I've dealt with the same thing, just from sexting with girls before (not trying to brag on the internet).
She'll be trying to soft flex about how good she is in bed, send me a pick or two, and then I'll send her one.
The last girl actually said we may not be able to have vaginal sex at all, because she's scared I'll damage her cervix, or tear into her wall or something

Oral helps relax a girl, and loosen her up a bit, it also makes the sex more enjoyable for both parties, and an orgasm faster, and easier for her.
Not an L at all,
