Its okay to date average chicks brehs.....

[Soundbwoy]

I agree partly with this but don't think because a chick is homely she won't do you dirty too, keep one eye open like cbs

 

[JBoy]

my standards are decent face (well as long as she ain't predator in the face is more like it), decent waist, round booty, I never shot for the moon what can I say

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

Need help with the spin cycle?

 

[3rdWorld]

Those girls are for later when you've ran through the instagram hoes and are now tired and need to settle down..

 

[Da King]

we got one life

why in the fukk would you settle?

 

[the cac mamba]

@Michael9100

 

[Biscayne]

Well, this thread just confirmed that I'm going to be alone forever. Tragic.

No you won't..

 

[Da King]

people so desperate to be in relationships, I feel sorry for them. Saw my nikka the other day with this real :flabbynfif: looking bird, he just didn't want to be alone on Valentines day

 

[BaldingSoHard]

You make the grave mistake of assuming that a girl's homely looks/disposition equates to loyalty or essentially being a homebody.

This.

My girl is bad as fukk (ok not bad as fukk but she's 7-8 depending on the day) and she's the homebody type. As long as I give her dikk and food and make her laugh, she's good.
And she just surprised me with a Bahamas cruise for Valentines day.

 

[iBrowse]

This.

My girl is bad as fukk (ok not bad as fukk but she's 7-8 depending on the day) and she's the homebody type. As long as I give her dikk and food and make her laugh, she's good.
And she just surprised me with a Bahamas cruise for Valentines day.

It's basic. If you're attractive and have your shyt together on top of fukking her good then you're golden.

Add being the type of dude that wants to make her happy and she'll reciprocate abundantly. It's not rocket science.

 

[iBrowse]

people so desperate to be in relationships, I feel sorry for them. Saw my nikka the other day with this real :flabbyfif: looking bird, he just didn't want to be alone on Valentines day

I'm saying .

 

[iBrowse]

Well, this thread just confirmed that I'm going to be alone forever. Tragic.

You don't look like a nickel. Unless you made this post to bait someone into simping

 

[BaldingSoHard]

It's basic. If you're attractive and have your shyt together on top of fukking her good then you're golden.

Add being the type of dude that wants to make her happy and she'll reciprocate abundantly. It's not rocket science.

It really isn't but dudes on here (and in general) are so jaded that they're more concerned with "getting over" on their girl than they are with being in a mutually beneficial situation.

It's really just about maturity. Like you said, not rocket science.

 

[iBrowse]

Yall acting like dudes are turning down chicks at their level, to chase these elusive "dimes".

The reality is a lot of guys struggle pulling women at their level, especially younger men. These chicks have so many options when it comes to sex that many if not most of them ignore their male "equivalents" until they are older.

Pulling chicks at your level usually involves having a solid social circle or being involved in activities that put you in constant contact with single women. Yeah, you can pull women at a happy hour, at the grocery store, at the bookstore, but her instinct is the only be interested in the highest value male possible (which eliminates men at her level), until a man shows hubby type qualities over a period of time. A lot of men struggle to find their match because it takes some effort to put yourself in a situation that actually works. I can go to the club and pull a 4/5 jumpoff tonight. If I want a 7/8 gf type chick, I may have to make new friends, join clubs/meetups, go to church, to get an opportunity to appeal to a woman on that level. That can take a lot of time and requires a lot more effort.

Also, due to the lack of quality men capable of taking care of a family in the black community, our women are so used to just having men serve only as a sex toy, that a lot of them never adjust their "standards" in efforts to land a serious relationship. They just continue to shoot above their level and complain about men dogging them. The quality men that are out there seem to only get interest from women below their level, and then they end up dogging the women. It's a vicious cycle, that provides sexual gratification for both parties, and absolves blame from the women, but leaves both parties unsatisfied in the long run and is detrimental to the family structure.

Post is truth. I met my current (solid 8-9) through a public service club and everything's been gravy since.

 

[BooksnCookies]

You don't look like a nickel. Unless you made this post to bait someone into simping

Lol, no. I wasn't referring to looks, per se. I meant the "homebody" archetype. I don't go to clubs, party or do anything really other than work and school. That's not attractive to anyone. I'm trying though.