Is Using And Perceiving Someone As Good Enough For Just Sex A Form Of Abuse?

[SheWantTheD]

That was a bit wordy but hear me out. Today a lot of people are having sex with people they perceive as someone just to have sex with, but won't enter into a relationship with them, commit to them, have their children etc.

Is this wrong? Yes? No? Is it a form of abuse? Do you truly care about such individuals? What are ya thoughts?

 

[collateral.]

I fail to see how it would be considered abuse though

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

If u let em know what it is and they choose to keep letting u smash how is that abuse

U sounding real suspect with this question b

 

[SheWantTheD]

If u let em know what it is and they choose to keep letting u smash how is that abuse

U sounding real suspect with this question b

just asking questions B. It's like "You are good enough to fukk, but that's it". Back in the day people did this with whores and that's it. Royalty would fukk people of lower social class and would never acknowledge them as equals.

 

[cocoabutter27]

Everyone isn't equal . There are some people you have AMAZING chemistry with that aren't people you want long term. Most women don't marry the best dikk they ever had. They marry the best man for them. As long as everyone is upfront and honest about "we are just having sex and that's it", then 2 consenting adults can do what they want.

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

just asking questions B. It's like "You are good enough to fukk, but that's it". Back in the day people did this with whores and that's it. Royalty would fukk people of lower social class and would never acknowledge them as equals.

How is that considered abuse tho, especially if they were upfront about it

 

[SheWantTheD]

Everyone isn't equal . There are some people you have AMAZING chemistry with that aren't people you want long term. Most women don't marry the best dikk they ever had. They marry the best man for them. As long as everyone is upfront and honest about "we are just having sex and that's it", then 2 consenting adults can do what they want.

What is chemistry? Seems like bs to me. Wouldn't you have more chemistry with someone the longer you've been together.

 

[Perpetual Beast]

If someone is dumb enough not to see someone is using them only for sex, they deserve the "abuse" 100 times over.

Answers 1 out of every 5 calls, texts within an hour apart or so, never provides any value, went to 3 dead grandma funerals Ina calendar year etc

You can't read between those lines? *unzips pants*...time for daddy's fix of the day

 

[Citi Trends]

Having sex = abuse

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[Larry Lambo]

Abuse is a strong word.

Now if you are deceiving chicks and selling them dreams to get puss then that is foul, but I wouldn't call it abuse.

If you just happen to not see a woman as wife potential, that is just normal. Attractive enough to sleep with but not good enough to wife is just a reality that most men deal with.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Everyone isn't equal . There are some people you have AMAZING chemistry with that aren't people you want long term.

Facts. I could completely click with a chick and find her very attractive, but if she got kids, long term is not gonna happen.

If she's 5-10 years older than me it's not gonna happen either. There's a few things that are dealbreakers in the long term, but irrelevant when it comes to casual sex.

 

[Suleiman Bey]

Yeah, in the same way they used to say masturbation was self abuse.

If you lying to a chick leading her on just for sex, it's abuse.

 

[cocoabutter27]

What is chemistry? Seems like bs to me. Wouldn't you have more chemistry with someone the longer you've been together.

Chemistry is the pull, that gravitation towards a certain person. When you are around them and just can't stop touching them...when everything they do makes you tingle. It isn't something that happens for everyone with everybody. Chemistry brings people together, staying together is work...chemistry is naturally there or not.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Chemistry is the pull, that gravitation towards a certain person. When you are around them and just can't stop touching them...when everything they do makes you tingle. It isn't something that happens for everyone with everybody. Chemistry brings people together, staying together is work...chemistry is naturally there or not.

infatuation and lust are what those things are. strong feelings.