I've never been one to hit the bar alone but I am here now

CrimsonTider

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:russ:. It's not introverted at all.


When you turn 21 i thoroughly encourage you to roll dolo to a chill spot and learn to strike up a convo on your own with strangers. It's the best way to learn how to master yourself.
Friends > Solo

Always,

Only people who are awkward socially and dont have friends try to say otherwise
 

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One of the 1st chicks I met after moving to ATL was going out solo to a sports bar. She was there solo herself. I saw her sitting alone for the longest so I went up to her and introduced myself.

I think its more common than people think, especially in bigger cities.
Yup.
They show it on TV all the time too lol
People are regulars and just chat with bar tenders and shyt
 

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This right here.

Also If you're on a mission to smash rolling solo to a medium sized bar that you've never been to might be the best option. This is a special message to all the brehs that fukk with online dating :ufdup:

Nothing worse than pulling a chick and having to deal with your Homeboy(s) who mill about full well knowing that they should give you enough room to seal the deal. Hell, I don't care if you were my ride and you pulled, fukk how I'm getting home, I'll be alright go and handle that:salute:. But some dudes ain't willing to show you that sort of love and you usually find out at the most inopportune times too. :snoop:
 

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:patrice:Thinking of doing this in a hour...my girl is out of town and this is a new area.
 

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:patrice:I'll try this in two weeks. I just need to develop some passions/hobbies.
 

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used to do this when I got off work at midnight just to break the monotony of not having a social life after work. one or twice a week

Go to a sports bar in my hood. The crowd was mixed races and ages. After a couple times the bartenders became friendly. Used to have great conversations and party some nights. Met a lot of people in my neighbourhood as well, professors, chefs, lawyers... nikkaz that dip out when their wives bytching :laff:. Had some adventures with women and even one of the bartenders.

I stopped going after I got back working regular hours. But that was fun. I brought my girl there one time and she was hella impressed. They played my song as soon as we walked in (NO TYPE :pachaha:) and all the brehs I knew came up and met her. She was from a hipster part of town and her area had no communal spirit like mine, she loved it. I avoided hipster bars. Me personally I'd rather be at a dive bar than the cool spot. The cool bar down the street had better drinks but the service was ass.

Going out solo can be adventure as long as you not the type to get into fukk shyt.
 

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used to do this when I got off work at midnight just to break the monotony of not having a social life after work. one or twice a week

Go to a sports bar in my hood. The crowd was mixed races and ages. After a couple times the bartenders became friendly. Used to have great conversations and party some nights. Met a lot of people in my neighbourhood as well, professors, chefs, lawyers... nikkaz that dip out when their wives bytching :laff:. Had some adventures with women and even one of the bartenders.

I stopped going after I got back working regular hours. But that was fun. I brought my girl there one time and she was hella impressed. They played my song as soon as we walked in (NO TYPE :pachaha:) and all the brehs I knew came up and met her. She was from a hipster part of town and her area had no communal spirit like mine, she loved it. I avoided hipster bars. Me personally I'd rather be at a dive bar than the cool spot. The cool bar down the street had better drinks but the service was ass.

Going out solo can be adventure as long as you not the type to get into fukk shyt.
Sound fun as fukk
 

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It's sunday. People won't be too deep and the cliques probably won't be too deep either (ie people will be friendlier cuz of that).


Scan the room and try to notice the brunettes giving you the glance :queen::whew:



Check back in if you need advice :obama:





And we'll proceed to put you in a good spot for some sunday funday fukkery (the good kind )

:Iseeyou34:
 

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It's sunday. People won't be too deep and the cliques probably won't be too deep either (ie people will be friendlier cuz of that).


Scan the room and try to notice the brunettes giving you the glance :queen::whew:



Check back in if you need advice :obama:





And we'll proceed to put you in a good spot for some sunday funday fukkery (the good kind )

:Iseeyou34:
Right when I was bout to bounce some fukkery went down. Good tho cause now I just shytted. I will arrive late idgaf. Atleast want some light drink and enjoy music loud as hell. Just want to get out the crib.
 
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