It's over fck bois
- Thread starter Rozay Oro
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. I'm not desperate for like some precious type of girl now
I don't plan to marry. fukk that 360 deal for civilians
Well then don't let outside pressures dictate your happiness. My wife of ten years would would be considered chubby / hood thick, and you'd be hard pressed to find anyone that doesn't wish that they could end up being with someone even half as solid as her. As long as she's healthy, has good hygiene and stays at least somewhat physically active, do what you gotta do and don't burn that bridge if/when you break it off.
feelosofer
#ninergang
If BBWs aren't you're preference you shouldn't date them seriously.
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paperbag
Death to the demoness Allegra Geller
Never thought of it that way. I'm a chubby myself so I don't know what a slim girls reaction would be.@StarGirl @xoxodede @Ms. Quick
I guess not. Its like secret life of
But fat girls do get the hint if you never seems to want to be seen out with them, we're not dumb, if every suggestion is to "hang out" or "chill", we would know what it is and make a decision to continue or cut you off.
There's a middle between blunt honesty of "I can't be seen outside with you" and selling dreams of a relationship
Then how is it settling?
You a grown ass man still worried about what other people think?
Ms. Quick
“If I don’t eat breakfast I’m fking pissed off!”
@StarGirl @xoxodede @Ms. Quick
Thank you but I'm average, 5'7 140lb
shyt I'm chubby when I sit down, that's no big deal. I wouldn't want to be with a dude who fukked super obese women though. Thats just picking fruit up off the ground
xoxodede
Superstar
@StarGirl @xoxodede @Ms. Quick
I guess not. Its like secret life ofpetsmen on here
But fat girls do get the hint if you never seems to want to be seen out with them, we're not dumb, if every suggestion is to "hang out" or "chill", we would know what it is and make a decision to continue or cut you off.
There's a middle between blunt honesty of "I can't be seen outside with you" and selling dreams of a relationship
I personally think if he is even asking the question - he needs to leave her alone. If he doesn't like her for who she is right now - he needs to leave her be - before he does or says something mentally damaging to her.
Asking people if they are "setting" because someone is over weight is nonsense and mean to me. Cause weight can be lost. And caring about what other people think about what he is clearly feeling -- is immature to me.
Yeah, I'm what some people may describe as thin or slimthick (5'2/ 123lbs) - but I also have been overweight aka chubby before - most people go through stages in their lives when they go up and down with weight - due to depression, health issues, etc. And she may be going through something that is causing her to keep the weight on.
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It's the secret life of men on here because men aren't allowed to express themselves IRL especially anything pertaining to women and the struggle with dealing with them or social imbalances based in gender (what each gender can get away with/must do).
@StarGirl @xoxodede @Ms. Quick
I guess not. Its like secret life ofpetsmen on here
But fat girls do get the hint if you never seems to want to be seen out with them, we're not dumb, if every suggestion is to "hang out" or "chill", we would know what it is and make a decision to continue or cut you off.
There's a middle between blunt honesty of "I can't be seen outside with you" and selling dreams of a relationship
We are living in an era where most chubby women can make an IG page and have dudes boosting their confidence via likes, comments, DMs. The era of "average/non-player breh breaking droughts with low self-esteem big girl" is waning down if not gone. Women of all shapes, sizes, complexions, tax brackets are making demands and upholding standards instead of having preferences.
"Hang out" and "chill", even though they aren't necessarily "let's hide from the public", are terms that are contentious to women's standards and need for men to take them on creative, thoughtful, even expensive dates from day 1.
The Coli will give their 6 foot 6 certs 6'ed out tales of cooperation, or their dusty cousins with the silver tongue, most average cats looking for consistent sex without emotional obligation are fighting an uphill battle. Being forthcoming or withholding traditional dates doesn't serve us well. I'm telling you as one of those guys, sincerity isn't fruitful.
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I've never disrespected a woman to her face unless she climbed that tree. I never manipulated a woman neither. I have always been truthful and shot myself in the foot. The last women I was with, we parted ways respectfully and I didn't even want it to end.
SheWantTheD
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Happy I don't have these problems lol
