It's time to dead the myth that bodybuilding = getting laid

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whether it's bodybuilding, buying new clothes, jewelry, etc... if the primary reason for indulging in these things is attracting women, it's really hustling backwards, esp. if you a young breh. do it all for YOU.
 

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Techniquelly you are correct that anyone can pull women

the reason "go to the gym" is doled out so often as advice is because the type of person who asks for advice in the first place is the type of person who could use the confidence boost (from physique and mental state) that going to the gym can bring
That's why I always say, a person's motivation for going to the gym to get in shape should never be to impress others, but rather a journey of taking control of their life by engaging in a healthy lifestyle. Access to more women is simply a byproduct of being fit. But a mindset is solely focused on impressing women instead of developing one's self, will almost always lead to no where. Because what happens when they finally do get laid, they'll come a point where they realize shyt isnt all it's cracked up to be...

Thus why you see a lot of sexually frustrated cats on BB forums...
 

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I literally got cat called the other day from a broad sitting in her car. I was just walking out the store with a tank top.

Was at another store last week, two broads staring directly at my chest one with her mouth hanging wide open.

At the strip club a while back just chilling, drinking... Stripper beside me was getting off, right leg shaking and shyt while another bytch was flirting with me. I've seen girls experience orgasm without me having to touch them no BS...

All this never happened to me up until I started not only lifting but eating right about 8 years ago. When you in shape women choose.

And I'm not even that big. 5'11 at 190... I just have low body fat
 

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Your post is going off the assumption that everyone is born with shyt genetics or with personalities geared towards the approval of others.
Some of us are wired different.
And when you aren't born with advantages you have to build them, that's part of the burden/duty of being a man. If a breh isn't blessed to be 6'3", black love movie heartthrob facially and called a "fine black king" since 9th grade should he do nothing?
 

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And when you aren't born with advantages you have to build them, that's part of the burden/duty of being a man. If a breh isn't blessed to be 6'3", black love movie heartthrob facially and called a "fine black king" since 9th grade should he do nothing?

Yall live in extremes:hubie::mjlol:


Never said the gym has no worth but its not mandatory for many of us nor should it be sold as a fix all solution to dry dikk.

Being buff wont help a short facially challenged nikka with no personality since yall love extremes.
 

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If you are an ugly dude, you’re the main one who needs to be in the gym getting your physique right and at work putting in OT to get your money up tf :pachaha:

you got Thor and Killmonger looking cats out here putting in work in the gym, you have no excuse not to be trying as much as them to be in shape
 

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I got all these nice clothes.. I want that shyt to fit me like a glove. Not hang off me like a poncho or be a fat ass in it

Such a waste
 

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so are you saying women couldn't tell what dude here went to the gym ?:wtf234:

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Weird seeing David Banner without grey hair
 

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Average dudes can get girls
Fat dudes can get girls
Skinny dudes can get girls
Muscular dudes can get girls

No the myth that NEEDS to die is ONLY one particular type of dude can get girls

IF YOU CAN'T GET GIRLS THE PROBLEM LIES WITH YOU
 
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