Naw, don't get it twisted. You men are just as vindictive, it's just in different ways. Ima keep it real, most women gossip to compete for male attention. That's where the vindictiveness comes in to play. Girl likes guy, guy likes another girl. First girl starts rumor about second girl to make her look like a hoe. The vindictiveness is done in a pack whereas men do it individually.
But that's not the point I was trying to make. Both genders gossip so to say you would rather hang out with one versus the other simply bc of that makes no sense. If it was simply bc of gossiping, then you just wouldn't hang out with much people, like myself.
If women do it in packs that means yall gossip more,more women gon hear it and aint no telling how many people they gon run and tell....If a man does tell me something to another man its a good chance the rumor will stop right there,and they probably told me because they trusted that it would....with a woman theres no regard and aint no way the info gon stop at the first woman...when it come to gossip
Men=std,may spread by intimate contact

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Women=airborne virus,anybody can get it:damn.
And btw you gotta consider the fact men aint as judgemental as women,so a woman can tell us some shyt and we thinking "

",if she aint our woman....Yall will take it upon your self to remember it,then judge somebody and turn some casual info into a whole scandalous confession they need to tell everybody.