I’ve been with my girl for a year now and I’m tired of smashing the same coochie.

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We don’t live together but we see each other quite a lot.

I want to try new p*ssy. I’m too young to be shackled to just one even if she’s an amazing woman
Damn, that’s worse. There’s a reason the sayings go “absence makes the heart grow fonder” and “familiarity breeds contempt”. You need to give each other space.

Also... I’m not going to tell you to cheat because that’s wrong. But I’m also not going to tell you that cheating doesn’t help either.:francis:
 

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No amount of “spicing things up” will help.

yeah it would. nikkas are not creative.
and haven't done enough exploration of their bodies.

find other pleasure zones like feet.
get some sex toys.
oils.
leather.
candle wax.
electricity.
bring in a third.

sex shouldn't get boring unless you're a boring person.
majority of the time, I'm good with just foreplay.
don't even need to fukk.

eating p*ssy and just fukking doggy and missionary will get boring fast with anybody.

plus you shouldn't have time to fukk everyday. another sign that you're a boring person.
 

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You gotta create some separation. I have a wandering eye myself. But what gives me grass is greener syndrome more than anything is always being together.

Familiarity breeds contempt, Absence makes the heart grower fonder...

Yada, Yada, yada...

Just fill your day with productive shyt; gym, work, staying in touch with your boys, hobbies...try not to get too wrapped up social media. I unfollowed all the IG thots I used to follow. I used to not be able to scroll 3 lines without an ass popping up on my screen.

This describe me to the T lol had to delete some of my old homemade videos on my phone , unfollow and mute all the old joints I smashed . Wandering eyes is a bytch , I be feeling guilty af when I find another woman attractive. But yea sex has become a bit repetitive, I’ll fall back a bit and see her 2-3 times a week .
 

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A girl I used to go with sensed I was getting bored with sex with her. She started buying condoms just to throw them away and leave the empty condom wrappers in her car. She would do things like rush straight to the shower when she got home to make me think she was washing sex off of her.

Turned me the fukk on:wow:


:mjlol:You’re a damn cuck
 

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She’s a cool girl and all and I really like her but the sex has become boring :francis:

shyt feels the same and my eyes are beginning to wander but at the same time I don’t want to lose her :mjcry:


It's about you, not the coochie.

On one hand you gotta get it out of your system.
If you have the energy to pull, do it.
You don't want to end up like Tiger Woods or any other breh who settled down too quick.

On the other hand, that's your ego talking about not wanting to lose her.
Your ego would be upset to leave her and let the next man fukk.
You can't have it both ways.

Know that you will not suddenly stop wanting new coochie.
But at some point you start thinking that chasing it is not as important as your other priorities in life.
 

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She’s a cool girl and all and I really like her but the sex has become boring :francis:

shyt feels the same and my eyes are beginning to wander but at the same time I don’t want to lose her :mjcry:
If you’re not married, you should definitely get some outside p*ssy and hide it from her.

You’re already technically living in sin. No need to be completely miserable.

If you are married. You need to live up to your commitment. Tell her how you feel. If she doesn’t make the needed adjustment, dissolve the marriage or learn to be disciplined enough to stifle your desires.
 
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