It's fukked up to have kids, and then go and start another family and focus on them more

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Yeah, this thread is confusing as hell.

Are we solely talking about pieces of sh*t that have a kid that he has nothing to do with, only to become family man of the year with another woman and their kids?

I'm just posting my thoughts
Idk how everyone's family structures work
I just don't see how nikkas can equally split time between two households

Someone going to take a L

Nikkas coming back at me with, well what about the woman?

Women usually with the kids:hubie:

I done already said yeah, I don't think everyone does it right when someone brings new partner/spouse into the house

If yall wanna talk about women having kids with 3 or 4 baby daddies, yeah that's fukked up too

Yall nikkas happy, DAMN!
 

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See, now you dont want correction here but Ima give it anyway. Why is race the focus when you know good and well it happens more with same race people? If you think black men leave their childs black mother for a white woman more than they leave their childs black woman for another black woman.......you sir are a liar.


This thread was low hanging fruit and too obvious,needed some spice champ.

Who doesn't know this is fukked up in certain situation?How many of us have actually lived this:mjcry:
My statement is just an extension of what OP said. The speed in which I've seen bedbucks leave they black family for a mediocre white woman are latina is whats alarming. Black men just try to have our cake and eat it too when its another black woman. Or we will slowly transition over into a relationship with a black women we've been dealing with on the low for years. But if its a white woman or exotical,these color struck nikkas ain't taking no chances,whole family gotta go:martin:.

Obviously I don't have statistics to back this up,but normally my perception is deadly accurate.
90% of bedbucks will leave their black families for their white women/exotical within the first 5 months of meeting that non black woman.
In contrast,for black men to leave their black families for another black woman ,its years in the making.

Yes the time matters because its more traumatizing for the child and woman when it happens overnight. Plus its just an embarrassing look for said black man:snoop:
 

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Different fathers visiting on different days

:shaq2:

Word...and that’s just the fathers, not even the other dudes.


I got a relative who was a single mama real young and never married.
Her sons are a little younger than me.
One day we were just kickin’ it, and one of the sons turns to the other and asks:












“Yo - which one of Mama’s boyfriends was your favorite?”


Other one looks up in the air in thought like “hmmm...”,
and they considered an extensive list. I even added a couple.
We all had different answers.

Point is, if you dwell on it that’s really a fukked up question.
But dudes are just supposed to not trip off that and expect to be cool
with a woman having kids by niccas she don’t feel anything for anymore.
Oh well.
 

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We can agree to disagree
I'm posting shyt on a forum
I'm not really hoping to accomplish anything

I’m not even disagreeing with you; I’m asking if you’re holding everybody to the same standard...
...and even if you are: does it even matter, being that these situations are not “fair”?

There are all kinds of levels to the chit...
 

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pretty much what happen with my niece my sister an the baby daddy had a thing for a lil min an she had my niece think she saw dude maybe 5 or 6 times total he ended up getting with this other lady an they got kids together i don't even know if they know about my niece when my sister died of cancer in 2019 dont even think that nikka even reached out to my niece :why:
 

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I’m not even disagreeing with you; I’m asking if you’re holding everybody to the same standard...
...and even if you are: does it even matter, being that these situations are not “fair”?

There are all kinds of levels to the chit...

You asking about different situations
Women are not out here having kids with nikkas, leaving them with the Dad, and going to start another family in droves

Now if you're asking me do I think it's good for women to have multiple baby fathers carelessly I say no

Why are you acting like it's a gotcha question?
 

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I work with a chick who friend killed herself because her husband ended up having a affair and had another family and told his wife he can’t be with her cause she couldn’t have kids

I guess she called her husband while he was with his new fam and shot herself over the phone

said dude never showed up to the funeral
 

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Can’t really do much about it in modern society aka child’s mother chooses to live in another city for work and you only see your child summers and thanksgiving…Of course you will end up spending more time with the children who live with you.
 

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Can’t really do much about it in modern society aka child’s mother chooses to live in another city for work and you only see your child summers and thanksgiving…Of course you will end up spending more time with the children who live with you.

Yeah I feel u
It's not always the Dads fault.
 

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I know a nikka from fire academy

Buddy got a DAUGHTER lets just say her name is Maria

This man said fukk his jit never claimed or did anything for her but he married a next hoe and taking care of some other nikkas sackling and guess what her daughter name is MARIA


Damn so he basically replaced the kid
 

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Having numerous families is one thing..
Ignoring the seeds you already got out there is childish shyt. And making kids with bad stock is immature as well.. People need to grow up and make better choices..
 

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I guess so lol

But how tf you taking care of another nikka jit while neglecting your own? The name part just makes it worse

in his mind he legit replaced the kid…The dna doesn’t matter because he’s around the other child daily…likely says he only has one daughter and it’s the one he’s with. Does he pay child support and school stuff?
 
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