It's hard being a bedwench...especially when dating a white supremacist

[Rarebird77]

Yeah these guys are in denial.

For one the whole concept that Black women are jealous of white women in IR relationships comes for the same WW that these BM are dating.

BM in these relationship cosign this and even relish in it. ..

Thing is they don't see that as racism. . .

Also, a lot of these couples have more race issues then they would like to admit. The whole concept of this thread is predicated on the belief that white men are inherently racist.

There's never a belief that PAWGS are too and sometimes only attracted to BM for racist reasons.

Mind you, I''m not obsessed with dating white people. I like being Black and I'm dating a Black man. I have no issue with IR dating or marriage though and I'm not opposed but just don't think IR means dating a white person, nor am I obsessed with being with someone who's white. . .There are some black people, regardless to gender who will sacrifice self respect and integrity to be in a relationship with a white person though and I believe that's sad

 

[MajorVitaman]

@Yup

 

[IWunD3r]

http://nypost.com/2013/09/24/i-wooed-my-man-with-a-sandwich/


Who remembers this bedwench bullshyt?

Each morning, he would ask, “Honey, how long you have been awake?”

“About 15 minutes,” I’d reply.

“You’ve been up for 15 minutes and you haven’t made me a sandwich?”

To him, sandwiches are like kisses or hugs. Or sex. “Sandwiches are love,” he says. “Especially when you make them. You can’t get a sandwich with love from the deli.”



Just like the good ol days...

Let that have been a brotha tho.


as he put his clothes on*.
A Brotha: Baby, i just hopped out the shower...while im getting ready for wrk, can u make me a sandwich?


mumbles "momma's boy" under her breathe*
Her: i've only been up an hour, and u asking me to do stuff... .. why don't u get one from the deli?

A Brotha: i just love the way u make them

Rolls her eyes*
Her: nikka i aint ya slave.

 

[IWunD3r]

Emotional?

I'm trying to engage in just the opposite....calm, cool dialogue on a particular subject that has a direct impact on black women. And maybe even black men since these same women were product of black homes with black parents and black siblings.

How did they come to a place where they were ok with dating someone who thinks so little of them as black people?

How did they skip over black men to want and desire to be with not only a non-black male, which is whatever in my book, but a non-black male who degrades them to their face?

And I agree with your statement: "Focus should be made on establishing a healthy black community"

But we can't have a healthy community when we have women like this walking around in plain sight. And the scary part is, we don't know who these women are because no chick walks around with a "Negro Bed Wench" sign on. And contrary to some thought, these women DO assimilate back into black culture when convenient. So, some of the brehs are dating and/or married to this type of woman and don't even know it.

So, how can we make the black community healthy? Matter of fact, how can we even make black people a community first?

Peace

They're easy to spot because, those be the men n women , who shyt on their blk spouses...
there's alotta of bucks and wenches who've assimilated back into the blk community, out of necessity.
Whitey done kicked them to the curb. So they come back 2 black, but feel "trapped" in relationships with blk ppl.
They feel "trapped" because, they hate it. deep down they yearn to be with a wht person.
they're usually very abusive physically and or verbally to their partner, and their children as well... the children, most times grow up to be c00ns, super thugs, wenches or bucks as the cycle continues.

 

[IWunD3r]

It caters to ALL Black women and other women as well. It also targets some Black men as well to a smaller degree. You act like thecoli caters to c00ns, no but we got some c00ns. Come on son, you smarter than this. Stop using a broad brush, this person done put on so many AA's into online businesses via blogs, e-commerce, etc. Damn man, really.


This fool called Clutch a black feminist site,

This nikka mane.

We know what type...

 

[HollowPoints2]

There are two million more black women in the US than black men. That's not even discussing the black men who aren't in the dating pool for black women. What are those two million women supposed to do?

How do you know its 2 million?

Are you just repeating what you heard?

Keep in mind that each state has a different ratio of black women to black men.

 

[IWunD3r]

That was a good one

 

[bcrusaderw]

nikkaz ain't allowing white bytches to disrespect them tho

Don't we have an entire thread of a white woman disrespecting a black man? You all are delusional.

 

[bcrusaderw]

How do you know its 2 million?

Are you just repeating what you heard?

Keep in mind that each state has a different ratio of black women to black men.

The US cencus.

 

[HollowPoints2]

The US cencus.

Lets pull up the stats.

State by state.

What state you in?

 

[IWunD3r]

that gets some of them off. I've overheard a black woman talk on the bus about how het and her white boyfriend roleplay with that kinda shyt

Im sure most black women who date outside don't like that but the sickness is really bad for some people

It does get them off. Yet with wht ppl, when u give them an inch, they want a mile.
That's what these bucks n wenches failed to under stand. That shyt is not gonna stop in the bedroom...

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Don't we have an entire thread of a white woman disrespecting a black man? You all are delusional.

What thread?

 

[MF_BREW]

She on that " Why does he do that to me, I love him" shyt, cause HIS WHITE, NON USE WASH CLOTH USING ASS DONT GIVE A fukk ABOUT YOU. He had that Nubian queen fantasy in his head that whole time!

 

[IWunD3r]

im sayin though the delusion is on 1,000,000. I notice this generally with black folks who grew up around white folks that have that token mentality.




Just clown & mock their goofy ideology when they start talking that dumb shyt cause trying to hit em with logic & reason goes way over their head & it'll just leave you frustrated. Just gotta be there for our sistas when they get that wake up call cause we're all living in the matrix and none of us are perfect

That's the problem with the black community. nikkas aint won shyt since 1492.... we got too many scrubs on the squad; wenches, bucks, c00ns, savage ass goofy thugs... if we wanna grow, we gotta cut them. they're zombies at this point.
They holding us back man.

 

[thirdeye]

may i ask why ir relationships are such an issue in the states? lol
like these women really dating racists for? lol then surprised at the outcome...