It’s embarrassing fuccn with someone harder than they fucc wit you

[Swirv]

people be so insecure with their feelings and scary to standf on their own shyt. i always say i'm a sucker for love which sometimes involves going harder than the other. i do so because it's a feeling i enjoy so ima do me and enjoy it. i'm not stiffling my shyt just to play "keep the same energy"

I’m team beyourself, but only with ppl that don’t take advantage

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

stiff doesn't sound like fun at all, lol im in it for the fun, trying to get loose! of course we wouldn't be to the level if i didn't feel a certain level of comraderie so that goes without saying. but rocking with someone doesn't always mean being together. at least i know i tried it out though, and didn't go through it according to some random dating rules like "don't text twice in a row" lmao. i will text yo ass whenever i want

#authenticity

Being stiff just mean sticking to whatever principles you got for yourself. Like if I got interest in you on a certain level, I’m not gonna keep pursuing if you not reciprocating similar interest. I agree with you in general though. Like you said, you just wanna have fun. But how much fun you expected to have at the expense or with someone that don’t “rock with you” as much as you rock with them? At some point, someone feelings gonna get hurt

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I’m team beyourself, but only with ppl that don’t take advantage

if they are going to take advantage, i want them to show me. i am of the "give them enough rope to hang themselves" school of thought. i don't want to have to trick/control/game someone into acting accordingly. in the end i can say i tried my best. in their end they can only say they played games and it didn't work out because they always come back trying to be "real" this time

 

[Jasonmask]

That’s true but sometimes that person will notice and the roles will switch overtime

 

[Swirv]

if they are going to take advantage, i want them to show me. i am of the "give them enough rope to hang themselves" school of thought. i don't want to have to trick/control/game someone into acting accordingly. in the end i can say i tried my best. in their end they can only say they played games and it didn't work out because they always come back trying to be "real" this time

They sure do come back when they’ve realized how they played themselves. Too late by then, most times

 

[ItsPeople]

Chicks have the luxury of giving their all in a relationship. Since their primary OS is feelings as opposed to logic, they are better equipped to deal with heartache.

Guys have to be very guarded when going harder than their s/o in relationships because we don’t have the tools to deal with heartbreak the way females do.

That’s why you have so many men go off the rails and take out the whole fam before they off themselves because thats how we deals with problems. Violence.

 

[WeDemBoyz]

 

[Chez Lopez]

in america black ppl don like eachother and will hate on eachother very quickly. friends and relationships are all transitional.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Being stiff just mean sticking to whatever principles you got for yourself. Like if I got interest in you on a certain level, I’m not gonna keep pursuing if you not reciprocating similar interest. I agree with you in general though. Like you said, you just wanna have fun. But how much fun you expected to have at the expense or with someone that don’t “rock with you” as much as you rock with them? At some point, someone feelings gonna get hurt

it's a difference between feelings hurt because someone disrespected you, and feelings hurt because feelings weren't the same. i can still be your friend if it's the latter. that's just life and nothing to carry baggage over like the majority of folks do. what i'm not going to do is switch my emotions to match theirs which we already established was emotional baggage. i can't be carrying bags for people, i'm not a bell hop lol

 

[AQz]

True. You have to know when to cut people off though.

 

[Greed]

While it’s true, the alternative isn’t very fulfilling. So don’t overthink it, it’s out of your control how people act or react toward you

This doesn’t mean go full simp, allow yourself to be controlled, manipulated or disrespected. Or be clingy, thirsty and dependent. Those are signs of other issues. Obviously you should maintain your boundaries. However people are missing out on deep and meaningful relationships out of fear of being hurt or abandoned

If it happens, it happens. You move on and grow stronger, just like with anything else

 

[ThiefyPoo]

Like I always tell my homies, you gotta stay stiff on these hoes. Or in your case, you gotta stay stiff on these bros. You gotta fukk with those that fukk with you

The person you quoting saying the opposite and I agree . Don’t let no one distort how you love . It hurts being vulnerable but if that’s how you feel it’s how you feel .

 

[Dak Pickscott]

i come up under that old law if i fucc wit u im stucc wit u

i love hard i'll fucc around and let a snake bite me again

i was taught if they can just cut u off and move on like its nothin

then they wasn't really rocking with u like dat

 

[EffYou]

people be so insecure with their feelings and scary to standf on their own shyt. i always say i'm a sucker for love which sometimes involves going harder than the other. i do so because it's a feeling i enjoy so ima do me and enjoy it. i'm not stiffling my shyt just to play "keep the same energy"

realist shyt i’ve seen ur goofy ass post on here

 

[Justin Nitsuj]

This is why it's very important for everyone to not carry over the old baggage from your past relationships to your new one.

People scared to open their hearts up after someone done them wrong and they usually let that fukk them outta something that could be good for them.