It's not your fault you can't get Black women, blame your parents. [Black Men]

[Matt504]

That whole socially awkward excuse is false most of the time.

If a lady doesn't like a guy thanks to her having high standards and rejecting him because he looks average or him being below average looking then he will always be socially awkward or just a friend or like a brother to her.

I hate to generalize but some of yall chicks being tricking naive dudes with that excuse.

This "not attractive" excuse doesn't really pan out all that well considering there are a lot of males who are eating good that aren't necessarily the best looking dudes.

Kent, for example, isn't an unattractive Black male and would literally be out here eating very well if he could communicate with women but he can't and of course he doesn't accept any of the blame, he places the blame squarely on women wanting "thugs".

 

[filial_piety]

I agree, they should do all of these things but what they should NOT do is have grievances with other Black people who were raised and properly socialized to communicate and connect effectively with other Black people.

Black men who can't attract Black women but have no trouble attracting non-Black women usually place the blame on Black women for this.

No they don't. Generally those black men who primarily attract non-black men and date and/or marry them as a result are barraged with questions about why they aren't with black women by other black women. Then when answered an argument ensues.

 

[Matt504]

No they don't. Generally those black men who primarily attract non-black men and date and/or marry them as a result are barraged with questions about why they aren't with black women by other black women. Then when answered an argument ensues.

 

[filial_piety]

Case in point--why is she even asking them?

Why be upset just because you don't like the answer that they are giving you?

 

[Matt504]

Case in point--why is she even asking them?

Why be upset just because you don't like the answer that they are giving you?

yeah, why does anyone ever ask questions about anything?

 

[filial_piety]

yeah, why does anyone ever ask questions about anything?

Take how you like it bruh....but if these women don't want to know their reasons, because their feelings may get hurt, then they should cease to ask them accusatory questions.

Pretty obvious imo.

 

[Will Ross]

Matt is a genius dude basically said all black people are the same and all black women want the same type of man.
And people are agree with him lol.

 

[Blackout]

This "not attractive" excuse doesn't really pan out all that well considering there are a lot of males who are eating good that aren't necessarily the best looking dudes.

Kent, for example, isn't an unattractive Black male and would literally be out here eating very well if he could communicate with women but he can't and of course he doesn't accept any of the blame, he places the blame squarely on women wanting "thugs".

Kent is the exception and not the norm.

Dude may not look the best but if he is popular he can compensate because despite the dude looking average he is popular enough for a woman tonwct upon her attraction.

If you as an average dude can be friend zoned then you are not socially awkward. The chick either doesn't like you at all or she does but is holding out for above average because she is opportunistic. The latter of which is more common because an average nerdy breh aint popular.

I have rarely met nerdy brothas who are truly socially awkward with women. Its just that when they approach women most women ramp up the difficulty because of the reasons I previously said.

 

[Matt504]

Matt is a genius dude basically said all black people are the same and all black women want the same type of man.
And people are agree with him lol.

1. I'm not a genius.

2. people who can read and comprehend basic sentences understand that I'm not suggesting that all Black people are the same nor am I suggesting that all Black women want the same type of man. I do not agree with either suggestion because if we were all the same, there wouldn't be much room for any argument as we'd be on the same page about everything.

 

[Suleiman Bey]

Where was your father

in and out of prison.

 

[Street Knowledge]

I didn't read the OP thoroughly and now I'm just seeing he made this realization after seeing a 16 year old kid.

I'd be less concerned with the kid not being raised to click with black chicks and more concerned that he's not a confident well dressed individual. This is an issue in all communities but is amplified in the black community.

I really had to step in for my parents when my brother got to high school. He was very anti-social with zero friends, zero style, and just not cool on any level. I spent a lot of time/energy/money on helping him get in the game, so I know what it takes. A lot of parents don't really care, as long as the kids are excelling at school, then that's all that matters. But that's a very unhealthy situation that can lead to a Elliot Rodgers or Kent type dude.

This is real

 

[Matt504]

When it's time for these Black men to communicate with Black women who haven't been infected with Caucasian rhythms, there's only so much they can discuss before the Black woman determines that something is off about the Black man. Oftentimes, the woman can't quite put her finger on it and concludes that he's either gay or a weirdo, she knows he's nice but something is offputting about him and even though she may find him physically attractive, that's where it begins and ends.

 

[jackson35]

when you are not making any effort as a black man to change , then the fault lies on you

 

[MalikX]

No they don't. Generally those black men who primarily attract non-black men and date and/or marry them as a result are barraged with questions about why they aren't with black women by other black women. Then when answered an argument ensues.

You could make a thread on this frfr. If people left them alone, there would be no conflict. They say that black men in IRR should keep their mouths closed about black women but, they feel they can talk negatively about them. c00n this, c00n that, weak nikka that, self hater this but, don't you dare say a word back to us.

 

[Wild self]

The coli can't stop, won't stop!