It's tough dealing with women with emotional issues man...man a lot of women are straight up wrecks out there

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

A lot of women are raised to be extremely social as children and to desire being seen. Privacy and minding your business is something that is encouraged in boys but not girls.

What you end up with is a group of individuals who have immense anxiety around being alone. They have anxiety around not feeling wanted or being part of where everything is happening. The pandemic was hell on people like this.

Men can live in an apartment that only has a couch, recliner, weights and a computer and be good to go. But many of women's hobbies involve interactions with other people. Eventually you come to see people themselves as a form of entertainment. Your hobby isn't games, crafts, art, jogging, or shooting at the gym on your own. It's games with other people. Crafts in a group setting. Going to art classes with other people, going to the gym and recording yourself training. More interactions with people leads to higher chances that you'll have negative interactions. Negative interpretations of otherwise benign interactions makes you seem like your life is a TV show and someone who has things always happening to them. When you're someone with things always happening to them you have something to complain about, which then gives you a reason to interact with other people and a form of entertainment in seeing how they react to your stories. The attention is addictive and you start seeking out negative interactions so you get more and more of it. This is why some women consistently make bad choices in men. They literally become addicted to negativity and stuck in a cycle where they seek it, vent to other people, feel a sympathy high or protagonist syndrome and then repeat the cycle again.

A tell tale sign you're dealing with a drama addict is the amount of stories they tell where they're the victim of someone else's abuse. If 75% or more of the time, it's the other person who is in the wrong, I can almost guarantee you that she's going to find ways of interpreting things you do negatively and then telling other people that she's a victim of YOUR behavior. She will purposefully antagonize you and wear you out emotionally then say you're cold and distant. If you respond with passion, you're aggressive and you terrified her with your rage. If you're tearful, you were using your vulnerability to manipulate her and make her feel guilty for 'being outspoken' with these kinds of women, they have become so adept at engineering no win situations that your only hope is to never get involved with them in the first place.

Tragically however most of us have them in our families. They're cousins, sisters, aunts, grandmothers, mothers, and even daughters

Hurt ppl hurt ppl. Most of them aren't even doing it intentionally. It's just all they know.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

It's like I feel like a lot of woman's happiness depend on other people too much. From discussions I have with female friends, even work place issues they make it bigger than it is. It is super odd. Make your money, go home and enjoy your space. Some of them feel like if they dont have the husband, kids etc their life is not going well. On the flipside, me, if bills are paid, I am heatlhy, I could go months being lonely and it wont bother me. Its hard to convince them they need to also enjoy their own happiness.

The need for companionship is a universal human need breh. Just because us men can compartmentalize and suppress it to a certain extent, doesn't mean that it goes away.

Women have a stronger biological clock so they can't suppress it as easily.

 

[Swirv]

This. I know so many women who are in their late 30s or early 40s and still haven't been married or don't have any children. It's sad because they want a husband, want a family...



But im only one man and I can't take care of all of them! Y'all coli brehs need to step it up!





















but forreal...

I'm serious. There are so many single women of that age out here that it's ridiculous. And they want a family and that biological clock keeps on ticking. I don't know what to make of it.

And there are so many men out there who are undesirable, meaning no goals, no game, nothing when it comes to getting women. Y'all don't understand how yall could be settling down right now if yall wasn't all "woe is me" and "sysbm" all the time. Hating women ain't the answer. Trying to "punish" women is getting yall nowhere.

But who am I even talking to at this point? I've come to the conclusion that my advice is wasted on coli brehs so I keep it to myself now.

Maybe polygamy is the answer. You and me gon have to start doubling and tripling up @Swirv

I ain’t trying to get these women out here touched. My wife already told me she’ll kill the next chick I put my D in

Because most women don't plan ahead long term. Many live for the short term without giving a thought on anything beyond two years. They don't have any realistic backup plans if their main plan fails cuz that would be "Settling"

Any woman (or person) moving like this is making a mistake.

 

[Insensitive]

did you hit...

Nah. It was such a bad situation that I wasn't feelin' it.
Felt exploitative.

I'm up and she's DOWN, I mean DOWN.
I left it alone. Didn't want those issues.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Why are you taking on the emotional baggage for a woman you ain’t smashing?

Dealing with my girlfriend’s emotions is tiring enough. Respectfully, I don’t give a damn what the next woman is going through outside of my girl and my family.

That’s why I don’t have any female friends. You’re not bringing me anything but your own drama. Business associates? Sure. But don’t bring your personal life to my table. I’m always firm on that.

Edit: and when I was in the office, I was accused of being aloof because I didn’t discuss my personal life. Yeah bytch. Because if I do, you’ll take that as an opening to unload your personal baggage. So glad I work from home now.

 

[the bossman]

Not just women, men too. A lot of people need therapy, especially post Covid. A lot of people could use someone to talk to, but they’re stuck in internal dialogue purgatory.

I don’t know what havoc the current mental health state of current adults will wreak in the future, worse for the ones raising kids.

Facts. It's not just a woman only thing. We just had a young breh with a bright future shoot & kill a mom in Alabama for not giving him attention.

People are hurting out here

 

[Michael's Black Son]

My wife’s single friends are miserable and wishing for a husband. I think a lot of women realize at an early age that they want a family when they grow up. When life doesn’t pan out how they thought, they get depressed.

As a man, I won’t be hard on that line of thinking because it builds communities, also, women have a cold biological clock. When that clock gets to the wee hours, they get desperate.

These chicks have emotional grenade factories on the side and view them as a hot girl fireworks Etsy shops instead.

Then they wonder why shyt is a complete disaster when it all blows up and they are a basket case of emotions, delusions, being washed and not realizing that they are as basic as the next female. The realization that being mediocre is the apex for most would have them depressed eternally.

And it’s obvious when you see how many would risk their lives for Dr Frankenstein to give them a new booty, t*ts and vacuum up the Krang looking stomach they’ve been harvesting for years.

We are in some crazy times.

And I love it. Because I can navigate it



RIP Kevin Samuels

 

[Oatmeal]

There are some profoundly fukked up angry ass people out here.
I didn't truly understand until I got older, not until I met more people in fukked up situations.
Financially screwed getting exploited by different people. struggling through
every single day.
You will meet some men and women who need help, BAD and they can't get it because
society tells them that they should just KNOW what to do and if they don't, they're failures.

I remember kicking it with this girl who was one of THE FLYEST in my highschool, went to her crib
and she was DOWN BAD, like BAD. She wasn't just different mentally, she looked like she had
aged like a cool fifteen years, she was antsy, stressed out, clearly depressed etc.
She did and clearly still does need help, there are many, many people in this position.

did you hit...

Nah. It was such a bad situation that I wasn't feelin' it.
Felt exploitative.

I'm up and she's DOWN, I mean DOWN.
I left it alone. Didn't want those issues.

Don't live up to your Username brehs..

 

[Anton]

Why are you taking on the emotional baggage for a woman you ain’t smashing?

Dealing with my girlfriend’s emotions is tiring enough. Respectfully, I don’t give a damn what the next woman is going through outside of my girl and my family.

That’s why I don’t have any female friends. You’re not bringing me anything but your own drama. Business associates? Sure. But don’t bring your personal life to my table. I’m always firm on that.

Edit: and when I was in the office, I was accused of being aloof because I didn’t discuss my personal life. Yeah bytch. Because if I do, you’ll take that as an opening to unload your personal baggage. So glad I work from home now.

women are way more interesting than men... they make better friends too

 

[Savvir]

Nah. It was such a bad situation that I wasn't feelin' it.
Felt exploitative.

I'm up and she's DOWN, I mean DOWN.
I left it alone. Didn't want those issues.

all jokes aside, you a real one...

society would have less problems if more nikkas was like you

 

[ThrobbingHood]

women are way more interesting than men... they make better friends too

Ok hun.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

The media has something to do with one of the problems. Little girls grow up watching fairy tales, and romance movies, and expect relationships to be non stop romantic gestures, elaborate dates, and a man falling head over heels in love with her, and worshiping the ground she walks on. When she realizes life isn’t like that, it can translate into thinking men don’t put any effort in.

Now we’ve seen brehs want to put in the absolute bare minimum, not even wanting to take a woman out to dinner, but that’s not what I’m talking about. To women, being married is like a status level. They want the title, and the ring, and the ability to show off to their friends. This is why you have women trying to dictate what kind of proposal they want. One of my friends got his girl’s ring, and let it sit in his desk drawer for 3 months, because she insisted on some over the top proposal, so she could have a good story. He eventually proposed, but it was after dinner, during a walk. She made up a lie about the actual proposal, so she could post about it. 7 years later, they are still married, but living separately, and in relationships with other people. And this is not a black woman.

 

[Insensitive]

Don't live up to your Username brehs..

I'm older now.
A young me would've hit her with the

 

[TheHonorableOmarSharif]

I didn't know how bad it was. I would be just as happy if I was single and enjoying life. Maybe in my 40s it would it but many dont genuinely just enjoy their own space. Some of them let it become too detrimental.

You have perspective. It'll take you far.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

People in general are fukked up. I don't like going outside anymore.

The internet along with Covid-19 exposed how mentally fukked up a lot of humans are