I’ve been with my girl for a year now and I’m tired of smashing the same coochie.

[ThrobbingHood]

So it's no hope for a happy marriage at this point?

Of course there is. As long as concessions are allowed and there’s open dialogue. But both men and women are too scared to be honest about what they want Incase in puts the relationship in jeopardy.

Why be in a relationship?

The reason 99.999% are: convenience.
Dual Income >>> Single income.
Access to instant sex >>> chasing it.
Home cooked meals >>>> fast food.

Despite all that, a peace of mind>>>> all of the above. But if She’s causing me a headache, I’ll take the latter options over the former.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

You're not the relationship type..

No, he just needs to create desire. If you eat when you’re not hungry, you’re not creating an appetite and will get bored easily.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

There are plenty of women that ain't interested in going out spreading their legs for random men. It's alarming that you think that most women want to do this.


you lowkey exposing yourself.

I was wondering when the shaming would hit. Good sir. You low key doing what you accused women of doing—not listening. You can’t demonize women for being human.

Human beings...ALL human beings, have the propensity to get bored when exposed to the same stimuli over and over again.

Basic cognitive science. If that’s the case, he needs to be realistic and recognize this possibility for her just like it is for him and decide on what to do about it.

But trying to deny human desire for variety in 1/2 of humanity by shaming them for it won’t make it go away. Spice it up. Communicate. Build tension by refraining from having sex for a lil bit. There are ways to troubleshoot it but getting in your ego over the possibility of somebody not wanting the same ole stroke for 40+ years won’t make the issue go away. Why is it so hard to imahine females as normal sexual human beings without defaulting to nonsense? Too many people take this gender shyt so far that they forget that we are all human beings at the end of the day.

 

[Jahbarri]

She’s a cool girl and all and I really like her but the sex has become boring

shyt feels the same and my eyes are beginning to wander but at the same time I don’t want to lose her

Pass her over here playboi just kidding

 

[Jahbarri]

And hear I am annoyed at my man of almost 3 years cause he still wants to fukk me twice a day everyday.

Im about to go apologize

113 simps dapped that don’t ask me god

 

[3rdWorld]

No, he just needs to create desire. If you eat when you’re not hungry, you’re not creating an appetite and will get bored easily.

No, you cant trick your mind into desiring what it does not..yes, you can force yourself to do a dirty job like sanitation and sewage work but sexual desire works a little different.

He's just be forcing the situation, delaying the inevitable and lying to himself.

They're both on borrowed time now..

 

[ThrobbingHood]

No, you cant trick your mind into desiring what it does not..yes, you can force yourself to do a dirty job like sanitation and sewage work but sexual desire works a little different.

He's just be forcing the situation, delaying the inevitable and lying to himself.

They're both on borrowed time now..

Nah, I read what he said. They’re spending too much time together. The best meals are when you’re hungry after working out or having a long day. Simply eating just to eat won’t cause hunger. Simply having sex all the time will diminish they desire.

It’s completely natural to get somewhat bored of sleeping with the same person all the time. That’s why it needs to be done in moderation. It may be over for his current relationship but he needs to learn how to avoid it again.

The reason my current relationship works is because I don’t see her everyday. That creates desire and a wanting to see her. If she lived with me, I doubt we would’ve made it through this pandemic. I looked at my previous relationships and I began to resent them because they were always around.

Eventually, you’re going to step on each other’s toes. It’s inevitable. Me not living with my woman works. I know eventually once we decide to get married, we’ll have to live together but as long as we establish “me” time, that shouldn’t be a problem.

 

[3rdWorld]

Nah, I read what he said. They’re spending too much time together. The best meals are when you’re hungry after working out or having a long day. Simply eating just to eat won’t cause hunger. Simply having sex all the time will diminish they desire.

It’s completely natural to get somewhat bored of sleeping with the same person all the time. That’s why it needs to be done in moderation. It may be over for his current relationship but he needs to learn how to avoid it again.

The reason my current relationship works is because I don’t see her everyday. That creates desire and a wanting to see her. If she lived with me, I doubt we would’ve made it through this pandemic. I looked at my previous relationships and I began to resent them because they were always around.

Eventually, you’re going to step on each other’s toes. It’s inevitable. Me not living with my woman works. I know eventually once we decide to get married, we’ll have to live together but as long as we establish “me” time, that shouldn’t be a problem.

My first comment in this thread was basically, just make babies and live alone..

A man is generally a solitary creature, of habit..he treats everyone around him better if his mind is free and not bogged down with the presence of other constantly around him.

 

[Astroslik]

Thankful my Girl let me have some threesomes occasionally. Same puss gets boring after a while, anybody saying otherwise is a liar or a simpleton. Love my girl and don’t see my life not including her but I need the occasional new p*ssy sampler plate in my life to keep me happy.

You won.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I was wondering when the shaming would hit. Good sir. You low key doing what you accused women of doing—not listening. You can’t demonize women for being human.

Human beings...ALL human beings, have the propensity to get bored when exposed to the same stimuli over and over again.

Basic cognitive science. If that’s the case, he needs to be realistic and recognize this possibility for her just like it is for him and decide on what to do about it.

But trying to deny human desire for variety in 1/2 of humanity by shaming them for it won’t make it go away. Spice it up. Communicate. Build tension by refraining from having sex for a lil bit. There are ways to troubleshoot it but getting in your ego over the possibility of somebody not wanting the same ole stroke for 40+ years won’t make the issue go away. Why is it so hard to imahine females as normal sexual human beings without defaulting to nonsense? Too many people take this gender shyt so far that they forget that we are all human beings at the end of the day.

I agree with the general premise that women are attracted to other men in their life.

What I'm saying is that women are not trying to control the inner lustful demons at all time like men are.

Men desire to sow our oats on a level that women can't even fathom.

As I told you in another thread, if it was up to a man, we'd do ALL of yall. Beautiful face, butterface, slim, thick, as long as you got a halfway decent body, if the stars aligned we would smash.

Women can't even begin to understand how drawn we are to want to sex multiple women at all times.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

113 simps dapped that don’t ask me god

You see that too

 

[Armchair Militant]

Scarcity mindset

 

[H@LLOW]

nikkas have just as much desire for drama as females.

Get married brehettes.

they’re HVM. Let them be.

 

[King Frost]

focus on yourself not pvssy