It's tough dealing with women with emotional issues man...man a lot of women are straight up wrecks out there

[Mirin4rmfar]

It's like I feel like a lot of woman's happiness depend on other people too much. From discussions I have with female friends, even work place issues they make it bigger than it is. It is super odd. Make your money, go home and enjoy your space. Some of them feel like if they dont have the husband, kids etc their life is not going well. On the flipside, me, if bills are paid, I am heatlhy, I could go months being lonely and it wont bother me. Its hard to convince them they need to also enjoy their own happiness.

 

[Swirv]

It's like I feel like a lot of woman's happiness depend on other people too much. From discussions I have with female friends, even work place issues they make it bigger than it is. It is super odd. Make your money, go home and enjoy your space. Some of them feel like if they dont have the husband, kids etc their life is not going well. On the flipside, me, if bills are paid, I am heatlhy, I could go months being lonely and it wont bother me. Its hard to convince them they need to also enjoy their own happiness.

My wife’s single friends are miserable and wishing for a husband. I think a lot of women realize at an early age that they want a family when they grow up. When life doesn’t pan out how they thought, they get depressed.

As a man, I won’t be hard on that line of thinking because it builds communities, also, women have a cold biological clock. When that clock gets to the wee hours, they get desperate.

 

[Orbital-Fetus]

People in general are fukked up. I don't like going outside anymore.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

My wife’s single friends are miserable and wishing for a husband. I think a lot of women realize at an early age that they want a family when they grow up. When life doesn’t pan out how they thought, they get depressed.

As a man, I won’t be hard on that line of thinking because it builds communities, also, women have a cold biological clock. When that clock gets to the wee hours, they get desperate.

I didn't know how bad it was. I would be just as happy if I was single and enjoying life. Maybe in my 40s it would it but many dont genuinely just enjoy their own space. Some of them let it become too detrimental.

 

[WaveWhisperer]

I hope alot of folks get some help for themselves and face their issues. Mental health is just as important as anything else.

 

[get these nets]

Speak to female co-workers about non work related topics, brehs.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

My wife’s single friends are miserable and wishing for a husband. I think a lot of women realize at an early age that they want a family when they grow up. When life doesn’t pan out how they thought, they get depressed.

As a man, I won’t be hard on that line of thinking because it builds communities, also, women have a cold biological clock. When that clock gets to the wee hours, they get desperate.

This. I know so many women who are in their late 30s or early 40s and still haven't been married or don't have any children. It's sad because they want a husband, want a family...



But im only one man and I can't take care of all of them! Y'all coli brehs need to step it up!





















but forreal...

I'm serious. There are so many single women of that age out here that it's ridiculous. And they want a family and that biological clock keeps on ticking. I don't know what to make of it.

And there are so many men out there who are undesirable, meaning no goals, no game, nothing when it comes to getting women. Y'all don't understand how yall could be settling down right now if yall wasn't all "woe is me" and "sysbm" all the time. Hating women ain't the answer. Trying to "punish" women is getting yall nowhere.

But who am I even talking to at this point? I've come to the conclusion that my advice is wasted on coli brehs so I keep it to myself now.

Maybe polygamy is the answer. You and me gon have to start doubling and tripling up @Swirv

 

[aXiom]

Not just women, men too. A lot of people need therapy, especially post Covid. A lot of people could use someone to talk to, but they’re stuck in internal dialogue purgatory.

I don’t know what havoc the current mental health state of current adults will wreak in the future, worse for the ones raising kids.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

Speak to female co-workers about non work related topics, brehs.

female friends...i dont get personal with female co workers.

 

[Vandelay]

Men too. Men just don't share the shyt. We just drink, get high, gamble, hit the strip club, or go live in the woods. A lot of times by ourselves.

 

[Insensitive]

There are some profoundly fukked up angry ass people out here.
I didn't truly understand until I got older, not until I met more people in fukked up situations.
Financially screwed getting exploited by different people. struggling through
every single day.
You will meet some men and women who need help, BAD and they can't get it because
society tells them that they should just KNOW what to do and if they don't, they're failures.

I remember kicking it with this girl who was one of THE FLYEST in my highschool, went to her crib
and she was DOWN BAD, like BAD. She wasn't just different mentally, she looked like she had
aged like a cool fifteen years, she was antsy, stressed out, clearly depressed etc.
She did and clearly still does need help, there are many, many people in this position.

 

[skyrunner1]

This. I know so many women who are in their late 30s or early 40s and still haven't been married or don't have any children. It's sad because they want a husband, want a family...



But im only one man and I can't take care of all of them! Y'all coli brehs need to step it up!







but forreal...

I'm serious. There are so many single women of that age out here that it's ridiculous. And they want a family and that biological clock keeps on ticking. I don't know what to make of it.

And there are so many men out there who are undesirable, meaning no goals, no game, nothing when it comes to getting women. Y'all don't understand how yall could be settling down right now if yall wasn't all "woe is me" and "sysbm" all the time. Hating women ain't the answer. Trying to "punish" women is getting yall nowhere.

But who am I even talking to at this point? I've come to the conclusion that my advice is wasted on coli brehs so I keep it to myself now.

Maybe polygamy is the answer. You and me gon have to start doubling and tripling up @Swirv

Careful tho, I know sooo many party girls that cashed out coming out of covid.. I never been to soo many baby showers til last year, Im talking highly successful, type A personality types all popped up pregnant at the buzzer. Girls who were saying they didnt care to have kids or nothing, had a friend we would joke about it and she was catching flights to lock down her dude (but she was always bout that life, she converted to jewish religion JUST IN CASE she found a jewish dude )


They playing for keeps out here, ya keep thinking its sweet.. cover your 6

 

[Doobie Doo]

My wife’s single friends are miserable and wishing for a husband. I think a lot of women realize at an early age that they want a family when they grow up. When life doesn’t pan out how they thought, they get depressed.

As a man, I won’t be hard on that line of thinking because it builds communities, also, women have a cold biological clock. When that clock gets to the wee hours, they get desperate.

Because most women don't plan ahead long term. Many live for the short term without giving a thought on anything beyond two years. They don't have any realistic backup plans if their main plan fails cuz that would be "Settling"

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

A lot of women are raised to be extremely social as children and to desire being seen. Privacy and minding your business is something that is encouraged in boys but not girls.

What you end up with is a group of individuals who have immense anxiety around being alone. They have anxiety around not feeling wanted or being part of where everything is happening. The pandemic was hell on people like this.

Men can live in an apartment that only has a couch, recliner, weights and a computer and be good to go. But many of women's hobbies involve interactions with other people. Eventually you come to see people themselves as a form of entertainment. Your hobby isn't games, crafts, art, jogging, or shooting at the gym on your own. It's games with other people. Crafts in a group setting. Going to art classes with other people, going to the gym and recording yourself training. More interactions with people leads to higher chances that you'll have negative interactions. Negative interpretations of otherwise benign interactions makes you seem like your life is a TV show and someone who has things always happening to them. When you're someone with things always happening to them you have something to complain about, which then gives you a reason to interact with other people and a form of entertainment in seeing how they react to your stories. The attention is addictive and you start seeking out negative interactions so you get more and more of it. This is why some women consistently make bad choices in men. They literally become addicted to negativity and stuck in a cycle where they seek it, vent to other people, feel a sympathy high or protagonist syndrome and then repeat the cycle again.

A tell tale sign you're dealing with a drama addict is the amount of stories they tell where they're the victim of someone else's abuse. If 75% or more of the time, it's the other person who is in the wrong, I can almost guarantee you that she's going to find ways of interpreting things you do negatively and then telling other people that she's a victim of YOUR behavior. She will purposefully antagonize you and wear you out emotionally then say you're cold and distant. If you respond with passion, you're aggressive and you terrified her with your rage. If you're tearful, you were using your vulnerability to manipulate her and make her feel guilty for 'being outspoken' with these kinds of women, they have become so adept at engineering no win situations that your only hope is to never get involved with them in the first place.

Tragically however most of us have them in our families. They're cousins, sisters, aunts, grandmothers, mothers, and even daughters

 

[Savvir]

I remember kicking it with this girl who was one of THE FLYEST in my highschool, went to her crib
and she was DOWN BAD, like BAD. She wasn't just different mentality, she looked like she had
aged like a cool fifteen years, she was antsy, stressed out, clearly depressed etc.
She did and clearly still does need help, there are many, many people in this position.

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