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It's not your fault you can't get Black women, blame your parents. [Black Men]
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Free White & 21
AAGang
Why do some of yall act like there's not black people outside of the hood though
nikka i LIVED in the hood, that was part of the problem
I would basically sleep in the hood, leave to do other non black/hood shyt, then come back and sleep in the hood. I was disconnected yet connected - kinda straddling the fence. I would meet nikkas outside the hood and they were ALL THE WAY fukkED. Straight whitewashed and/or asian fetished out
I'll eat hamachi and watch ghost in the shell with you my nikka but that's where it stops
My shyt was off slightly, but not that bad. I wasn't whitewashed, i just wasn't into typical oakland/nikka shyt. nikkas in my hood would be wearing 505's, grant hills, etc. And my black ass would come outside in a ghostface glaciers of ice, BRIGHT YELLOW, Helly Hansen jumpsuit, timberlands, and a army fisherman hat on. nikkas in the hood thought i was a alien. It didn't help that i stayed hoppin out of cars with asians and mexicans
I wasn't really a square. I grew up around a lot of dope, i knew the game. I personally was gafflin for a living at the time and as i said, i actually lived in the hood I was just off a bit, and the black females, for the most part, wasn't feeling that shyt at all
Free White & 21
AAGang
And to the people saying "it's not black "rhythm", you're just socially awkward".
Nah brehs.
If i was fine around everybody BUT black people, then it ain't social awkwardness.
Nah brehs.
If i was fine around everybody BUT black people, then it ain't social awkwardness.
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KravenMorehead™
Barrel Brothers.®
I've intellectualized this before but I don't remember if i said it on here or not, I didn't really know where to begin as far as explaining so i'll leave this shyt alone
I said in the other thread about Black women rejecting good men who want them..
You have to understand, some of these women are very rough around the edges themselves having grown up under tough poverty conditions. Their ideal mate will always be a man who would have had massive respect in the rough hood she grew up in. That's another way women rate a man, by the respect he commands in public. That's hard to swallow for dudes who love and adore Black women but dude doesnt fit the Black woman's profile of an ideal man. You have to be loud, brash, overtly aggressive and basically a bum to get some women's attention. A chick from the hood wont readily just be attracted to a boring and square brother working corporate. He's too safe, cant protect her or himself in ghetto situations and that's what these women want. If youre not 100% hood life, then it's fukk you youre valueless to them.
You have to understand, some of these women are very rough around the edges themselves having grown up under tough poverty conditions. Their ideal mate will always be a man who would have had massive respect in the rough hood she grew up in. That's another way women rate a man, by the respect he commands in public. That's hard to swallow for dudes who love and adore Black women but dude doesnt fit the Black woman's profile of an ideal man. You have to be loud, brash, overtly aggressive and basically a bum to get some women's attention. A chick from the hood wont readily just be attracted to a boring and square brother working corporate. He's too safe, cant protect her or himself in ghetto situations and that's what these women want. If youre not 100% hood life, then it's fukk you youre valueless to them.
i think you reaching and sounding like a neo-Moynihan report, lotta problematic shyt in that op.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
So much bias in this post
If you have a son that bias you have against him will hurt him.
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OP aren't you a Cac? I swear me and my nikkas don't sit around thinking about Cac men and thier tendencies...but I notice you cacs are obsessed with how the black man thinks, moves, etc..shyt is weird once you notice every white person is like this...it's like why y'all oppress us so much but on our dikk about EVERYTHING we do...swear we don't think about y'all at all
Larry Lambo
Superstar
There are some bitter bi**es on LSA that prove otherwise.
And as far the female black equivalent, the "connection" doesn't come from similar interests or personality types. It comes from being at the bottom of the totem pole and having no other options. As a man you have a better chance of romantically "clicking" with someone who is dissimilar to you but is unattractive, than you do with a woman that has the same interests as you and is attractive. A lot of these "awkward black chicks" aren't really super compatible with these guys but since they are subpar looking and get no play they are willing to make it work.
I have had a few female friends that could be considered "awkward". The cute ones had no dating issues, or none that don't exist for all women. They would pay these guys dust The fat ones did have issues and would probably be interested in some of these guys. So the proposed solution for these men is to date fat chicks. Unless he's fat himself, I don't think that is a solution at all.
OP has a fair point. Somethin similar happened to me as a young man.
I was always forced to speak proper english as a kid. Couldn't even say can't and ain't
My mom never taught me shyt about blackness, pops wasn't around.
My mom stayed listening to pop music, and consuming white media (dynasty, dallas, matt houston, etc)
My mom taught me friends have no color, be open minded etc.
The result of these teachings hit their apex around the time i was 14-18 years old when me and my mom moved out of my granny's house. Living in a hood full of people i didn't know and didn't care to know so i was no longer engaging with black people. This is when i became Mr Multicultural. I was running thru the city doing graffiti with non blacks, coveting non black women. I was engaging in non black activities like racing imports, eating sushi and pho, playing street fighter, watching anime, etc. I stopped shooting hoop. My swag was kinda off. I dressed differently. Black males and females from the hood were put off by me. Black females wasn't really fukkin with me AT ALL.
Once i moved back with my granny in my old hood i started to reconnect with my people and get my swag back but now i had balance. I still retained all i learned in the world from being around so many non blacks but i wasn't awkward anymore. Even lost my proper accent (kinda wish i kept that sometimes). Black women definitely cooperate now, and non black women still cooperate but i haven't messed with a non black woman in a few years...
Holy shyt, we had a similar childhood
This thread kinda hit a nerve
So some of it is a little true
shyt
Voice of Reason
Veteran
Hold up! Is Op a Cac or not? 
Holy shyt, we had a similar childhood
This thread kinda hit a nerve
So some of it is a little true
shyt
I was hesitant to even make the thread because I was concerned about people taking it the wrong way or feeling attacked if they could relate to my observations.
Being able to say that the thread hit a nerve and reading posts from other posters who had a similar experience as you and being real enough to admit it isn't easy and I respect yall for that. Often, posters will read something that strikes a nerve and then attack the OP.
I respect thought out opinions. Some of what you said held merit when I can look back on past experiences and say
"Damn, he/she may be on to something"
I'm not afraid of self-reflection, no matter how uncomfortable it is.
But I'm weird like that
the_FUTURE
Superstar
Breh, this is oddly beyond specific just off one viewing of a 16 year kid. Is this off personal experience? Not even saying I don't agree either.
On the subject of black people "connecting" with each other:
I think that there's a conversation to be had that the rise and dominance of destructive images of blackness in the 2000s has really fukked up our ability to recognize blackness in each other. The constant images of "thug", "baller", and "bad bytch" have caused us to subconsciously construct a very narrow definition of blackness. Add to that the rise of interracial dating, and a lot of black people get swerved because "you look like somebody that only dates white people." A lot of black people struggling in the dating scene now probably would have done better in the'90s when we had a much wider range of images of blackness.
I think that there's a conversation to be had that the rise and dominance of destructive images of blackness in the 2000s has really fukked up our ability to recognize blackness in each other. The constant images of "thug", "baller", and "bad bytch" have caused us to subconsciously construct a very narrow definition of blackness. Add to that the rise of interracial dating, and a lot of black people get swerved because "you look like somebody that only dates white people." A lot of black people struggling in the dating scene now probably would have done better in the'90s when we had a much wider range of images of blackness.