Men are always looking for 'get girls quick' schemes, The Coli's filled with them
'Just pump weight. THE WOMEN WILL FLOCK TO YOU'
'Just be a jerk. THE WOMEN WILL FLOCK TO YOU'
If relationships and attraction were that simple, there would be no lonely dudes/women, no breakups, no cheating, none of it.
This boneheaded advice is a) useless because it gives 1% of the picture b) does not focus on the FULL picture. OK you got a chick, can you keep her? No you can't because you can't hold a fukking conversation that doesn't sound like a Coli Rant about if KD is a bytch or not (he is, but I digress).
TO BE ATTRACTIVE, YOU NEED TO BE ATTRACTIVE. DUH. That goes beyond arm size (even though physical things can help of course, and the discipline it takes to get there also helps). But you need to be a multi-dimensional person - not an airhead doing curls. Someone who has some shyt going on and is fun (or quiet, depending on the person that is attracted to either qualities). Most importantly: you can't be living to attract girls/dudes. You gotta be living to live your life, the right person will want to fit in there be it as a FWB or a real partner.