I’ve been with my girl for a year now and I’m tired of smashing the same coochie.

[NoMayo15]

Welcome to being a man, OP. Those feelings of "wandering eyes" never stop, even if you're with the girl of your dreams....but you do have a choice on whether you act on those impulses or not.

Monogamy ain't natural.

 

[Mordith]

Just be upfront and let her know you wanna start messing with other women.

Let her know that she can go if she wants but that’s what you’re gonna do.

You gotta be cool with it both ways tho. Don’t negotiate with her.

Facts.

The real issue with OP is nikkas who are really in "The Game" aren't cuffing. Fear of commitment is what nikkas who want to hold on to their main while playing the field as well suffer from.

 

[jilla82]

btw OP...

Tell your girl you inherited a few g's from a long lost family member...or say you got a promotion.

Watch how good she fuks that night

 

[JordanwiththeWiz]

It always hurts to lost a good girl. Every nikka in the world lost a good one. Then you stuck looking at her post pictures of her family vacation on Facebook, looking happy with her husband and kids thinking damn that should’ve been me if I didn’t fukk it all up.

 

[010101]

oxytocin doesn't hit us the same

if you really tapping a female out she'll stick to you

women do long-term relationships better than we do they are wired for it

men we are wired to be restless if we were not humankind would have gone extinct already ha

*

 

[iBrowse]

 

[SadimirPutin]

So break up with her

How fukking hard is this..

 

[serial]

Breh, I’ve smashed dimes, solid 8s and average women. p*ssy is p*ssy. The novelty of dating a dime wears off quickly. The novelty of fukking one wears off faster.

Once you realize women are women regardless of their looks or social status, you stop putting their p*ssy on a pedestal.

My current woman is objectively a 6 in the the face, with a 9/10 body. Facially, she’s not a dime in the face like my previous women but her other qualities out shine their aesthetics.

I know you simp nikkas are gonna be like “how can you say that? Your woman should be the most beautiful to you.” I’m just a realist. Looks fade. There has to be more than your face and p*ssy to keep a man around.


The most important quality about my woman is... listen closely women, I LIKE HER. If a man genuinely likes you, he’ll do everything in his power not to do you wrong. A lot of men love you out of obligation but love is more important to women than men. A man could hate your guts but tolerate you because you’re the mother of his children, you’ve been through a lot etc. I love my family but there’s a lot of them I wouldn’t want to spend my extended time with because they’re not all likeable.

When a man genuinely likes a woman, you’ll notice the difference in his demeanour towards you. He’ll do anything to keep you around. He’ll value you more as person. But I know this will fall on deaf ears because women would rather focus on being fukkable as opposed to likeable.

This...

 

[Westwood]

The only way to save your relationship is to cheat on her. No amount of 'spicing things up', changing positions, role playing will work, because you are fukking the same p*ssy.

I think it is time as humanity to have this wider discussion about sexual and social monogamy.

If we as males are inclined to have sex with different females but pair bond with one female, then sexual monogamy is unnatural.

Absolutely! 100% agreed. For us men, there is a meaningful difference between sexual and emotional monogamy. The latter is feasible; the former is unnatural for us.

 

[EndDomination]

It be like that sometimes
Just remember that you love her, and try some new things

 

[Genos]

OP consider taking a break. I’m sure she is probably bored fukking the same dude too. That’s not a dig at your sex game. That’s just saying she’s human too and we all get tired of the same thing all the time.

If it’s purely sexual, is the quality of your sex with her pretty good? If so, it might just be the monotony. Try building sexual tension. Give each other a challenge to not fukk for a certain time period while still teasing each other.

If it’s just the lure and excitement of a new sexual encounter, avoid the drama and take a break. One of the reasons women react so badly to cheating is b/c it’s one-sided. We end up making sacrifices in our sexual and emotional needs for someone who isn’t doing the same for us, when we could be getting sexual satisfaction as well.

Which is something all humans deserve and need. So take a break. Hit that Donnell Jones “Where I Wanna Be”. But if you truly care about her and not just operating in ego and possessiveness, let her go during this break to explore her needs too. Nobody should be alone in a relationship while you doing you.

If the love is strong, ya’ll will come back to each other. If not, that’s life and you move on.

"But what if she fukks a nikka who has a bigger dikk than me!"
-cheating nikkas


I feel the sentiment but that's why I dont cheat, I would hate for the same to happen to me

 

[Westwood]

Thankful my Girl let me have some threesomes occasionally. Same puss gets boring after a while, anybody saying otherwise is a liar or a simpleton. Love my girl and don’t see my life not including her but I need the occasional new p*ssy sampler plate in my life to keep me happy.

This right here reflects male nature, and should become the norm.

 

[Ahadi]

Honestly to break this you have to get off Social Media. All that shyt makes your eye wander and when you see all these women on social media it will trigger you to think that the grass is greener on the other side. Having social media is good when your single but I wouldn't advise it if your in a serious commited relationship.

100%

 

[EndDomination]

Be a man and spice it up or break up with her. That cheating shyt for the birds. I dont respect it.
Learn how to communicate with your girl.

 

[Ahadi]

But how do you know this? You don't. you just made that up.






OP, here's what I would say: Don't throw away a good relationship just cause you tired of the sex. From what you say, it sounds like this is a good woman.

Do you know how hard it is to find a good woman these days? It's EXTREMELY hard. go into the Gems on women thread sometimes and read and see how those brehs are going through it, and I guarantee you that you will count your blessings.

We can get sex from anywhere. You can, I can, but is it worth it? I don't think it is.

If you got a keeper, keep her. The grass always looks greener on the other side, but once you get over there, you'll quickly find out it was a mirage.

Trust me on this, man.

Preach