It’s amazing how little it takes to make an average man happy 😊 give me this right here and I’m good … and it’s STILL to much to ask for for some 🤨

[O.G.B]

What do you expect a women like this to say if she was raised by a single mother and fatherless. If you she wasn’t raised to respect a provider man you think that suddenly changes when she meets one?

If you care about this so much you should be finding women that come from a two parent home where these values were instilled. But it’s hard to care about that since most nikkaz was raised fatherless and probably raised by a mother just like the woman in the post.

You hen pecked wimps & simps with no backbone are primarily the reason BW maintain these backward ass behaviors today.

 

[SNG]

You hen pecked wimps & simps with no backbone are primarily the reason BW maintain these backward ass behaviors today.

What did I say wrong? If a black woman is raised by a single mom and not taught to be submissive they will be learning by trial and error which is not instilled behaviour to do it. I’m not sticking up for this woman I’m saying what it is.

 

[jilla82]

What sounds so alluring about cooking meals,keeping a mans cooler full,rubbing a mans back and feet? And yall really be wondering why women aint chomping at the bit to sign up for this shyt

I guess the selling point is the free place to stay. But women can stay with their parents and submit to them if thats the case. Yall put way too much stock in food and shelter. This is that European mindset. Ladies in the peanut gallery,we can assure you the itenerary of a proverbs 31 angel is far more robust. Get you a righteous black man if you can. Not too many of us out there. But if your the real thing your essence will lead you to where to look

literally every woman ive been serious with went out of their way to cook, clean etc...

thats how women behave when they really fukk with you and/or they dont want to lose you.

Im not even sure what youre saying...
you want to share all the household responsibilities 50/50?
you dont believe in gender roles?

 

[Still Benefited]

literally every woman ive been serious with went out of their way to cook, clean etc...

thats how women behave when they really fukk with you and/or they dont want to lose you.

Im not even sure what youre saying...
you want to share all the household responsibilities 50/50?
you dont believe in gender roles?

Look at the bolded and see what you just said. Women do these things when they like you and dont want to lose you. So why dont we lead with likeable qualities,character traits,and other things we provide that women shouldnt want to lose. Rather than reducing men to shelter providing,bill paying beings.


Everyone knows i believe women shouldnt be in the workforce and should be home makers. And my experience is the same as yours with women. But i never felt women should be home makers or submissive just because a man pays the bills or provides shelter.


These convos dont usually involve anything that I think would make a woman whos actually about something fulfilled. Never any long term goals,never anything the man is working towards,never anything substantive for women to do. Its just "scratch my back","make me a sandwhich".


Men complain about women having too many standards on what they will submit to. But men need to have higher standards and more substantive work and goals for the women they want to submit imo. But some women are simple,and some men like simple and vice versa

 

[O.G.B]

What did I say wrong? If a black woman is raised by a single mom and not taught to be submissive they will be learning by trial and error which is not instilled behaviour to do it. I’m not sticking up for this woman I’m saying what it is.

The fact that you don't know this woman personally nor her parental situation, yet you're making excuses for her sheer stupidity/lack of discernment clearly speaks volumes.

Again, too many BM like yourself are part of the issue/problem because you're too afraid to directly call out BW negative behaviors/bullshyt.

 

[Still Benefited]

Mwn do a horrible job selling the "why a woman should commit" thing. And thats because alot of us dont actually have shyt going on that a woman should be SUBMITTING to. Meaning many of us have alot more work to do as black men. I wouldnt tell a woman to quit her job to be submissive to most of these men out here,even if he was willing. Nah, dont quit your day job maam


Feel free to date men who dont have shyt going on,arent the most responsible,driven,intelligent,long term thinker if you like. Maybe you can inspire and change him. But theres levels when it comes to submitting

 

[CopiousX]

What do you expect a women like this to say if she was raised by a single mother and fatherless. If you she wasn’t raised to respect a provider man you think that suddenly changes when she meets one?

If you care about this so much you should be finding women that come from a two parent home where these values were instilled. But it’s hard to care about that since most nikkaz was raised fatherless and probably raised by a mother just like the woman in the post.

In truth, I'm not sure I believe this.

From what I've seen, its really a matter of respect or attraction. A lot of dudes don't have this from their women.

Even the most badly behaved, no good-example having woman will bend over backwards and cater to a man if she is really attracted to him or knows that she has a lot of competition for her guy.

This type of behavior is instinctual for women if they think they got a hot comodity in their bed.

 

[SNG]

The fact that you don't know this woman personally nor her parental situation, yet you're making excuses for her sheer stupidity/lack of discernment clearly speaks volumes.

Again, too many BM like yourself are part of the issue/problem because you're too afraid to directly call out BW negative behaviors/bullshyt.

Bro I was in this shyt. I was in a relationship with a women talking about this shyt and providing and asking why she wasn’t more submissive and I thought I was crazy for asking that. But it wasn’t until I talked to her mother where all the shyt made sense and she told me that she didn’t raise her to be submissive regardless of me providing snd I seen where it came from. You had Kevin Samuels lay the blueprint and a lot still chose to ignore. It’s at a point with some not all are not worth the energy of calling out. And the black men like me aren’t apart of the problem we just know alot get triggered by the conversation and it goes nowhere so we will find someone close to our needs weither that’s a black woman or a woman of another race and keep it moving.

 

[SNG]

In truth, I'm not sure I believe this.

From what I've seen, its really a matter of respect or attraction. A lot of dudes don't have this from their women.

Even the most badly behaved, no good-example having woman will bend over backwards and cater to a man if she is really attracted to him or knows that she has a lot of competition for her guy.

This type of behavior is instinctual for women if they think they got a hot comodity in their bed.

Some do but some do not regardless of how attractive they are to them.

 

[Shadow King]

Imagine paying all the bills and all you get is some cold food, no warmth from a woman and some struggle buns and maybe on your birthday some head 21st century marriage. Couldn't be me.

Fixed.

 

[O.G.B]

Bro I was in this shyt. I was in a relationship with a women talking about this shyt and providing and asking why she wasn’t more submissive and I thought I was crazy for asking that. But it wasn’t until I talked to her mother where all the shyt made sense and she told me that she didn’t raise her to be submissive regardless of me providing snd I seen where it came from. You had Kevin Samuels lay the blueprint and a lot still chose to ignore. It’s at a point with some not all are not worth the energy of calling out. And the black men like me aren’t apart of the problem we just know alot get triggered by the conversation and it goes nowhere so we will find someone close to our needs weither that’s a black woman or a woman of another race and keep it moving.

I understand your premise & I'm not stating you're incorrect (particularly based on your situation). However, what I am stating is that in this particular scenario, I'm not willing to give this babbling BW in the video clip (or any other BW I don't know on a personal level) the benefit of the doubt, just because.

 

[SNG]

I understand your premise & I'm not stating you're incorrect (particularly based on your situation). However, what I am stating is that in this particular scenario, I'm not willing to give this babbling BW in the video clip (or any other BW I don't know on a personal level) the benefit of the doubt, just because.

To each his own I just know a women thats talking in the video is a waste of energy.

 

[ItsPeople]

Questions PAAGs don’t ask for 500 Ken.