in our parent's generation, but the women in this generation were raised in a completely different paradigm under completely different circumstances...

I would like to agree to being a witness to this phenomena, it would be convenient though if there was some type of recordings of pre television era vs post. I have a feeling television plays a huge part in this in the form of group thought.

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

ease of access.. i've been saying this since myspace...

past: you see a woman out. you approach her, ask all about her, have a nice convo. you ask for the number so you can learn more.. you call her, talk to her, cause that's your only access to her.. you take her out on dates and spend time with her, because that's what she demands.. you put on a show for her, to win her over, cause you like her really.. but also because that's what you have to do, cause that's what she demands


today: you hit the search area and mile radius on an internet site.. you read her profile, learning everything from where she was born, to what type of nikkas she dates, to who she associates with, to what she likes to do and what she wears while doing it.... you like some pics and say some slick comments... you inbox her or text her for a week or two... learning everything you didn't get off the page... by now, she feels she knows you and she's comfortable with you.... you invite her over (sometimes she offers to "stop by" on her own)... you chill and fukk that first night.. but to her.. that doesn't count cause we was "talking" for like a month before we met






i'm not saying it's on you... but it is lol... women hold the power in sex... and love... if she says you won't be getting a damn thing till you take me out on 5 dates... trust me... you ain't getting shyt... if she accepts texting and comments are "i know him so lets fukk" then that's on her.

a man is not gonna be like "oh you want to stop by and watch netflix tonight?? nah baby stay home until you let me date you 3 times"

ease of access

I see now. How much power can a woman really hold, might you say? I know you've said they can withhold love and sex to get their wants, but you also say it's "on me" . There seems to be an untapped potential in what may be an contradiction.

 

[mamba]

Play that romance game and watch as how after you take mami to dinner, she gives you a kiss on the cheek and calls another dude who does NONE of that to knock it out the park. Men lost the 'romantic arts' because that's not what women really respond to unless you want that 'awwww you're such a sweety response.'

Romance is a lost art because men see other men reaching the same goal without putting in as much work.

Why wine and dine a chick when another nikka can just hit her up with the "WYD" text at 1am and get in them guts?

 

[mamba]

Its the dude that does nothing on valentines day chick angry etc. That is in them guta later Not the simp who buys her flowers.

A few women are deserving and appreciated of true romance but there far and in between .

Ever dated a broad and got the oh wow your the first guy who ever got me flowers etc. Yet she been ran through more times than a amber turning red at 3am.

 

[s3ven_LvLs]

Not falling for the jedi mind tricks.....

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

Not falling for the jedi mind tricks.....

Would you care to add if I told you they were of the sith?

 

[Swirv]

A little romance doesnt hurt just dont overdo it. I feel where alot of fellas come from about it being worthless on most women. There are some who like and appreciate it.

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

A little romance doesnt hurt just dont overdo it. I feel where alot of fellas come from about it being worthless on most women. There are some who like and appreciate it.

Too much of anything is a bad thing is a pretty common summary, not that it isn't applicable though.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

I see now. How much power can a woman really hold, might you say? I know you've said they can withhold love and sex to get their wants, but you also say it's "on me" . There seems to be an untapped potential in what may be an contradiction.

Well my bad. I see the avi and assumed you were a woman

Woman hold all power when it comes to sex. A man can do what he wants. Pull out the fireworks and make angels fall from the sky. But if she says no, you not getting any. Period

So the shift that happened where women used to force men to wait months, years, till marriage to get some. To make them show and prove true love before giving it up... It's gone

Men know this too and now put in minimal effort. Which would never work in the 30s. Works just fine today. And in the biggest surprise, women are now pushing men to hurry up and come smash it

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

Well my bad. I see the avi and assumed you were a woman

Woman hold all power when it comes to sex. A man can do what he wants. Pull out the fireworks and make angels fall from the sky. But if she says no, you not getting any. Period

So the shift that happened where women used to force men to wait months, years, till marriage to get some. To make them show and prove true love before giving it up... It's gone

Men know this too and now put in minimal effort. Which would never work in the 30s. Works just fine today. And in the biggest surprise, women are now pushing men to hurry up and come smash it

I see....very interesting.

*right clicks*

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

That's what I want. Romance. Love. One of them fairy tale style relationships.

THe older I get, I don't feel like chasing random tail at the bar...I just want that one honey I can call the one and say peace.

I feel like this generation only values sex and hooking up...and has killed romancce altogether. Now we're just looking at the dysfunctions it has caused where men are too aggressive, too focused on sex, women are too focused on getting in men's pocketsor too much on the defensive...and no one has any sense of morals or respect toward each other anymore as human beings. Point? We don't value each other anymore.

Look at previous generations...I think about how all the music in my Parent's time was all about relationships and love and now everything is about sex and f*cking and thots and this bullshyt? How are we even going to produc a cognizant generation to follow us if this is where we're at now.

Maybe human nature is just going against the whims of society and it perhaps was just unstoppable...I don't know. There are many other factors out there...but personally I feel like romance is just dead in general...and what people think it is has just been change due to how the world has changed in retrospect.

 

[Mr. Negative]

for the love of God @Dirty_Jerz change your font color!!!

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

No.

Seduction works better to get in them pants fast though.

so its probably used more often.

 

[360dagod]

Get the digits, talk for a bit, tell her to shut the fukk in a playful manner about 5 or 6 times and her p*ssy is already wet